YAY I got a girlfriend... too bad I cant change my vote to Easy.

Crono is focused on school and his part-time job. So he has not time to go and talk to a girl for 4 hours just so she can break up with him a week later.

I almost clicked really hard.... because I'm married, but then I saw the I'm married option and figured that one is a better choice.

I never had trouble having a girlfriend in high school.... all I had to do was figure out which girl liked me and ask her out . If I tried to ask the girl out that I REALLY REALLY wanted to date then I got shot down.

I clicked normal, it's not that hard really, it's just about being social and getting out a little.

The hard part is getting one that you actually like.

Me and my girl been together almost a year now, and really at the time we met, I wasn't looking for a relationship. I'm glad though I found her and really wasn't hard, and never has been for me to find someone to be there for whatever it be.

For me, the hardest part of it is working up the courage to ask a girl that I like out. It's literally the one thing that makes me nervous. Anyway, I picked normal, just because the I don't see it as being a very high level of importance. Plus, you have to keep trying, because if you give up, or don't even try for fear of rejection, chances are you'll lead a very lonely and probably boring life. I'm personally 0/3 attempts, but it doesn't overly bother me. The odds are in the favor of the one who is proactive.

It's a hard poll.

Just hang out with people and when you happen to click with someone, get to know them, and if you like em, got for it.

It SHOULDN'T be hard to get one, but all to often it is for some people.

I always was the type to wait for the right girl anyway, no hurry. I like to take things very slowly too.

Well, for the most part, it's really hard for me since i'm an overweight person. Don't get me wrong though, i do have the courage and will to go for the guy i like and ask him out, but it always ended up with either the whole "i see you as a friend thing" or them turning out to be gay.

oh, well. Love isn't everything. but still, it would be nice to have a guy there for me no matter what and love me back in return. That's all i ask for in a guy. Looks don't really matter to me.

Well, I've been in a relationship for almost two years now so at the moment it would be rather difficult.

However, it really isn't that hard to get a boyfriend in my case (even though I'm chunky). A lot of times it just comes down to personality and just because you are fat doesn't mean that you aren't cute. You just need to talk and be yourself and eventually, if they are into you, they just start flirting and it moves on from there.

I think something else that you need to remember is that a visual "10" doesn't work well with a visual "4" because the "10"'s personality is so different from the "4"'s that they will hate each other.

While a 4 and a 4 work well together because they are more likely to have similar personalities and interests. While physical attractiveness is always important.... if you love someone then physical appearance will not be the most important thing. I don't look at my wife and see a 10 physically (according to societies standards) but I see a 10 when I look at the overall person that I'm married to... especially when I compare to other people. I know some absolutely gorgeous women who I absolutely can't stand.

It's all about balance and finding the person who makes you happy. And physical looks fade. When they're gone... will you love the person who is underneath?

I've only ever had one girlfriend and I'm still dating her Mwahahahaaaa!!!

I didn't really have to try or anything. It just sort of happened after awhile since we were friends for a couple years before we started dating so my advice is find someone who you could either see yourself being friends with or someone your already friends with.

Originally posted by Elara

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A lot of times it just comes down to personality and just because you are fat doesn't mean that you aren't cute.

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That pretty much sums it up perfectly. Most of the time people find personality more attractive than appearance (to a point, of course, as with anything) and more often than not, the people who are only attracted to looks turn out to be, pardon my language, total a**h***s.

Most of the times it was very easy for me to get the person with whom I wanted to have a date. But I don't like having the same person for a long time, I think it's boring.
So, don't blame yourself, if she left you.Maybe she wasn't ready for a relationship.
Anyway, you should always be yourself,that really helps!
Good luck!!!

Hehehe, I haven't dated or anything, but I'd say normal. Why? Because I know for a fact that there have been at least two girls who would say yes instantly if I asked them out (one because she told me, and one because she told my sister, who then told me). And there are others I'm suspicious of, who seem to be attracted to me... and I'm not usually wrong about this. But I didn't put easy because, well, I'm just not ready to be dating anyone yet. I've still got a few years until I can drive even, so I'll wait this one out.

Originally posted by noelia

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But I don't like having the same person for a long time, I think it's boring.

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I'm sorry if I offend you, but that is a really bad way to look at it. You are objectifying a human being, and that is just wrong, no matter how you try to justify it, or what the context is. You seem to act as if a person is a game, or book, something that you can just shove into the corner after a month or so, and forget about it.

yeah... I'm with hypermonkey on that one...

if you can't stand anyone for longer than a month then you don't deserve anyone.

I'm curious to find out what all these 1 monthers feel about you

Monkey and gee said it.

You may be having fun with all these boys/girls, but you may be hurting someone without knowing. And you are in fact hurting yourself; jumping from person to person is pretty much practicing to not be in a meaningful realationship. And when the time come when you want a real soul mate (it may very well come), you could find it hard to keep someone, because you have only developed bad dating habits.

Not to be offensive.

Well, while I don't agree with the mind set, I don't think you guys should be so harsh. There is such a thing as casual dating, and as long as the person she is with knows that at the start and is fine with it then there is nothing really wrong with it. I mean, back in the day (50s-60s) you'd see teens having multiple girl/boyfriends at a time until they decided to "go steady" with someone. It isn't really a concept we see now, oddly, and it seems to have been replaced with this serial relationship thing. Honestly, I think the old way was better because at least there was less commitment on both parties.

Any luck yet getting a girlfriend? Don't worry kid, sooner or later love's bound to smack you dead in the face and your not gonna know what to do with it all when it does. Well over time you will but all turn up for you one day. Just gotta stay active, be confident(even if you aren't act like you are, lol), and socialize. Which means getting off the computer and video games for day here and there! Well maybe that advice will help kid, "take heed and notice, soon your rags will turn to gold"....

Well I wrote a note saying "hey will you be my girlfriend?", gave it to the girl i wanted to ask out, and I forgot to get her answer! I failed epically!