Not married but don't really wish to get married in the future. If I do end up meeting someone who I want to commit to for several years and even maybe start a family, I would still prefer to keep marriage out of it. It's still a good enough relationship to me with or without marriage. I would only probably get married for the legal and economic benefits that come along with it for the well being of my future family. Other than that, it really doesn't mean much to me. I also come from parents that are separated and the thought of things not working out someday and having to go through a divorce is just a real hassle aha.

warmaker : We talked about getting one... but at this point in time, neither of us really has anything worth making one over. Originally, when he and his mom were going to be starting a business, we were going to get one... but that has fallen through. Plus, the wedding was kinda planned in whirlwind, last-minute fashion (when I get tired of waiting, I seriously get tired of waiting... we planned it all in less than a month). We might get some kind of post-nup just to put it in writing that IF we ever split, this is how stuff is to be divided. Prenuptial agreements are really more to protect the property being brought into the marriage. We have pretty clear boundaries on that already, but it is something we are going to at least talk about.

Jabba was basically like that from the start, but he did a good job of lying about it at the beginning. The breaking point for her I think was when he sat on his ass in the car while she went on job interviews and applied at temp agencies and he just suggested going on welfare while using the money left in their account to buy model trains.

My parents have been married for a really ong time oyu have to work at it to make it work. If oyu don't truly love a person I would like to ask why are you getting married?

Personally, I would have liked to be closed to getting married in this point in my life. But it just has not worked out that way. But a few things I know for sure before I get married is that I am going to have a job with some decent security, and I will be able to support my wife and a kid ( yes, I want to eventually have 1 kid of my own. )

I don't want to marry though, if a guy loves me then we can just live together, becuase if we argue I dont want to have to stay.

Love is a beautiful thing yes in deed. I have never been asked to get married and honestly this is the best thing that could of happen. Most of the guys I have been with have broke my heart in some shape or form and it's quite upsetting. I feel like right now I'm too young. I have collage and my ged to think about plus a possible career I want to look forward to. As of right now I am single but that's a good thing because I don't have to worry about being heart broken at this time. I mean I know there is somebody out there, I mean who know's I may of found him here on vizzed without even knowing. Honestly though things take time and Marriage is a very big word when it concerns people my age who are 18. At least wait until you meet somebody and know for a fact you can rely on them amotinally and everything. Without that emotion you have nothing and if that person ends up losing interest , there is only a sour patch left ahead. I don't want to get married until the future.. I guess you can say it's a hope I have and I know it will happen but it's not going to happen unless it's the right time or right place. I hope that I can find that right guy and when I do, it's going to be amazing <3