Annette : I know that whatever i say probably has already been covered but here it goes anyways.  Is there no way to compromise e.G get the back of your tongue done... Or something along those lines. It does seem a bit childish on your boyfriend's side but i guess he must really enjoy the way you look at the moment.

I'm probably one of the few lucky people clothes and piercing wise. My mum basically dresses in black and likes bands like rammstein and linkin park etc. So she never had a problem with me getting piercing or not. As for clothing she just told me to wear whatever the hell i like.


Maybe your boyfriend somehow fears that because you will change your facial features it will change your personality or something like that. Love is a tricky thing... I suppose if you wanted to be juvenile you could always shave half of your hair off. Which i have seen a few "alternative" girls have. That should make him wince xD

Oh yes, and actually I still do today by my mother

Well, there are a few hygenic things that must be done for appearance, but other than that I do not believe so.