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Ask anyone advice about your relationships


Here you can ask for advice about what to wear for your date, how to help you best friend get through the rough patches, what girls like in guys, what you can do when your parents are "ruining your life", how to get back with your man, and more.

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and just to be clear.... if you have advice for someone who has asked.... feel free to give advice... sometimes what one person thinks will work might not and so getting multiple suggestions is probably best. Especially if you're really confused about what to do. Always good to have multiple viewpoints on a situation.
and just to be clear.... if you have advice for someone who has asked.... feel free to give advice... sometimes what one person thinks will work might not and so getting multiple suggestions is probably best. Especially if you're really confused about what to do. Always good to have multiple viewpoints on a situation.
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How can I find out whether a girl likes me without ruining our friendship. It's not like I can just go up and ask her...
How can I find out whether a girl likes me without ruining our friendship. It's not like I can just go up and ask her...
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actually you can. You'd be surprised at how far you can get with just being straight up and asking her.

Unless you are opposed to dating this girl you're talking about... then it's probably better to just not ask.

But if you like this girl then I don't see a reason why you can't ask her. I'm still friends with quite a few of the girls that I liked/dated before. It doesn't have to ruin your friendship unless you let it.
actually you can. You'd be surprised at how far you can get with just being straight up and asking her.

Unless you are opposed to dating this girl you're talking about... then it's probably better to just not ask.

But if you like this girl then I don't see a reason why you can't ask her. I'm still friends with quite a few of the girls that I liked/dated before. It doesn't have to ruin your friendship unless you let it.
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If you guys are true good friends, your friendship will survive.

At your age though, you should also consider how serious you would want to take this relationship. If you don't want to date her for another 2 years, then chill. No point trying to hard to do anything at this point. But if you want to date her right now, be a man and just tell her how you feel. If she's like "not really", then just move on quickly, don't dwell on the subject too long, and continue with your friendship. Try asking again in a few months or whenever you think her feelings may have changed; just give it some time.
If you guys are true good friends, your friendship will survive.

At your age though, you should also consider how serious you would want to take this relationship. If you don't want to date her for another 2 years, then chill. No point trying to hard to do anything at this point. But if you want to date her right now, be a man and just tell her how you feel. If she's like "not really", then just move on quickly, don't dwell on the subject too long, and continue with your friendship. Try asking again in a few months or whenever you think her feelings may have changed; just give it some time.
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If I were you, I'd find a friend, who knows both of you(but he is closer with septembern) and I would ask him to ask her (without telling her that you asked him to do it). Soon he would find out the truth and let you know.
But I think that there is no reall reason for doing that.
Anyway, good luck
If I were you, I'd find a friend, who knows both of you(but he is closer with septembern) and I would ask him to ask her (without telling her that you asked him to do it). Soon he would find out the truth and let you know.
But I think that there is no reall reason for doing that.
Anyway, good luck
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I know I'm kinda young and inexperienced to be saying this, septembern, but:
Just go for it.
If she likes you, it'll work, if not... then at least she won't think you're a stalker (don't ask, just don't).
And noelia, that would work best if the friend was actually a girl... they're good at weasling stuff out of each other like that (i.e., my sister has told me several times that "x girl likes you, she didn't say it, but the way she acted I know she does"). You oughta know, you're a girl. But yeah, my sister does that for me all the time... even though I tell her not to .
I know I'm kinda young and inexperienced to be saying this, septembern, but:
Just go for it.
If she likes you, it'll work, if not... then at least she won't think you're a stalker (don't ask, just don't).
And noelia, that would work best if the friend was actually a girl... they're good at weasling stuff out of each other like that (i.e., my sister has told me several times that "x girl likes you, she didn't say it, but the way she acted I know she does"). You oughta know, you're a girl. But yeah, my sister does that for me all the time... even though I tell her not to .
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Originally posted by bignatealpha
I know I'm kinda young and inexperienced to be saying this, septembern, but:
Just go for it.
If she likes you, it'll work, if not... then at least she won't think you're a stalker (don't ask, just don't).
And noelia, that would work best if the friend was actually a girl... they're good at weasling stuff out of each other like that (i.e., my sister has told me several times that "x girl likes you, she didn't say it, but the way she acted I know she does"). You oughta know, you're a girl. But yeah, my sister does that for me all the time... even though I tell her not to .


Yes, I know, but many times some boys asked me if I like that or another guy and I answered them honestly. For me it doesn't matter the gender, but most girls are affected by that.
So you are right, I should have suggested a girl. As a girl I should know,lol
Originally posted by bignatealpha
I know I'm kinda young and inexperienced to be saying this, septembern, but:
Just go for it.
If she likes you, it'll work, if not... then at least she won't think you're a stalker (don't ask, just don't).
And noelia, that would work best if the friend was actually a girl... they're good at weasling stuff out of each other like that (i.e., my sister has told me several times that "x girl likes you, she didn't say it, but the way she acted I know she does"). You oughta know, you're a girl. But yeah, my sister does that for me all the time... even though I tell her not to .


Yes, I know, but many times some boys asked me if I like that or another guy and I answered them honestly. For me it doesn't matter the gender, but most girls are affected by that.
So you are right, I should have suggested a girl. As a girl I should know,lol
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Thanks for the tips! I probably will get someone else to ask her, but I hope she does not get suspicious about it or anything...
Thanks for the tips! I probably will get someone else to ask her, but I hope she does not get suspicious about it or anything...
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Originally posted by septembern
Thanks for the tips! I probably will get someone else to ask her, but I hope she does not get suspicious about it or anything...


Don't worry about it. If she is suspispicious about it, then if she likes you, she will tell it to your friend in order to come closer to you.
But if she doesn't likes you(I hope she likes you), then she will probably avoid answering and she will be really raw, or she will mention another guy that she want.

But that is only my point of view, it doesn't mean that I'm right. Because every person reacts different!!!

Anyway, GOOD LUCK and I'd like to know what will happen finally. So if you don't mind, please let us know what did she answer
Originally posted by septembern
Thanks for the tips! I probably will get someone else to ask her, but I hope she does not get suspicious about it or anything...


Don't worry about it. If she is suspispicious about it, then if she likes you, she will tell it to your friend in order to come closer to you.
But if she doesn't likes you(I hope she likes you), then she will probably avoid answering and she will be really raw, or she will mention another guy that she want.

But that is only my point of view, it doesn't mean that I'm right. Because every person reacts different!!!

Anyway, GOOD LUCK and I'd like to know what will happen finally. So if you don't mind, please let us know what did she answer
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Originally posted by bignatealpha
I know I'm kinda young and inexperienced to be saying this, septembern, but:
Just go for it.



That is absolutely the best advice, and I think it applies to most people's situations. The only reason so many guys who are "looking" for a girlfriend can't get one is because they don't man up and ask her. It's better to try than not do anything at all. What if you had a chance with her all along, but you blew it by not saying anything? That would suck WAY harder than getting rejected - Because if you're rejected at least you know how she feels.

I guess I'm kind of traditional for believing the guy should ask first, but hey.
Originally posted by bignatealpha
I know I'm kinda young and inexperienced to be saying this, septembern, but:
Just go for it.



That is absolutely the best advice, and I think it applies to most people's situations. The only reason so many guys who are "looking" for a girlfriend can't get one is because they don't man up and ask her. It's better to try than not do anything at all. What if you had a chance with her all along, but you blew it by not saying anything? That would suck WAY harder than getting rejected - Because if you're rejected at least you know how she feels.

I guess I'm kind of traditional for believing the guy should ask first, but hey.
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Originally posted by Annette


I guess I'm kind of traditional for believing the guy should ask first, but hey.


Agreed. I think it may be a bit old fashion to some. But I like men to be men. Though some guys need help, so there's nothing wrong with a girl hinting at it a little bit.



Originally posted by Annette


I guess I'm kind of traditional for believing the guy should ask first, but hey.


Agreed. I think it may be a bit old fashion to some. But I like men to be men. Though some guys need help, so there's nothing wrong with a girl hinting at it a little bit.



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lol, I am too nervous to ask her myself, but I cannot ask another kid to ask her, because there is this really big kid who also likes her, and I don't think he would give a second thought to try to hit me when I am not aware, if he knew that I liked her. Any other way?
lol, I am too nervous to ask her myself, but I cannot ask another kid to ask her, because there is this really big kid who also likes her, and I don't think he would give a second thought to try to hit me when I am not aware, if he knew that I liked her. Any other way?
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Originally posted by septembern
lol, I am too nervous to ask her myself, but I cannot ask another kid to ask her, because there is this really big kid who also likes her, and I don't think he would give a second thought to try to hit me when I am not aware, if he knew that I liked her. Any other way?


With that attitude, you're screwed.

This obviously shows that maybe you should wait a while. You're still very young, and need to learn more about yourself, and man-up, and not be afraid of asking girls, or getting beaten-up by guys.

My advice now: wait.
Originally posted by septembern
lol, I am too nervous to ask her myself, but I cannot ask another kid to ask her, because there is this really big kid who also likes her, and I don't think he would give a second thought to try to hit me when I am not aware, if he knew that I liked her. Any other way?


With that attitude, you're screwed.

This obviously shows that maybe you should wait a while. You're still very young, and need to learn more about yourself, and man-up, and not be afraid of asking girls, or getting beaten-up by guys.

My advice now: wait.
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Okay, I am a black belt, but I have seen this kid hand out punches, he won't stop until your down and bleeding... I am nervous, because it will be kinda awkward if she says "no".
Okay, I am a black belt, but I have seen this kid hand out punches, he won't stop until your down and bleeding... I am nervous, because it will be kinda awkward if she says "no".
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While you don't want to be beaten-up, you shouldn't let it stop you from being with a girl.

And as for the awkward, I'll quote Annette: "What if you had a chance with her all along, but you blew it by not saying anything? That would suck WAY harder than getting rejected - Because if you're rejected at least you know how she feels."



Or just wait, haha.
While you don't want to be beaten-up, you shouldn't let it stop you from being with a girl.

And as for the awkward, I'll quote Annette: "What if you had a chance with her all along, but you blew it by not saying anything? That would suck WAY harder than getting rejected - Because if you're rejected at least you know how she feels."



Or just wait, haha.
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How do I have confidence in a relationship. I am not in one right now. I am just nervous that when I get one, I won't be as committed as I should be. And I just want to be as committed as can be.
How do I have confidence in a relationship. I am not in one right now. I am just nervous that when I get one, I won't be as committed as I should be. And I just want to be as committed as can be.
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Well, you can't force yourself to be committed to somebody... If you dont feel that committed to your partner ( in the future ) then that means you don't love her...

How... when you both love and trust each other I guess. ^^;;
Well, you can't force yourself to be committed to somebody... If you dont feel that committed to your partner ( in the future ) then that means you don't love her...

How... when you both love and trust each other I guess. ^^;;
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Originally posted by Hoochman
How do I have confidence in a relationship. I am not in one right now. I am just nervous that when I get one, I won't be as committed as I should be. And I just want to be as committed as can be.

When you're in love, you'll probably do whatever it takes to be committed to your relationship, at least in the beginning. Now, staying committed the whole time is a different story...
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How do I have confidence in a relationship. I am not in one right now. I am just nervous that when I get one, I won't be as committed as I should be. And I just want to be as committed as can be.

When you're in love, you'll probably do whatever it takes to be committed to your relationship, at least in the beginning. Now, staying committed the whole time is a different story...
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Originally posted by Hoochman
How do I have confidence in a relationship. I am not in one right now. I am just nervous that when I get one, I won't be as committed as I should be. And I just want to be as committed as can be.


Commitment grows with your relationship. The closer you get to someone the more committed you will become as well.
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How do I have confidence in a relationship. I am not in one right now. I am just nervous that when I get one, I won't be as committed as I should be. And I just want to be as committed as can be.


Commitment grows with your relationship. The closer you get to someone the more committed you will become as well.
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