It will pass with time. Seriously, one day you will wake up and realize that you don't even think about 99% of the people you hung out with all the time in high school. Girl A is not around anymore, so you will start thinking of her less and less. Especially if there was apparently bad blood (even though you didn't realize). But yeah. It is only 2 months into the semester. Give it time.

As you get to know Girl B better, she will stop reminding you so much of Girl A. She will become her own person in your mind, and you will think of Girl B as Girl B, not a Girl A copy.

Also, just forget about Girl A, she blocked you on an app, who cares? It doesn't change your life. If you ever bump into her down the road, be friendly and put it all in the past, if she's nasty to you, shake the dust off your feet and move on.

I get the feeling you had a thing for Girl A... but in time, if you just move on, you'll forget all about it.

I'm in my second year of college and three years out of high school (well, three in the spring-- wow...)

What rcarter2 said about the people you went to high school with IS very true-- you stop caring about them after awhile. It seems pretty hard at first, but then it just happens. There will be some people you care about and talk to still, but you'll forget majority of the people you knew.

Of course, there are the ones who can't let go of high school. I have one friend who moved 2,000 miles away to be with her husband and she's come back and hung out with the people she didn't like in high school three times since she moved out of the state.

But right now, you're in a very flexible stage in your life. You're finding new friends, still having contact with old people, but people get caught up in their own lives and drift apart.

xxeliza321xx :

First congratulations on finishing high school and getting into college.  Well, I had crushes on girls when I was in school, but my problem was I thought I was out of my league to even approach one to ask them out.  There was one girl back then that I really liked and should have asked out, but I never did because I thought she would probably laugh at me.  We were always friends so that wasn’t the issue, but I thought she wouldn’t feel the same way. 

 

We lost contact after I left school and several years passed before we reconnected via social media.  She ended up calling me and asked me if I wanted a relationship with her.  Although it was tempting, I chose to be a nice guy about it and ask since it had been more than a decade since we’d been in contact if we could get to know each other again first before trying something like that. A short time later she ended up getting engaged to someone.  I consider this person as “One that got away” but I think I did the right thing by saying let’s not jump into things so quickly. 

 

I won’t lie when I say that I have thought about her from time to time. It’s a natural thing to think about crushes and people from your past.  One thing I have learned though is, you have to worry about yourself and the people who are important in your life. Friends and acquaintances tend to come and go, but you shouldn’t let it occupy your mind.  Often this is easier said than done because there will always be little things that will remind you of certain people or events in your life. It’s the only thing you can do though. 

 

There have been several people who I was close to and friends with when I was younger that I have not seen or heard from in several years. Although I am open to reconnecting should they approach me, I just worry about what I need to do for myself. It’s really all you can do. I also know what it feels like to not be liked by people. I would just try to put it out of your mind as best as you can and play things as they come. 

 

Best of luck to you.

 

 

I totally agree with Light Knight, I'm sure that if you get to know Girl B better, she will remind you less and less about Girl A. If you're interested in Girl B there's even more reason to get to know her better! Ask her if she wants to hang out with you after school or eat lunch with you :3

I would think you forget the girl A by perhaps getting to know the girl B better. First of all, it will take your mind of the girl A and if you get to know the girl B better, you find out if she is worth your crush. If not, at least that's that and It was a good distraction while it lasted. If yes then good for you.

And no matter the outcome, you will notice the girl B is not the girl A. Maybe that will give you some piece of mind?

Just give it time! You will forget about Girl A eventually. I know that I don't care about any of my friends from a long time ago. Just give it time and find some new friends. Girl B sounds like a good candidate. If you become good enough friends with Girl B, Girl A will start to fade away from your memory.

xxeliza321xx : Stick with girl B and work through you issues by talking to a trusted friend that you can trust not to share the information with others. you can always try hook up sites too if you need to get through that gap

Aw thanks people

xxeliza321xx : How long are you in college with these people? Although it seems like it'll be hard to know them, if you are stuck with them for several months, you will get to know them all really well.

If time isn't on your side, just ask her if she wants to pick up lunch with you on lunch break or something. Or go for a coffee run with you during break time. Or if SHE is the one going out for a coffee run or lunch, say you wouldn't mind getting some air. That's how you make friends.

Oh okay. 

Okay, first off, Girl A is kind of a douche bag. Just throwing that out there. And as far as Girl B is concerned, don't blame her for Girl A's douchebaggyness (Yes I know that is NOT a word LOL xD). But give it time. Like the others have said, time will help, and make things easier for you. If you are wanting to talk to Girl B NOW, just ask her if you can borrow a pencil or something, then tell her your name. That's all it takes. I'm a girl, I know how this is. Good luck with that. Hope it works out for you.

The best thing to do in this kind of situation is to first calm down. You have to realize that not every girl is like Girl A even if there are similarities. No matter what Girl A will be Girl A, Girl B will be Girl B, and you will be you. 

Now the next thing you should do is just be yourself! Try just introducing yourself first (Assuming you haven't already) and then trying asking if you could maybe hang out with her just be friendly try to get to know her a little. I know its hard especially if you're shy (Trust me I know I'm a total Fluttershy if you've watched My Little Pony Friendship is Magic) but once you start hanging out you two might become best friends. As for your classes being full of strangers you could always try to reach out toward them and try to become friends with them. 

Oh and just a rule of thumb its better if you don't stress over things "Well what if she likes me what if she doesn't like me?!" Just be yourself and she'll probably like you. If you're fake and not true to yourself then she may like you for the wrong reasons if that makes sense. 

Thank you!
I'll keep that in mind.

xxeliza321xx :  Hmmm, this seems like a really tough situation, first, great fir finishing up high school and going to college, but still with your problem, I think Girl B isn't Girl A, mostly they're a whole lot of people that their voice sounds very similar, so I highly doubt it's the game girl.