It's because people look for drama, and then complain about it.

   You've learned enough about this girl to know she's a drama queen; if it were me, I'd stay away from people who act immaturely about nothing.

   Also, I had a hard time reading your post. I'm no expert when it comes to grammar, but a few commas might help .

Light Knight :
I know I can't spell or write worth crap. But yeah I just want to know why this s##t happens even in college its so stupid.

From another's perspective, it is reasonable to see how girl A assumed you wanted to eventually ask girl B out. B's reaction does appear to be rather juvenile. I don't see why someone would be upset that you wanted to ask them out. Then again I have no experience in the matter. But to find out why this all happened, I implore you to look up the Bowling for Soup song, "High School Never Ends."

danielbelitch :
I think the problem is that Girl A assumed that I wanted her to tell girl B for me but I would have really rather have asked her out myself see that hurts my pride she basically took away my manhood. Oh and I think that why girl B was bashing me was because she didn't think that I had the balls to ask her out which I was going to that week. I don't know quite honestly it all seems so childish to me.

I don't mean to offend you, but they're probably acting like this because instead of just going to Girl B and talking to her, and getting to know here like a normal human being, you became all creepy about it and tried to be a super-sleuth. People don't like when you want to get to know them, without actually doing it.

So perhaps it was not Girl A or Girl B being the "butt hole", but the person who was being all around-about and autismal about it.

Lazlo Falconi :
Listen the only thing I asked girl A was girl B's age thats it cause I didn't want to hit on someone that is 6 or 7 years older than me.

You are right about one thing dude, it is some B.S. I mean if she really wanted you to ask her out, she wouldn't be such as zebra about it. I guess most people enjoy drama these days.

Markeith21 : Yeah I gusse the old phrase applies here can't live with em can't live without em. But this was a venting thread and it's been a month so I couldn't care two craps less about the situation. 

Tilse : Quite honestly this was a thread to vent my frustrations about that point in my life. And to be honest I would prefer that someone take this down it was a momentary lapse of judgment. Also it was stupid of me to try to befriend a person that takes classes at my culinary school because for two reasons number one only two of them are non judgment female dogs (yeah I just did that) and I don't have a chance with them two we'll see each other every day and that gets old three I go to college where we have a nursing program and I don't know if you have noticed nurses are hot I should just go for a nurse and gusse what I'm going to do next semester. Yeah you guessed it hit on nurses but I'll have to get over that little superiority complex that I have but it comes with my profession to be a chef you have to have the mentality that you are the baddest mother in the entire country and you can't replace me if I leave oh wow I just ranted for a long while. But yeah I just told you more information than you need to know so just forget I said a dang word. 

Sometimes you have girls this way no matter the age unfortunately.

Take it this way: as you're older and having/seeking relationships or whatever - jealousy is still present.

Might be some other underlining reason though :/

There is one thing that I have learned in the decade since I graduated high school... the drama from there never goes away. I've seen it in college, in work places, in families... it never ends.

Your case is pretty annoying, I admit... I would just confront the both of them together and lay it out for them. Say why you wanted to know about girl B, that you thought she'd be cool to get to know as a friend but you didn't want to come across as hitting on her so you asked girl A... but thanks to this whole little high school scene you know that both of them are total drama queens and not worth knowing. Then thank them for being so revealing of their true characters and walk away.

I don't know.I really don't like talking about drama.So I can't help you.Sorry.

The way I look at is that everyone assumes something when we ask them a question, however it is the way they interpret that question. In your case the friend sounds like she was looking for gossip and she invented it from you asking about the other girl. I had the same thing happen in high school, yeah I did like the girl I asked about but her friend wrote same idiotic letter gave it to the girl and said it was from me. After that both of them though I was weird, so I didn't bother about either of them. People like that have too much time on their hands and not enough brains to know how to use that time. You should tell the girl that you asked the question not to invent crap where to go, I know I would.

I'm not much with the ladies, but when girl a tells girl b what you did not tell girl a, then it is girl a's fault. Personally, I would have tried to explain things to girl b, and then if she was still be lil' miss prissy, then I would have backed off. I mean, you just wanted a friend, right? 

Immaturity. If she's in High School, she's more in likely going to be really immature.Yeah sometimes girl's mature faster than guys, but that's not always the case. Just ignore her and find more trust worthy friends.

I'm changing the name of this thread to something a little more descriptive so I can know what it is without having to check it again.

Fallman7 : They're making fun of you because you aren't man enough to just ask the girl about herself to her face.  You say they are doing H.S. crap.  So is asking a girl if her friend likes you or not or whatever.  Man up, get confident, and put yourself out there.  Women appreciate it and will be  more likely to talk with you and learn about what you like.

And if Girl B here is critical, you don't want her anyway.  Surround yourself with women that smile a lot and laugh.  Those are the best ones.  All the others aren't worth your time.  Avoid the ones that complain, whine, talk about how smart they are and how much they know, and always giving their opinion without listening to yours or accepting your thoughts.

Find the smiley ones!