Thats really unfortunate. Its a great thing. You should try to find somebody. Its well worth the effort.

SOmetimes it is worth the effort, and sometimes it isnt. GOod thing i can wait till i go out looking. XD

Speaking about lust...oh my god, there was this nasty chick in school who used to follow me and drool over me and dream about me. She wouldn't leave me alone.
One day she started crying and fell on the floor while I was playing the piano in the choir room..(it was just me and her there after class) and as she was laying on the floor crying I was thinkin' to myself, "I wonder what's for lunch" Just before I went to leave, she admitted to having lust of over me and all that stuff. I told her what I felt..."I'd never see you as more than a friend...Neeverrr"...she understood though, and now she lusts over someone else. Glad it isn't me. I know she still likes me though, because she still follows me around and trys to hug me and get in my business all the time..it's really annoying..

Was she sexy? *Slaps himself* Of all people, ME ASKING THIS QUESTION!

DUDE I just said that she was nasty...LET ALONE being sexy...so yea...

You could have used her affection as an popularity advantage. *Grins at possibilities*

Ehhh...she's just a stupid yank...and really no one she hangs out with likes her...except for the nerds in the school...she just trys to fit in where she doesn't belong...

A dreamer eh.. THis reminds me of that Madagascar COmmercial. There are dreamers and there a scheamers. Penguin : Were going to have cold sushi for breakfast.

Uhh..how did my post get you onto dreams and...Madagascar?...Hmm...wierd wierd child...

Well, you said that she like, hunted you down, so its obvious she dreamed. ANd in the comercial it says There is Dreamers, and tehre is Scheamers. And i am not a child. I am a young-adult.

Ohhh...ok. I understand now...I think...I guess...I don't know..yea whatever...

I have a love... *SIGHS* She knows i love her andi know she loves me... We dated but it was in our vest intrest to hold it off for a while. I dont want to get into details for no reason so ill leave it there. We both knew it had to happen and i did the right thing and rejected the girl that tried to catch me on the rebound. I wasn't depresed so i didn't need her... DAMN!!!! There are 2 people on this board who know her.... Ohh well...

It is sad that you had to end it.

I think that is both the biggest part, and most painful part of love: the willingness to let them go for the greater good. It is the ultimate act of selflessness, because you put their needs in front of your own, and no matter how much it hurts and no matter how much you don't want to do it, you are willing to set them free so they can be happy.

It is sad but it had to be done... But as i said (i think i said) we are still friends. Besides its only until we go down to Melbourne... Uhh Capitil city of my state. It could be worse... We could never see each other again.

Yeah, that is true at least, and it is good that you have chosen to remain friends. It is a hard thing to deal with when a couple ends up hating each other and never wanting to speak to one another again... I've seen that with a recent breakup of a friend, and the drama is so not worth it at all.

Well, hopefully it is not long until you head to Melbourne then.

love. pain and suffering to the highest degree. what we would do for another even if they wouldn't do it back. i find love to be one of the most painfull and yet amazing things, painful because unfortunatly i've never been loved back but amazing because its so warm and inviting to care for one so much is one of my life goals.... hmm i sound a bit stupid dont i but hey its me

No not at all Hopstar. most of us would most likely know what you mean. Though after experincing what you did i sorta isolated myself from love and waited for love to make its way to me instead of my love making its way to someone else.

Elara, i move to melbourne at the end of the year. She says i am the best friend she ever has and most likely every will have because from all her previouse break ups i am the only one who still talks to her. She likes that because it means that there is still a chance. I also have a felling of dominence because their are alot of people that like her like i do but i am the only one she likes. That sorta thngs gives a man power because he knows he has been chosen even though he was just himself. No masks, nothing fake to lure her. She found me, she noticed me, she loved me. That sorta thing.... as Hopstar said, is warm and inviting but it is so much more when you are loved by some one you love.

And as you can imagine we cant wait to leave and move to melbourne. Should be awesome because there nothing can stop us from dating where as here, distance is a real pain.

Love can be painful, ive had many painful moments which is why as i said i isolated myself... Alot, i isolated myself from my parentsand for some time my friends. My parents were greatly concerned but what could they do? They tried to talk about it but i never said anything. "Is something wrong?" I would always and still do say the same thing "No... why would there be?" Never to i get an answer for that, never. So i assume i am ment to be happy... and i realise i am. I have found my true love, because she found , me and we will always be together even if we do not hold the status 'Dating'. Well, thats my little speach.. heh heh heh, maybe a bit long.... Thanks. I really needed to say something like that to someone, somewhere....

lucky you ice. its great that you found someone. now all i need to do is do the same. anyways thats enough about my sad love life

Im sure it will all brighten up someday, just take it easy a bit. Dont force the girl to like you, she has to like you for you and im sure one does, somewhere.

yeah lucky Ice, i wish i could get i guy that would say those sorta things... i cant even get the guy i like to notice me!!!