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07-14-12 02:04 PM
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So, i used to hit on this girl all the time. Would never pull the trigger for fear of rejection, I'm nothing special as a man. I'd say i'm average. Finally she asked ME out, I thought well hell this made things a lot easier, It didn't. You see, the problem is she's one of those girls who can get along with anybody and everyone will get along with her. Very social, Me...not so much i have a group of friends that i stick with, She keeps introducing me to all her friends inviting me to parties and stuff which is cool and everything. It's just not my style. Should i end the relationship? because this is the only problem and i'm finding it hard to get around it.

I have another girl interested in me for quite some time she isn't as hot as my current gf, but is nicer funnier and more my type. Work around the problem? or No?
So, i used to hit on this girl all the time. Would never pull the trigger for fear of rejection, I'm nothing special as a man. I'd say i'm average. Finally she asked ME out, I thought well hell this made things a lot easier, It didn't. You see, the problem is she's one of those girls who can get along with anybody and everyone will get along with her. Very social, Me...not so much i have a group of friends that i stick with, She keeps introducing me to all her friends inviting me to parties and stuff which is cool and everything. It's just not my style. Should i end the relationship? because this is the only problem and i'm finding it hard to get around it.

I have another girl interested in me for quite some time she isn't as hot as my current gf, but is nicer funnier and more my type. Work around the problem? or No?
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07-14-12 02:43 PM
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Tell her how you don't really want to meet people.

It's possible your personalities are too different to make it work, but it's also possible that's why you make a good couple. After all, opposites attract.

Basically just talk with her.

I personally would go with the girl who isn't as hot and is my type, but that's because looks don't matter a whole ton to me as long as they are somewhat attractive.
Tell her how you don't really want to meet people.

It's possible your personalities are too different to make it work, but it's also possible that's why you make a good couple. After all, opposites attract.

Basically just talk with her.

I personally would go with the girl who isn't as hot and is my type, but that's because looks don't matter a whole ton to me as long as they are somewhat attractive.
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07-14-12 02:52 PM
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legacyme3 : I understand what you mean, Me and her get along great. Look's aren't everything to me but they do play a role in a relationship. Thanks for the advice btw. I'm totally stuck on this so anything helps.
legacyme3 : I understand what you mean, Me and her get along great. Look's aren't everything to me but they do play a role in a relationship. Thanks for the advice btw. I'm totally stuck on this so anything helps.
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I agree with Leggy. If you want her to understand you, you really have to notify her of the problem. As for leaving her, I don't know. If you really want to make it work, then I say stay, if you really don't, then I say leave. I think you guys can make it work. But that's just me being optimistic. ...Anyways, I wish you luck. I hope you do the right thing.
I agree with Leggy. If you want her to understand you, you really have to notify her of the problem. As for leaving her, I don't know. If you really want to make it work, then I say stay, if you really don't, then I say leave. I think you guys can make it work. But that's just me being optimistic. ...Anyways, I wish you luck. I hope you do the right thing.
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Get out there and go to parties.  Meet people, learn to socially interact with others and learn about them.  Being social is easy: Listen, and ask questions.  Learn to operate within larger groups of people.  You'll be more comfortable around others and happier with yourself.  Even if you aren't friends with them, you'll learn to deal with groups of people.

Try being something different.  Pretend you're a socialite and you like it.  Try something NEW!

Go get 'em!
Get out there and go to parties.  Meet people, learn to socially interact with others and learn about them.  Being social is easy: Listen, and ask questions.  Learn to operate within larger groups of people.  You'll be more comfortable around others and happier with yourself.  Even if you aren't friends with them, you'll learn to deal with groups of people.

Try being something different.  Pretend you're a socialite and you like it.  Try something NEW!

Go get 'em!
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You should tell her about how you are uneasy around large groups of people.

If it turns out that really puts a rift in your relationship, it would be best to break it up. Just give it a try to work together on this situation, but don't let her go to too many parties alone. This sometimes leads to bigger rifts in the relationship down the road.
You should tell her about how you are uneasy around large groups of people.

If it turns out that really puts a rift in your relationship, it would be best to break it up. Just give it a try to work together on this situation, but don't let her go to too many parties alone. This sometimes leads to bigger rifts in the relationship down the road.
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If you have given mingling at parties a try and you still don't like it, then tell her. You don't have to go to the same places that she goes, if she wants to go to a party that is fine, she can go and you can do your thing. You're not attached at the hip after all, and it would be unfair if either of you felt that they had to be something that they are not. If she has a problem with that, then maybe you should reevaluate the relationship, but nothing can be decided until you talk to her.
If you have given mingling at parties a try and you still don't like it, then tell her. You don't have to go to the same places that she goes, if she wants to go to a party that is fine, she can go and you can do your thing. You're not attached at the hip after all, and it would be unfair if either of you felt that they had to be something that they are not. If she has a problem with that, then maybe you should reevaluate the relationship, but nothing can be decided until you talk to her.
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Well, try this: Talk to her about your dilemma. Explain to her that you don't do so well with large group at a social gathering, but ask to meet with only the same people whenever you go to them so you can get used to being around everybody. That might help you being around them and also being able to be around large groups of people with feeling uncomfortable. But believe me when I say the more people you know in life the better opportunities will come your way.
Well, try this: Talk to her about your dilemma. Explain to her that you don't do so well with large group at a social gathering, but ask to meet with only the same people whenever you go to them so you can get used to being around everybody. That might help you being around them and also being able to be around large groups of people with feeling uncomfortable. But believe me when I say the more people you know in life the better opportunities will come your way.
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legacyme3 :
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Thanks for the help, All of you. We talked about it, and she understands,we won't be going to as many parties anymore, until she feels that i'm comfortable. She felt like she was pushing something on me, I re-assured her it wasn't her fault at all. and were good now.
Once again thank you all for the advice!








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Thanks for the help, All of you. We talked about it, and she understands,we won't be going to as many parties anymore, until she feels that i'm comfortable. She felt like she was pushing something on me, I re-assured her it wasn't her fault at all. and were good now.
Once again thank you all for the advice!








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