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01-23-16 09:47 PM
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So I used to have a friend at school and we had a good friendship. However, about a week ago, I was bored and I started "silly"comment on some of his post on Google+. But there's a post that made him say "You are a real blank" and that I'm not his friend anymore. At first I thought he didn't meant it, but I was wrong. He blocked on Google+ and at the beginning of the school, when I tried to talk to him, he walked away. So that began the silence between him and I. I kinda felt ashamed and sad for making that comment. I'm planning on making an apology my email, but I did't even started on it because I don't have time. I just want to be friends again. So, do anybody know what I should do now or what I should put in my apologies?
So I used to have a friend at school and we had a good friendship. However, about a week ago, I was bored and I started "silly"comment on some of his post on Google+. But there's a post that made him say "You are a real blank" and that I'm not his friend anymore. At first I thought he didn't meant it, but I was wrong. He blocked on Google+ and at the beginning of the school, when I tried to talk to him, he walked away. So that began the silence between him and I. I kinda felt ashamed and sad for making that comment. I'm planning on making an apology my email, but I did't even started on it because I don't have time. I just want to be friends again. So, do anybody know what I should do now or what I should put in my apologies?
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01-23-16 09:55 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your friend. Maybe sometime you guys can make up. Also I edited your post with the name he called you. You should know that kind of langauge isn't allowed on vizzed board whether your talking about what somebody else said or not.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend. Maybe sometime you guys can make up. Also I edited your post with the name he called you. You should know that kind of langauge isn't allowed on vizzed board whether your talking about what somebody else said or not.
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01-23-16 10:03 PM
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Bintsy : Sorry. I will keep my language appropriate as possible. And I should probably stop using 4chan so much.
Bintsy : Sorry. I will keep my language appropriate as possible. And I should probably stop using 4chan so much.
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I have a few suggestions for you.  Firstly, forgive yourself!  You may have done something wrong, but you are a person of infinite value.  No matter what your friend may say or do to you, you will always have that value, whether or not you feel you are worth it.  Secondly, be a friend!  Even if your friend doesn't want to be friends back, you can reach out a hand and say "I'm sorry.  I'll be waiting for you when you're ready to forgive me."  Your friend may need your friendship more than they'd like to admit.  Thirdly, forget yourself!  I find when I think about others instead of myself, I tend to have a more enjoyable time in the long run.  Lastly, have some fun!  If your friend doesn't want to be your friend anymore, you'll have to move on.  Spend time doing good things with good friends.  I hope this helps your situation.
I have a few suggestions for you.  Firstly, forgive yourself!  You may have done something wrong, but you are a person of infinite value.  No matter what your friend may say or do to you, you will always have that value, whether or not you feel you are worth it.  Secondly, be a friend!  Even if your friend doesn't want to be friends back, you can reach out a hand and say "I'm sorry.  I'll be waiting for you when you're ready to forgive me."  Your friend may need your friendship more than they'd like to admit.  Thirdly, forget yourself!  I find when I think about others instead of myself, I tend to have a more enjoyable time in the long run.  Lastly, have some fun!  If your friend doesn't want to be your friend anymore, you'll have to move on.  Spend time doing good things with good friends.  I hope this helps your situation.
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01-24-16 08:24 AM
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If you really upset a friend but you 'don't have time to start an apology email,' you're not really a good friend and I'm going to side with the other guy.  He probably doesn't need you as a friend.

And I'm going to guess the 'silly comment' was really some kind of mean comment or insult and he was upset and he had every right to be.

So, you don't have to apologize because you're not really that invested in the relationship.  If I upset someone I liked, I would go out of my way as soon as possible to make things right.  You're not really trying so..... I guess don't worry about it and get on with your life.
If you really upset a friend but you 'don't have time to start an apology email,' you're not really a good friend and I'm going to side with the other guy.  He probably doesn't need you as a friend.

And I'm going to guess the 'silly comment' was really some kind of mean comment or insult and he was upset and he had every right to be.

So, you don't have to apologize because you're not really that invested in the relationship.  If I upset someone I liked, I would go out of my way as soon as possible to make things right.  You're not really trying so..... I guess don't worry about it and get on with your life.
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01-24-16 12:05 PM
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The Internet can be very unpleasant indeed. However considering your friend's reaction, I have to wonder how solid your friendship was. My husband and I are like water and fire when it comes to politics. The antagonism has diminished with time, but we still try to avoid the subject in order to have a more harmonious relationship.

Besides the resent is on HIS side. HE is the one shutting you down, so HE should be the one making the first steps in order to talk. Unless your comment was completely inappropriate, you have nothing to apologize for.
The Internet can be very unpleasant indeed. However considering your friend's reaction, I have to wonder how solid your friendship was. My husband and I are like water and fire when it comes to politics. The antagonism has diminished with time, but we still try to avoid the subject in order to have a more harmonious relationship.

Besides the resent is on HIS side. HE is the one shutting you down, so HE should be the one making the first steps in order to talk. Unless your comment was completely inappropriate, you have nothing to apologize for.
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Blank that blankhole if he cant take  a joke.
Blank that blankhole if he cant take  a joke.
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I went a year without speaking a word to my best friend for 10 years. We ended missing out on great moments in our lives and no matter what that distance does hinder your friendship. I recommend that you MAKE time asap and reach out. In your email, make sure to start with I am sorry if I offended you, it was not my intentions when I made that comment; I was being silly and playful and did not think it would come across offensive to you. Say how meaningful the friendship is to you and how this drift has made you feel and how much you miss his friendship and would not want to lose it over a comment. Ask if he can forgive you and take this as a learning experience. I hope this helps and I hope your friend comes around. Good luck and don't let this drag on for too long.
I went a year without speaking a word to my best friend for 10 years. We ended missing out on great moments in our lives and no matter what that distance does hinder your friendship. I recommend that you MAKE time asap and reach out. In your email, make sure to start with I am sorry if I offended you, it was not my intentions when I made that comment; I was being silly and playful and did not think it would come across offensive to you. Say how meaningful the friendship is to you and how this drift has made you feel and how much you miss his friendship and would not want to lose it over a comment. Ask if he can forgive you and take this as a learning experience. I hope this helps and I hope your friend comes around. Good luck and don't let this drag on for too long.
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jlove92 : I think the reaching out should be on the other end; HE was the one offended by a comment. And unless that comment was indeed hurtful, then it's that person's fault for being sensitive. 

The only reaching out he should do would be to write a very simple email showing his interest to maintain the friendship, but nothing too apologetic.
jlove92 : I think the reaching out should be on the other end; HE was the one offended by a comment. And unless that comment was indeed hurtful, then it's that person's fault for being sensitive. 

The only reaching out he should do would be to write a very simple email showing his interest to maintain the friendship, but nothing too apologetic.
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I do not know what transpired between you two,so I cannot judge the severity of the situation. Now,I do somewhat agree with Ghostbear,if you cannot sit down and write a short email and send it to him,then you are a jerk. But I would say,MAKE time to send the proverbial olive branch (email) and see if he responds. Above all,tread carefully and be honest with each other.
I do not know what transpired between you two,so I cannot judge the severity of the situation. Now,I do somewhat agree with Ghostbear,if you cannot sit down and write a short email and send it to him,then you are a jerk. But I would say,MAKE time to send the proverbial olive branch (email) and see if he responds. Above all,tread carefully and be honest with each other.
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I feel a little torn on the issue, partly because we don't know what exactly was said. Like one poster above, I'm assuming your comment was not a very kind one.  I do have to say I agree with the opinion that you should certainly apologize. However... no matter how mean your comment was, I find it hard to believe someone would end a good friendship over ONE comment.  Are you sure this guy ever really considered you a friend and wasn't just being kind to you in keeping the perception up?

Even if your comment was hurtful, I'd assume a friend would at least discuss it or try to gain some understanding. They might even say "Hey, that was totally uncalled for, and I'm going to need some space for awhile."  I can't imagine a true friend just -completely- cutting things off.  Maybe your life would be better off without this person, as harsh as it might be?
I feel a little torn on the issue, partly because we don't know what exactly was said. Like one poster above, I'm assuming your comment was not a very kind one.  I do have to say I agree with the opinion that you should certainly apologize. However... no matter how mean your comment was, I find it hard to believe someone would end a good friendship over ONE comment.  Are you sure this guy ever really considered you a friend and wasn't just being kind to you in keeping the perception up?

Even if your comment was hurtful, I'd assume a friend would at least discuss it or try to gain some understanding. They might even say "Hey, that was totally uncalled for, and I'm going to need some space for awhile."  I can't imagine a true friend just -completely- cutting things off.  Maybe your life would be better off without this person, as harsh as it might be?
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