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Which is more impotrant for you when you choose a person for a relationship?
Please, explain your opinion.
Which is more impotrant for you when you choose a person for a relationship?
Please, explain your opinion.
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I say both, because personality is a huge part of what makes a person who they are, and therefore can have an effect on your attraction to them. In fact, personality is in many ways a bigger factor than physical appearance.
This holds true, however, only to a certain point, because sadly people tend to be vain, and too many these days are totally superficial.
I say both, because personality is a huge part of what makes a person who they are, and therefore can have an effect on your attraction to them. In fact, personality is in many ways a bigger factor than physical appearance.
This holds true, however, only to a certain point, because sadly people tend to be vain, and too many these days are totally superficial.
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Personality is more important if you are looking for a long term relationship.

Looks fade.... most of us aren't going to be wealthy enough to keep up with what happens to our bodies as we age. It's just not possible.

However, personality doesn't change drastically over time (usually ) and is going to be a much stronger long term attractor than looks will be.

That's just my opinion. I'm not suggesting for a moment that I don't find my wife to be beautiful... but if that was the only thing about her that I liked then we wouldn't have lasted over 5 years of marriage.
Personality is more important if you are looking for a long term relationship.

Looks fade.... most of us aren't going to be wealthy enough to keep up with what happens to our bodies as we age. It's just not possible.

However, personality doesn't change drastically over time (usually ) and is going to be a much stronger long term attractor than looks will be.

That's just my opinion. I'm not suggesting for a moment that I don't find my wife to be beautiful... but if that was the only thing about her that I liked then we wouldn't have lasted over 5 years of marriage.
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MOST important is personality.

Both have a bearing on it because I find appearence is usually what first gets me interested in talking to someone more (I'm not proud of it, but it's something I've noticed). Then I see if I'm attracted to their personality.

If I get to know someone well who isn't that attractive (but isn't butt ugly), I can still be attracted to them because personality matters more.

When it comes an actual realationship personality is key.
MOST important is personality.

Both have a bearing on it because I find appearence is usually what first gets me interested in talking to someone more (I'm not proud of it, but it's something I've noticed). Then I see if I'm attracted to their personality.

If I get to know someone well who isn't that attractive (but isn't butt ugly), I can still be attracted to them because personality matters more.

When it comes an actual realationship personality is key.
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I'll admit that I'm pretty shallow. If a girl is attractive enough, I'll be able to stick around for a while even if she's a total cow. If a girl has a nice personality, but isn't attractive, I'll find myself just wanting to be here friend and nothing more. I think it's unfair to someone to be in a relationship with them if you aren't attracted to them physically, because I believe the physical aspect of a relationship is almost as important as the compatibility between personalities.
I'll admit that I'm pretty shallow. If a girl is attractive enough, I'll be able to stick around for a while even if she's a total cow. If a girl has a nice personality, but isn't attractive, I'll find myself just wanting to be here friend and nothing more. I think it's unfair to someone to be in a relationship with them if you aren't attracted to them physically, because I believe the physical aspect of a relationship is almost as important as the compatibility between personalities.
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Originally posted by BTowns
I'll admit that I'm pretty shallow. If a girl is attractive enough, I'll be able to stick around for a while even if she's a total cow. If a girl has a nice personality, but isn't attractive, I'll find myself just wanting to be here friend and nothing more. I think it's unfair to someone to be in a relationship with them if you aren't attracted to them physically, because I believe the physical aspect of a relationship is almost as important as the compatibility between personalities.


But like Geeo said, what happens when looks fade? Will you be able to adapt to loving personality more?
Originally posted by BTowns
I'll admit that I'm pretty shallow. If a girl is attractive enough, I'll be able to stick around for a while even if she's a total cow. If a girl has a nice personality, but isn't attractive, I'll find myself just wanting to be here friend and nothing more. I think it's unfair to someone to be in a relationship with them if you aren't attracted to them physically, because I believe the physical aspect of a relationship is almost as important as the compatibility between personalities.


But like Geeo said, what happens when looks fade? Will you be able to adapt to loving personality more?
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Personality... if a girl's a total 10 and I can't get along with her at all, then what's the point in even trying? No, she's got to have a good personality, be the kind of person you could spend ages with, even if she loses her looks.
Personality... if a girl's a total 10 and I can't get along with her at all, then what's the point in even trying? No, she's got to have a good personality, be the kind of person you could spend ages with, even if she loses her looks.
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Definitely Personality! Looks are nothing if a person's personality is bad...
Definitely Personality! Looks are nothing if a person's personality is bad...
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it depends what your looking for.
but for the most part its personality. i could be with the hottest girl around and as soon as i figure out she is just a lame brain, im over it.
it depends what your looking for.
but for the most part its personality. i could be with the hottest girl around and as soon as i figure out she is just a lame brain, im over it.
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Well I say 90% personality and 10% looks because I know most guys would still want a half decent looking girl but I rather have personality because that is something that would never fade.
Well I say 90% personality and 10% looks because I know most guys would still want a half decent looking girl but I rather have personality because that is something that would never fade.
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both. In a relationship the person has to be compatible personality wise and you also have to be attracted to them, if you think they're ugly, you cant really be in a long term relationship with them.
both. In a relationship the person has to be compatible personality wise and you also have to be attracted to them, if you think they're ugly, you cant really be in a long term relationship with them.
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Personality all the way!

For some reason, most of the attractive people tend to have some of the worst personalities most of the time.
Personality all the way!

For some reason, most of the attractive people tend to have some of the worst personalities most of the time.
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I agree with Gam3G!rl92 on that. Also, some of the not so attractive people could have the best personality ever imaginable!
I agree with Gam3G!rl92 on that. Also, some of the not so attractive people could have the best personality ever imaginable!
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Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.
Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.
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Personality all the way. Which would you rather marry, a skinny, big-breasted money-eater who only loves you for sex, or a very nice person who is obese? Honestly, I think that a lot of people are ruined by looking at appearance and not personality, and that it's very one-dimensional to not consider personality at all.
Personality all the way. Which would you rather marry, a skinny, big-breasted money-eater who only loves you for sex, or a very nice person who is obese? Honestly, I think that a lot of people are ruined by looking at appearance and not personality, and that it's very one-dimensional to not consider personality at all.
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Originally posted by Light Knight
Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.


Both of them happened to my some times.
It is said that the first impression is too impotrant.
But, most times personality is the key for a long relesionship.
It depends on what do you seek for.
Originally posted by Light Knight
Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.


Both of them happened to my some times.
It is said that the first impression is too impotrant.
But, most times personality is the key for a long relesionship.
It depends on what do you seek for.
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Originally posted by noelia
Originally posted by Light Knight
Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.


Both of them happened to my some times.
It is said that the first impression is too impotrant.
But, most times personality is the key for a long relesionship.
It depends on what do you seek for.


Yep, but that means when you first start, you have to depend on personality than appearance... Then appearance will come secondly...
Originally posted by noelia
Originally posted by Light Knight
Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.


Both of them happened to my some times.
It is said that the first impression is too impotrant.
But, most times personality is the key for a long relesionship.
It depends on what do you seek for.


Yep, but that means when you first start, you have to depend on personality than appearance... Then appearance will come secondly...
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Let's just put it this way. If you select a law breaking person to be your boy-friend (But looks good) and got you arrested, you would hate him. It's not what he/she looks like, its what values they have. An expression could be used in this case: 'Beauty is only skin deep', meaning that a person who is ugly but has a good heart is better than a pretty but mean and arrogant person.
Let's just put it this way. If you select a law breaking person to be your boy-friend (But looks good) and got you arrested, you would hate him. It's not what he/she looks like, its what values they have. An expression could be used in this case: 'Beauty is only skin deep', meaning that a person who is ugly but has a good heart is better than a pretty but mean and arrogant person.
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Originally posted by Light Knight
Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.


I definitely agree with that, but i put both just because I have to admit that the first thing i see is the looks... then I get to know her better.
Originally posted by Light Knight
Does anyone here find personality affect appearance?

For example, you'll meet this one person and at first you think they're very good looking, but after knowing them for a few weeks they start looking ugly (if they have a rotten personality that is).

Or vice versa. You'll meet a not so attractive person, but after spending a lot of time with their awesome personality, they start to look attractive, and next thing you know you have a crush on them.

Both have happen to me more than once.


I definitely agree with that, but i put both just because I have to admit that the first thing i see is the looks... then I get to know her better.
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Appearance is good for the short term and personality is good for the long term. It doesn't take a genius to tell you that. The worst thing is when you have both. Then you can't find ANYONE single and capable of being with you.


Appearance is good for the short term and personality is good for the long term. It doesn't take a genius to tell you that. The worst thing is when you have both. Then you can't find ANYONE single and capable of being with you.
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