You guys are still talking about me right? IW this may be the real thing, but the most part of it just to get a girlfriend because I'm lonely without one. In a way it is to score, but not really. Next question IW.

Well... its an odd... thing... You like her... but u want her cause ur lonly...

Well... If its like that then u should explore this. Talk to her. Start with something easy like does she use MSN or someother Instant Messenger program. If so, try with out breaking laws, to find out what it is and talk to her there IF you cant or wont talk to her in person. otherwise, grow some balls, steal some courage and talk to the women!

Dr. Phil is right...JUST TALK TO HER DUDE!

She'll respect you a lot more if you talk to her, if she isn't a snobby rich b****, and don't ask her if she has a boyfriend during the first conversation because...girls are smart about that stuff.

Best pick up line... ever: "Hi!"

Just be you, believe me, you're not as bad as you think you are. Even if you're clumsy, she'll probably remember you, and think about it later. Not all rich people are snobby, and not all snobby people are rich. Chicks do dig the confidence.

Perhaps you could suggest a place to meet later in a well lit, semi highly populated but not overcrowded place, grab something to eat/drink. Maybe find out something she likes, and learn about it if you don't already have it in common. Sneak it in the conversation.

Do you notice that she gets approched a lot by other guys? If so, she might be wary. If not, she has someone and all but you know it, or maybe she's just as shy as you are. Either way, give her something she probably doesn't get much of (No, I don't mean sex, though that might be a case as well). If she's as hot on the inside as she is on the outside, keep at it. If she files a restraining order, it's time to back off.

Write her a little note, make it rhyme, make it funny, make it short, make it something. See how she reacts to that. Maybe you can get her friend to tell you some stuff. They have to seperate sometime, don't they?

If the chick calls you a loser or whatever, forget it, just dream about her late at night, and move on. Some of those mediocre looking girls can be pretty interesting, and keep you quite warm at night.

Just suggestions, not everything works for every girl obviously. But what do I know, I've never had a girlfriend. =p

Edit -- For the record, I'll include that I am female, for those that don't know or remember me.

Well My friend. It doesn't matter whether your shy or not. From kindergarten to seventh grade I went to A Rural school. ( school with Grades 0-8 in one building with one or two teachers teaching everything out in the country) And when I did go to a big school in eighth grade... i was shocked and paralyzed when more than one person looked at me... Srlsy.

But look at me now. Homecoming King, Stud football Player, Got all the ladies, In showchoir (I might have made all those up... Or at least most of them)

But now people say I "have the gift of gab"

Basically TALK TO HER, tell her some funny stuff. Most girls probably wouldn't mind if you are shy, some might like it. Try not to stutter too much, and if you do just play it like you have an IQ of 79 or somthing...

And the main thing... TRY NOT TO BE COOL!!

Or you know... do things you wouldn't usually do for the sake of impressing or trying to be cool. JUST BE COOL!!!

I don't like making fun of myself, but this is true that. I'm a big p**** of trying to get a girlfriend. I'm so shy that I can't even say a couple of words without screwing up. I don't think I can do it. I'm an idiot today because the girl was sitting alone and I did not set near her today. Thats how much of a p**** I am. If she was alone with nobody around then I would go up to her and talk to her. This is going to take sometime to just to talk to her when the time is right. I'm not worried about it I have 8 weeks left for school including this week and becoming friends doesn't take that long, but it will take more to be more than friends if you know what I mean.

You CAN do it, you just choose not to. 8 weeks can go by before you know what happened. Pass her a note or something, that way you have some time to think about what you want to say. Have you learned anything about her yet? Be random, tell her what you think, Go up to her, tell her she looks sexy with her glasses on and you just wanted to let her know, and go to your next class or something. Then you'll have some time to think about your next move, and won't have to face her for a bit.

You're not an idiot for not doing anything that one time. A lot of people go through their lives regreting not seeing where things could have gone with that one person.

Just please, through all this, don't close yourself off to everyone but her, and miss a great opportunity with someone else if this one doesn't work out. I see too many people do that, and then wonder what went wrong.

Sometime this week I will probably make a headway. Possibly tomarrow or thursday will be good. Friday I don't have school.

Seriously... Just talk to her in person. YOU talk to her.

or if you wanted to be sneaky and devious, just make a few passes at her friend, or talk to her a few times before talking to the other girl.

Oh.. tricky... but it could back fire... Like if she actually likes him and gets all cut over it... That would suck

Kupo? Your a girl?..... Nice to see its not such a sausage fest on here anymore....

Dude, just TALK TO HER.... Build up all your courage, swallow your pride and just do it... Even if you feel like an ass err whatever, its better than doing nothing.. right?

Yes it is better than doing nothing, but when the time is right I will. Believe me I will.

Yeah, man I can't count how many times I felt like an ass for going up and talking to a girl I like because I'm really shy toobut she probably won't think that, she'll think that it is sweet or something. When you start talking to her more and more it comes along more natural. It also helps if you have a friend around, not in the conversation, maybe not within 10 feet of you but I know I'm tons more confident with friends around.

Shaw, get her friend to like you but be sure not to flirt with her. All I'm talking about is paying attention to her.

Originally posted by DNG

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Kupo? Your a girl?..... Nice to see its not such a sausage fest on here anymore....

Dude, just TALK TO HER.... Build up all your courage, swallow your pride and just do it... Even if you feel like an ass err whatever, its better than doing nothing.. right?

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Yes, I'm a girl. I think I'd rather see you guys in a sausage fest than me in a gang bang...

So, you've asked for our advice, and what has everyone said? Just talk to her. Be yourself. Who cares if you're clumsy about it, you'll be a better guy for trying, whether things work out to your advantage or not. This experience should lead you to have more confidence, which most women would agree is a *major* turn on. Just remember there's a thin line between confidence and arrogance.

Only other thing I can think of on this is not to rush things.

I won't rush things, but just to take one step at a time.

YOU STILL HAVEN'T TALKED TO HER!??!

Here's my final advice... Think about how sweet it would be if you got her, and all the time you could spend getting to know her, let that be your final boost of confidence... Don't even think about being rejected, you can make another thread about that later, if it were to happen...

bodda-bing, bodda-boom

I told you I'm hell of shy. Thats why I havn't talked to her yet.

Originally posted by kupo

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Yes, I'm a girl. I think I'd rather see you guys in a sausage fest than me in a gang bang...

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lol
this is only going to be disturbing now that youve said that

Why do you think you are shy... Dont say dunno, i want an actual answer. What makes you shy?

SEIROUSLY STEVIE!!!!! Just do it! You be startin' ta make me angry n' I'll have ta rip on ya clowin' carcass fer' yo' poo' grammah again G!