Well age doesn't really matter, if you love a person as everyone else haas said.
=3 i've dated older guys before it fine as long as you stay away from the physical
things till your both consent age. but thing is it might not have been love, but more of lust.

They only reason I find it kinda weird is because of where a senior and a freshman are in life. A senior is on the cusp of adulthood and is about to make some major leaps in life. A freshman is almost a kid. Granted high school is a big step, but not nearly as big or life changing as graduating high school, moving out, and going to college are. An 18 year old may also be ready for things that a 14 15 year old can't mental handle yet because they still have some growing up to do. I a completely different person when I graduated high school than when I first walked in those doors. Things I thought were matters of life and death, really weren't and what I thought about the world around me changed from being what other people told me to believe to what I had figured out for myself.
Now this doesn't mean that I think seniors shouldn't date freshmen and that all freshmen are immature and not ready for the real world, because I don't. Some freshmen are extremely mature for their ages. I just think the senior in the relationship should know what they are getting into exactly. I personally would never have done it, but to each their own.

I never see any age problem in realationships. At all. Its all in your heart, that is all that matters, I've seen some classmates date other students both younger and older, so I know it doesn't reallly matter what you do, you can go after whomever you want.

Marcmoney : From my PS3;Well where do I start with this one? I guess the obvious thing is to agree with the notion that age and grade level are not really important in terms of relationships. I'm sure you've heard the saying don't judge a book by it's cover, it's kind of the same scenario here. Also, grade levels don't really mean much as to how intelligent a person is.



I'll give you an example of what I mean. I've talked a little bit on this site about my struggles as a youth. I went through many things personally as well as academically. In terms of schooling I have mentioned this before but I'll do it again, I am a high school drop out. There were many things personally that led to me dropping out but in terms of academics although I was in 10th grade when I left; my reading and writing grade levels were listed as third and fourth grade level. What wrong with that was I am a writer and have been writing since I was 12 yrs old. I was already working for magazines by the time I left school.



The problem was the school system I was in didn't want to give me a chance to raise my levels. I was born with Cerebral Palsy. In my case it effects the strength of my legs and back but I'm fine otherwise. Despite that, the school system has a habit of treating disabled people as if they are second class citizens. In fact I had a teacher look me in the eye once and go "Here's a deck of Uno cards go sit inthe corner." When I asked why she told me that she was giving some kind of test as I recall. I then asked why I couldn't take the test, she looked me in the eye and said "You're disabled, you're not capable of doing work "Regular" students can do."




I won't lie when I say I was extremely angry over that and it played a part in edition to other personal reasons as to why I left. I am not proud of it but I don't regret why I left. As I said I am a journalist and although my career is not where I'd prefer it to be I have covered fights from all over the world including the last three Olympics. I 've covered Boxing, Wrestling and Mixed Martial Arts. There is nothing more satisfying than to use the words of narrow minded people and force them to eat those words and destroy what ever credibility that they think they have.




The point I'm trying to make here is it doesn't matter what someone's grade level is and it certainly doesn't matter what people may think. What is important is finding someone that you hit it off with, someone that you can eventually fall head over heels for and someone that feels the same way about you as you do about them. That's all that really matters. For some it may take a lifetime or close to it to find that kind of happiness others might find it easier but it does happen. Please don't focus on stereotypes, if you do you might end up missing out on something special. Best of luck to you.

All i would say is follow your heart, ignore other people and don't care how they may view you, and make sure that your both of consent age.

Ive been in a relationship with someone 13 years older than me (yes some people see this as wrong but i don't care)

If you have a strong connection it should not really affect you

There are definitely consequences to this issue in both ways. If you really LOVE  the girl, then let love show you how to act around the girl. True love would be showin that you respect her body and mind. You could wait until you're like 22 and she is 18 until you even attempt to do anything with her. But, if she is 14, or 15, she will probably try tempting you because of hormones...or she may be the complete opposite which would be so much easier to wait. Give presents. Take her out to meals. DEFINITELY try to win the parents hearts in this matter (if you're brave and smart enough). I've had this issue before. In the end, I couldn't win her father's approval for very much longer. No one else but he thought it was wrong. And I totally agree with rlmathias. Make sure both of you know what you're doing. It's sometimes hard to sit a 15 or 14 year old girl down to have a serious talk with...if she's really immature.

So....please please be careful.