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04-20-10 10:29 PM
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Have you ever met someone or saw someone and wished you had known her/him better because you sort of liked her/him? Especially if you wouldn't see that person again? That just happened to me recently and I feel pretty bummed out , so I was wondering if anyone else had this kind of experience before.
Have you ever met someone or saw someone and wished you had known her/him better because you sort of liked her/him? Especially if you wouldn't see that person again? That just happened to me recently and I feel pretty bummed out , so I was wondering if anyone else had this kind of experience before.
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Yes, I have had that experience before. It really sucks. I'm sorry man, it's not a fun thing feeling.
Yes, I have had that experience before. It really sucks. I'm sorry man, it's not a fun thing feeling.
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I know what you mean, man. Seems to happen to me whenever my church youth group does something with our Association. And then I most likely never see her again . Either that, or she already has a boyfriend .
I know what you mean, man. Seems to happen to me whenever my church youth group does something with our Association. And then I most likely never see her again . Either that, or she already has a boyfriend .
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I had an experience like yours in the past, it was horrible.
But I think that when you found some obstacles in your life, it's for a good reason.
Imagine if you had something with her and this didn't have a good ending..., you should tell yourself that maybe it's better this way.
I believe that there is a bigger plan for all that happen in our life, even if these are bad things.
So, don't worry. I'm sure that your true love is about to come in your life sooner or later
I had an experience like yours in the past, it was horrible.
But I think that when you found some obstacles in your life, it's for a good reason.
Imagine if you had something with her and this didn't have a good ending..., you should tell yourself that maybe it's better this way.
I believe that there is a bigger plan for all that happen in our life, even if these are bad things.
So, don't worry. I'm sure that your true love is about to come in your life sooner or later
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Originally posted by bignatealpha
I know what you mean, man. Seems to happen to me whenever my church youth group does something with our Association. And then I most likely never see her again . Either that, or she already has a boyfriend .

Yeah we had a church lock-in, so there was people from a different church. I doubt i'd see her again. :/
Noelia, you're right though. I know I experience a lot of bad things in life and they just end up making me more prepared for other bad things that might come at me. And even though know my true love will come sooner or later, i'd really like to at least meet her really soon lol
Originally posted by bignatealpha
I know what you mean, man. Seems to happen to me whenever my church youth group does something with our Association. And then I most likely never see her again . Either that, or she already has a boyfriend .

Yeah we had a church lock-in, so there was people from a different church. I doubt i'd see her again. :/
Noelia, you're right though. I know I experience a lot of bad things in life and they just end up making me more prepared for other bad things that might come at me. And even though know my true love will come sooner or later, i'd really like to at least meet her really soon lol
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Yeah, I had an experience like that years ago. Knew the guy for years but didn't really talk to him because we ran in different circles, yet when s*** was going down he was the only person in his little popular crowd that was nice to me. That was at the end of 8th grade and that summer he moved to Mexico and I never saw him again. I always felt like I missed out on at the very least a nice friendship because we never got to talk.
Yeah, I had an experience like that years ago. Knew the guy for years but didn't really talk to him because we ran in different circles, yet when s*** was going down he was the only person in his little popular crowd that was nice to me. That was at the end of 8th grade and that summer he moved to Mexico and I never saw him again. I always felt like I missed out on at the very least a nice friendship because we never got to talk.
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Plenty of times. Not always the greatest feeling but i realize now that it was for the best for at least me.
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Happened to me many times but its for the better, it makes you stronger and to realize that you cant rely on others to find happieness; instead find it within yourself.
Happened to me many times but its for the better, it makes you stronger and to realize that you cant rely on others to find happieness; instead find it within yourself.
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If you don't like losing your chance, you have to take initiative. Girls like feeling wanted, so if you go for it you can't lose. Either she'll appreciate that you think she's so special you overcame your shyness to ask her out, or she'll reject you, and you either never had a chance with that stuck up snob, or you'll never see her again so who cares?

It takes a bit of bravery, but it's better than missing your chance and feeling like you missed out on something great, or having to watch her with some other guy for a few years.

I've been devastated before because of missing my chance, and so I've learned that a few minutes of awkward uncomfortableness is a lot better than years of lamenting and suffering.
If you don't like losing your chance, you have to take initiative. Girls like feeling wanted, so if you go for it you can't lose. Either she'll appreciate that you think she's so special you overcame your shyness to ask her out, or she'll reject you, and you either never had a chance with that stuck up snob, or you'll never see her again so who cares?

It takes a bit of bravery, but it's better than missing your chance and feeling like you missed out on something great, or having to watch her with some other guy for a few years.

I've been devastated before because of missing my chance, and so I've learned that a few minutes of awkward uncomfortableness is a lot better than years of lamenting and suffering.
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Originally posted by BTowns
If you don't like losing your chance, you have to take initiative. Girls like feeling wanted, so if you go for it you can't lose. Either she'll appreciate that you think she's so special you overcame your shyness to ask her out, or she'll reject you, and you either never had a chance with that stuck up snob, or you'll never see her again so who cares?

It takes a bit of bravery, but it's better than missing your chance and feeling like you missed out on something great, or having to watch her with some other guy for a few years.

I've been devastated before because of missing my chance, and so I've learned that a few minutes of awkward uncomfortableness is a lot better than years of lamenting and suffering.

Well, I've taken a chance once, but that ended up pretty badly, and now I have to "watch her with some guy for a few years" lol. So I've tried to take more care in talking to girls about my feelings.
I decided not to take the initiative again... at least, not so soon.
Originally posted by BTowns
If you don't like losing your chance, you have to take initiative. Girls like feeling wanted, so if you go for it you can't lose. Either she'll appreciate that you think she's so special you overcame your shyness to ask her out, or she'll reject you, and you either never had a chance with that stuck up snob, or you'll never see her again so who cares?

It takes a bit of bravery, but it's better than missing your chance and feeling like you missed out on something great, or having to watch her with some other guy for a few years.

I've been devastated before because of missing my chance, and so I've learned that a few minutes of awkward uncomfortableness is a lot better than years of lamenting and suffering.

Well, I've taken a chance once, but that ended up pretty badly, and now I have to "watch her with some guy for a few years" lol. So I've tried to take more care in talking to girls about my feelings.
I decided not to take the initiative again... at least, not so soon.
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You can't just give up only because you got rejected one time. If you do that, you'll never get anywhere. The trick is to realize that the odds are in your favor. Plus, the average rate of success for most people is less than half.
You can't just give up only because you got rejected one time. If you do that, you'll never get anywhere. The trick is to realize that the odds are in your favor. Plus, the average rate of success for most people is less than half.
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Originally posted by hypermonkey
You can't just give up only because you got rejected one time. If you do that, you'll never get anywhere. The trick is to realize that the odds are in your favor. Plus, the average rate of success for most people is less than half.

Well, what I meant was, long story short, I told a girl I liked her. I've known her for a while, and I was pretty good friends with her. She ended up liking my best friend. I moved away. We still keep in touch, but it's not the same anymore.
All I'm saying is that I tend to not just go and tell her so early in our friendship. I take my time. I mean, that's not a bad thing isn't it? I know I know, but then if I take too long I'd lose my chance. I guess that's what happened with the other girl...
Originally posted by hypermonkey
You can't just give up only because you got rejected one time. If you do that, you'll never get anywhere. The trick is to realize that the odds are in your favor. Plus, the average rate of success for most people is less than half.

Well, what I meant was, long story short, I told a girl I liked her. I've known her for a while, and I was pretty good friends with her. She ended up liking my best friend. I moved away. We still keep in touch, but it's not the same anymore.
All I'm saying is that I tend to not just go and tell her so early in our friendship. I take my time. I mean, that's not a bad thing isn't it? I know I know, but then if I take too long I'd lose my chance. I guess that's what happened with the other girl...
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