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11-10-12 03:56 PM
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Okay well there's this girl I know that I like a lot. I've liked her
ever since I first saw her back in summer school. I'm planning on talking to her in real life because I never got to back when we were in summer school. Well I had my friend try to get some info from her and she supposedly doesn't like being in relationships. How can I make her want to be in one with me? She complimented my looks one time in summer school so I don't know if that's a good sign or not but I seriously think that she'll like me if I actually get to talk to her IRL because we have a lot in common and such. So how can I make her want to start a relationship with me? ever since I first saw her back in summer school. I'm planning on talking to her in real life because I never got to back when we were in summer school. Well I had my friend try to get some info from her and she supposedly doesn't like being in relationships. How can I make her want to be in one with me? She complimented my looks one time in summer school so I don't know if that's a good sign or not but I seriously think that she'll like me if I actually get to talk to her IRL because we have a lot in common and such. So how can I make her want to start a relationship with me? |
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11-11-12 03:18 AM
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NordicWarrior : First you’re young and you shouldn’t really be worried about getting in relationships. As someone with experience in regard to getting into relationships too fast and too young, sometimes it can be good but sometimes it can be bad. Stay focused on your education that’s what counts. Now in regard to what you asked you can’t really force a relationship on someone. Sometimes things just happen and relationships materialize naturally.
It is better to be friends first. I have had a few friends that I tried relationships with when I was younger and unfortunately for me those friends who were really good friends to me became a bit distant once things went further than that and things changed. In some cases it ruined whatever friendship there was prior to that. Despite my bad luck in that area I still say that it’s better to be friends first and just see where things go from there. You can’t really make someone want to have a relationship with you but things like common interests are a good start toward a potential relationship. I will however say again that your young and as someone who made a lot of mistakes when he was your age, it isn’t worth it to move to fast and not think things through. Believe me it’s not enjoyable to have regrets and such when you’re older. I’m still trying to rebound from the mistakes I made back then. Please be careful and please stay focused on your education. You’ll thank yourself later I promise. Best of luck to you. It is better to be friends first. I have had a few friends that I tried relationships with when I was younger and unfortunately for me those friends who were really good friends to me became a bit distant once things went further than that and things changed. In some cases it ruined whatever friendship there was prior to that. Despite my bad luck in that area I still say that it’s better to be friends first and just see where things go from there. You can’t really make someone want to have a relationship with you but things like common interests are a good start toward a potential relationship. I will however say again that your young and as someone who made a lot of mistakes when he was your age, it isn’t worth it to move to fast and not think things through. Believe me it’s not enjoyable to have regrets and such when you’re older. I’m still trying to rebound from the mistakes I made back then. Please be careful and please stay focused on your education. You’ll thank yourself later I promise. Best of luck to you. |
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11-11-12 12:23 PM
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You should and can't make someone want to do something they're not interested in. If she doesn't want a relationship than she's not going to get into one no matter what you say or do. Also, if you force her into one, she won't treat it seriously and she'll go off and do things that you may not approve of. Just go talk to her. Don't try to find out things by sending your friends. Man up, show some courage and go say hello. Talk to her without the intent of having a relationship. Talk, ask questions, learn about her, ask her about things she likes, and get to know her. It may turn out you actually learn about her and decide she's not a fun person. She looks pretty but that's the only thing she has going for her. Relationships don't just happen. You decide if the two of you really like each other and you go from there. Walk up, say hi, ask her how things are going. Compliment her on her shoes and ask where she got them. Talk to her. Don't have any plans more than that. Never send your friends. Good luck! You should and can't make someone want to do something they're not interested in. If she doesn't want a relationship than she's not going to get into one no matter what you say or do. Also, if you force her into one, she won't treat it seriously and she'll go off and do things that you may not approve of. Just go talk to her. Don't try to find out things by sending your friends. Man up, show some courage and go say hello. Talk to her without the intent of having a relationship. Talk, ask questions, learn about her, ask her about things she likes, and get to know her. It may turn out you actually learn about her and decide she's not a fun person. She looks pretty but that's the only thing she has going for her. Relationships don't just happen. You decide if the two of you really like each other and you go from there. Walk up, say hi, ask her how things are going. Compliment her on her shoes and ask where she got them. Talk to her. Don't have any plans more than that. Never send your friends. Good luck! |
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I agree with war. Just keep talking to her and she might want to be in a relationship. If she complimented your looks then its a good start that she thinks you look attractive physically, but thats just about what it is; she thinks that you look physically attractive to her. Any girl can walk up to a guy and say something about them physically and not mean it in a romanitic, "lets go out" kind of way; what this does is that it makes her feel more comfortable talking or being around you. Remember this. Don't rush the relationship or the relationship lose its "fire" quicky; but also don't be overly precausious or else the "fire" won't grow (if that makes any sense). Just keep talking to her, make her feel comfortable around you, and enjoy hanging out with you. Then once you believe that the moment is right ask her out (I get the impression that you and this girl know each other a little bit.) Remember this also. You can never force a girl to start a relationship with you, you can convince her, but don't force the relationship. Last advice. Just ask her to go out somewhere together with you (bring a friend is optional, but you want it too just be you and her), take her to a movie, go swimming, whatever. Since she says that she doesn't like to be in a relationship, I would say that you should make it sound like you just want to hang out together by yourselfs. If she accepts and enjoys hanging out with you, then ask her out. I'm about all out of ideas from your post. Good Luck my good sir!! (PS. Don't send a friend as he might end up stealing your girl...that or he doesn't tell you the complete truth. Best to get the info from her.) I agree with war. Just keep talking to her and she might want to be in a relationship. If she complimented your looks then its a good start that she thinks you look attractive physically, but thats just about what it is; she thinks that you look physically attractive to her. Any girl can walk up to a guy and say something about them physically and not mean it in a romanitic, "lets go out" kind of way; what this does is that it makes her feel more comfortable talking or being around you. Remember this. Don't rush the relationship or the relationship lose its "fire" quicky; but also don't be overly precausious or else the "fire" won't grow (if that makes any sense). Just keep talking to her, make her feel comfortable around you, and enjoy hanging out with you. Then once you believe that the moment is right ask her out (I get the impression that you and this girl know each other a little bit.) Remember this also. You can never force a girl to start a relationship with you, you can convince her, but don't force the relationship. Last advice. Just ask her to go out somewhere together with you (bring a friend is optional, but you want it too just be you and her), take her to a movie, go swimming, whatever. Since she says that she doesn't like to be in a relationship, I would say that you should make it sound like you just want to hang out together by yourselfs. If she accepts and enjoys hanging out with you, then ask her out. I'm about all out of ideas from your post. Good Luck my good sir!! (PS. Don't send a friend as he might end up stealing your girl...that or he doesn't tell you the complete truth. Best to get the info from her.) |
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