I made a thread a few months back asking this question "are you in love?" At the time I was wondering the same. Now, however, I am sure of it. I spoke to her for a good while last night. I always mention her as "my friend" or "my best friend" on Vizzed. Anyway, let's just say that our conversation blew my mind. I am so prone to feeling bad about myself, getting sad easily, and worst of all over-thinking that I really need to change. I over think and as a result I find myself too scared to act. She said many nice things about me but also revealed some things about herself that I am still unsure of how to react to.

However, I think I may have a chance.

I have so many questions. I don't know if I'd be a good boyfriend. I don't know how she'll handle hearing this. I've been putting it off all Winter and I'm not just going to stand pat while some a****** goes to Burger King to take her away from me. I recently heard a quote from the great James Joyce. It went something like "this is a woman that I don't want to share with the rest of the world." She's that person to me.

Anyway, I really wanted some feedback about this. I really REALLY want to get this off my chest. Advice, comments, questions will be welcomed.

okay dude, I felt and still feel those questions that you are asking. I tend to do all of that stuff and even some more... But, you have to think about it. If she is that one that you want, then you just have to tell her how you feel (make sure you do it face to face if possible) like I said, I still have those problems that you have and my girlfriend and I are trying to get over them. The thing is I risked my complete mental state of mind and all self confidence I would ever have to ask this girl out, the funny thing is...she said yes and we've been dating for a year and 3 months already. I am not the expert in this way but I consider myself a romantic and we just get along perfectly. My life changed for a definite better when I decided to risk my self confidence for this beautiful, perfect woman, who I admire to no end and I love her with all my heart... And I know that I got to her first (I'm her first boyfriend, go figure ) but I have the confidence and happiness to know that she is mine forever... Hope I helped. P.S.S. good luck

JZ : Thank you so much for the kind words and advice. You did help. I wouldn't be her first boyfriend (I'd be 4th) but that's besides the point. I gotta do this.