Alright, it is time. You have stated several times now that "you are not liked" or that "no one cares about you". Yesterday, you even said you were gonna leave Vizzed over a pretty trivial thing, at least in my opinion. I know life is tough for you and all that, but the community of Vizzed is here for you (at least I hope) and I know that a lot of people like you dude. I know you think that people still hate you for the ban from last year, and that might be true. The h8ers gonna h8, but you still have a lot of people that will support you no matter what. I really hope you consider this and I hope you stick around on Vizzed. 

I don't know if I should summon you, but whatever:

LunarDarkness2 :  

Simple fact about any site on the internet - you are not going to be liked by everyone. In fact you likely won't be liked by the majority. That's just the way it is. This doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you or that you need to change. People are that way all the time. I can be nice to everyone if I want to be but more often than not I don't like things people do or say.

Leaving Vizzed because some people don't like you won't fix any problems. You'll just end up somewhere else and people there will dislike you for various legitimate or stupid reasons. However, Vizzed is probably one of the nicer sites on the internet to be on. I've been on other message boards and sites where people are ruthless in comparison.

So, don't leave because a few people don't like you. If the staff hasn't banned you then you are welcome to be here.

So, I was banned last year, and yeah a lot of people didn't like me because of that, and while I have made up with a few, there will always be those people that just don't like you.
I think you've done well becoming trusted again and all that, as that is something I am still working towards, I hope you'll stick around.
Maybe leave for a few months and come back like I did, but I definitely don't want you to leave forever.

for the record, didn't summon lunar because RDay already did.

hey man i like you and thats all that matters lol'

even if only like 1 or 2 people like you i still think it's a totally legit reason to stay
but theres totally a bunch of people on here who do like you and im pretty sure it outweighs the people who dont like you

i get around and ive never heard anyone say they hated you so yeah idk who would

Thanks for the replies everyone. I feel a lot better now. Life outside school is getting worse, but getting better inside school, and I guess I let stuff get to my head. I cannot thank everyone enough for the replies you have given me. And yes, I will stay, I don't plan on leaving. I was just being dramatic, I guess. Thanks again.

LunarDarkness2 : Having migrated here from AQW and Kongregate, I can say that, in comparison at least, this site's userbase is a great deal more tame... Listen, man. I had a period several years back when I was in a similar emotional state, which was most likely just a really hormonal phase because of my age. If someone has an issue with you, it's their issue, not yours. I'm not trying to put words in your mouth, but if the cause of all this drama is "I just want to be accepted" or "I want to fit in", stop worrying about it. You'll never fit in with everyone, and you'll never be accepted by everyone. Stop wasting your time. If you only have one or two friends, and I mean real friends, not fair-weather "buddies" that are only there when they want something, then you're doing pretty good. On a side note, and I'm not pinning all the blame on you, you tend to very quickly jump to conclusions and severely over react. I know about the Asperger's thing, but even with the burden of something like that, it's not like there's no room for self improvement. Knowing the problem is the first step to finding a solution. You can make a conscious effort to be more rational, even with a disability. People with severe phobias manage all the time, it just takes work. I have my own skeletons that I have to keeep in the closet, so to speak.

m0ssb3rg935 :

Yeah, that's one of the things I have to improve on most. I have been improving on other things over the years, though. So that's also good.

You are wanted by the community, Lunar. If you weren't you wouldn't have been unbanned .

And honestly, the fact that someone would make a thread like that for you to make you feel better is pretty amazing. I mean, I never had someone make a thread like this for me, and I went through some bad times at the beginning of this year where I felt like most people have ceased caring about me. As I found out later, they very much cared, even the people that I was sure hated me. (not gonna name names because drama and stuff but I will say that I also made up with that person and everything's good now ).

Vizzed is one of the nicest communities I've ever been in, which is also why it's my favorite one. And when you feel that life is awful, remember that it could be worse, and look at the good things that could come out of it. You may grow stronger of be more equipped for life than spoiled little Joe who got everything handed to him :p.

LunarDarkness2 : Dude... I heard you're being banned once, but i didn't registered before that. Still, i would really appreciate it if you could a favor for almost everyone here: Stay. Please, don't leave. If you think that's helping, that's your choice, but it's not smart. If you're leaving, who do you talk to then? I think you're pretty far on Vizzed, maybe too far. (I'm talking about your time being here).

Please stay, Lunar. It's always good if you're around.

LunarDarkness2 : Seeing this reminds me of those times when I got upset over a lot of trivial things and made leaving threads. I kept doing the same thing over and over again. I thought leaving would help, but it only made things worse for me. And in the end, I was filled only with regret and anguish. I failed to realize that there were actually still some people who wanted me to be on here despite everything I've done. Lunar, as a friend, I hope that don't decide to leave. To be honest, I think you're a good person. Even offered help via pm to me once despite not knowing me much during that time. So please don't leave. Let what happened in the past stay in the past and look forward towards the future from now on. If you ever need anyone to talk with, give me a call. I'll be there for you.

You cannot simply be liked by everyone. That is one of the impossibilities of life.

All you can do is enjoy the friends you already have, Appreciate them because you are not precisely giving a good indication your friends with people if you are as this thread suggests complaining about having no friends. You will just make your current friends feel worthless to you, and yes eventually those friends will feel as you do not care about them.

Obviously I have not been on here long enough to know you or essentially anyone on the site. But the point I made is a generic point that applies to all friendships.. It is pretty much a golden rule. Treat your friends with respect. Then you will get respect back. Do not show respect and you will not. It is that simple.

Also no one likes a whiner...

Lunar, luney, Lun-Kun, there isn't any mass hatred of you on here. This place is frankly the nicest community on the internet. You have a ton of friends! It won't be so easy elsewhere, believe me. You have a lot of friends who care about you, man.

As everybody else said, nobody will be liked by everyone. Just appreciate what you've got. Don't be upset over what you don't have.

LunarDarkness2 : It's nice your not angry anymore, but even if people do hate you which is pretty unlikely as by you saying you regret it is taking responsibility for your actions. That's good because I heard from my parents that taking responsibility is a sign of maturity which is great ^^

Plus I'll always be your friend.............unless you destroy Vizzed, which won't happen ^^

LunarDarkness2 : See! I told you a lot of people care about you. Now that you have seen this, I hope you feel better about your relationships on Vizzed!


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Thank you all for your kind replies for making Lunar feel better!

Vexxen :

Was it really necessary to insult me?

LunarDarkness2 : I am sorry if i offended you.

I was only trying to point out something that's all. I'll summarize in 4 sentences

You already have friends here.
You complain about not having friends.
You are basically saying that the current friends you have mean nothing.
Inadvertently that makes your current friends feel worthless too....

It was not an intentional insult on your character. I was just trying to give some general advice.

I understand that the last line could be considered an insult however. So yes i sincerely apologize for that.

Vexxen :

Ah, my bad. Sorry that I took it as an insult. I have Asperger's Syndrome, which can sometimes make me take things people say a different way than what they actually mean. I'm not trying to use the disability as a crutch, but it happens a lot with me.

Also, yeah, thanks for the post. I'm fine now that all of these points, not just yours, were made in this thread.

Apologies to anyone who I made feel like crap. Oops.

LunarDarkness2 : You remind me of mushrooms