Who doesn't have a crush on

Annette :

If the feelings are there -- by all means, pursue it. Long distance relationships can be hard, I've experienced many of them, but my current relationship was birthed from a LD relationship, and we've been going on for a little over two years now. 

Just be sure this is an actual crush, and not infatuation. The two are radically different, though the latter can lead to a bit more harmful behavior! Just my thoughts on the matter! 

haha i think its kinda weird to be honest. maybe if you have seen them and talked to them in person it wouldn't be weird. but what do i know i am just a 14 year old.

Beastmode64 : later on, and I hate saying this since it makes me sound like an old fart, in your life, you'll learn that more often than not, someone's personality is enough for you to develop a crush on. Besides, if they're local, or local enough to where you can see each other within a couple hours, you've already established a rapport with them, and know their quirks -- and you're sure that you like (or love, not judging!) them for who they are, not what they look like. 

That being said, even relatively local long distance relationships are more of a test of trust than anything, since nothing other than an obligation to the person you like is stopping you from going out with another person without that other party knowing, and vice versa. It's tough, but if you can get through those first few weeks or even months trusting the person, it's very rewarding! 

-- ARLD 'Richard'.

I think so. I haven't looked at any bad things happening on the site.

ARedLetterDay : I don't mean it in looks im talking about like if u actually know how they actually are. like they can be nice over vizzed or whatever but they act way different in person. that's what i mean.

Beastmode64 : I see what you mean. Like I said earlier on in this thread, it all really boils down to trust. Phone calls and the like will help you determine how they really act, as well! I can see the hesitance in engaging in a long distance relationship, and the problems that may arise, though.