So I have this "friend" who recently put me on her restricted list on facebook and now blocked me on Pinterest
I know she did these because her profile on Facebook shows all of the symptoms of a restricted profile
and I went back to my Following list on Pinterest, saw she was gone, saw her on a mutual friend's page and couldn't add her back

All I ever did was comment on a photo of hers, saying it was nice and she takes nice photos
and I'm pretty sure my comment was deleted because I saw the photo again on my Facebook feed.....

So I just don't understand why she would block me like this!!!!
What should I do, honestly?
If I should confront her via Facebook message, can someone phrase that for me?
I'm not too good at explaining things and I never see her in person anymore since she moved.....

She's not giving me the TOTAL silent treatment since she just replied to me from our previous conversation
but yea, why would she do this to me, honestly???

And yea this is that "woman" for those of you who remember my last post about my problems....

I don't know about your last post but maybe she has personal issues or maybe she was drunk, try to ask her somewhere else if possible.

She wouldn't take all these steps if she were interested in continuing the relationship.  She's not interested in continuing the relationship.  Instead of saying, "Listen, I don't want to be your friend," she's just blocking you and ending things in a passive aggressive way.  It's mean and it's the worst because you don't exactly what's going on.

However, she made the one comment because she wants to feel better about herself and not because she wants you to think she still doesn't mind you.

what should you do?

Just be done with it.  She's out and she's not going to make any attempt to contact you again.  You can't control what other people do or like and there's no sense wasting time on this.  If you like her, that's too bad because she doesn't reciprocate the feelings.  Unfriend her, stop following her, have no contact.  She's gone.  The sooner you act on it and give her zero of your attention, the happier you'll feel.

I dislike our current social media because it allows people to be passive aggressive and ignore others instead of confronting them and telling them the truth.

Sorry.

I must agree with warmaker. It's unfortunate that your relationship with her has come to such an end, but you shouldn't keep worrying about why she's acting in such a way. She's made herself quite clear in her actions and attempting to contact her could hurt you even more. Try to go on with your life and think of that friendship as one of those periods in your life that has just come to an end.

warmaker : Thank you, but I said I made the comment on HER photo.....

xxeliza321xx : I read that part.  I was responding to her replying to you in a previous conversation.  She isn't going to totally blow you off.  She's just not saying much and hoping you get the picture.  It's unfair and it sucks and it's too bad because you can't know for sure but all the signs are there.

It's unlucky but it is a part of life.  You shouldn't want to have a relationship with someone who isn't respectful enough to tell you what they feel and why they're doing or not doing something.  That's mean and dishonest because it cheats you out of understanding the situation.  I'd go the other direction.

warmaker : That's true. But what I find kinda weird is that whenever she DOES reply to me once in a blue moon (she said she doesn't go online that often and that was pretty evident even before all this happened), she'll tell me like the story of her life!!! Not literally, but her replies are pretty darn long!!!

eliza, I'm going to step out of the topic very slightly, but it's to give you honest advice.

I understand that emotions are hard to handle, but do you ever think that you read WAY too much into people's actions and reactions? It seems like you post one of these threads every other day, and always a nearly identical concern/ stress. I really think that a lot of these things you are probably being paranoid about, and you're bringing a lot of drama to your life that likely isn't necessary. ?Instead of asking us for advice and hearing the same things over and over again, maybe you'd do better to simply talk to these people you are always posting about? I think y you'd get a lot farther, you'd realize your emotions are overreacting, and you'd feel a lot less stressed.

Always being on edge because you're worried about someone's every thought and move isn't healthy. You can't establish a good relationship on such paranoia because it shows a complete lack of trust and self-confidence. Vizzed's a great place full of great people giving great advice.... but maybe it's time to act instead of talk? 

I'm not trying to be offensive.... I'm honestly trying to help.

Singelli : I completely agree. I meant to reply to juuldude and say they are right too and that I'll ask her myself like a woman next message but I cannot find that I replied that when I thought I did.....

xxeliza321xx :  Do you agree that your level of stress might be a concern?  I mean, I know some people have social paranoia, but yours seems to be pretty bad... like it causes you a lot of anxiety.

Singelli : Maybe to some extent. I know of people who sometimes seem more stressed out than I am.

xxeliza321xx : I hope you don't spend a lot of time with them! You seem stressed enough!  I wonder if it would make sense for you to seek counseling for it?  I don't know anything about how the mind works, so I'm simply musing.

Does it keep you from doing things you want to do or should do?  When you fear about all these things, I mean?

Singelli : Yea it does distract me a bit. It keeps me from working and making money by taking surveys online a bit

I'm not going to keep posting in this thread because we shouldn't be sandwich posting.  However, I just wanted to say that if it affects your ability to operate normally, you honestly might want to see a counselor. It could make the difference between you always feeling bad, and being a bit more relaxed or happy.