So there's a girl I had class with this past semester. We've introduced ourselves and made small talk. I've also seen her at our school's Office Of Accessibility (learning disability center) because I have a learning disability and she works there. We've said hi to each other there too.

But now I found her on Facebook on my People You May Know/Suggestions area. She has two mutual friends with me, both of whom are from our class too and I believe she declined my friend request

I didn't send her a message to remind her of who I am because I have a very clear photo of myself and I thought she'd remember me.....

I just find it upsetting and unfair that she'd add two others from our class and NOT me....

It is impossible to accidentally decline someone's friend request on Facebook nowadays because Facebook makes it a two step process now (first press ''Not Now'' & then ''Delete Request'').

What could be the deal here, honestly? Should I try to add her again WITH a message to remind her of who I am this time?

Sorry if I sound kinda paranoid about all of this social stuff.
I just don't get why these things happen to me.

Well when was the last time that she was on? Can you see how long ago was the last time that she posted something there?

zanderlex : No, due to privacy settings, but I'm sure she declined my friend request because her page says ''Add Friend'' again.....

xxeliza321xx : I'd just message her sayin' "Hey I sent you a friend request an I don't know if you got it or
not, I'm just curious" So that way you wont seem paranoid. But that's what I would do

Well,
without sounding to rude, maybe she just don't like you or doesn't want to be Facebook friends with you ? This would be my first thought.
But what's so bad about it ?
Why don't you just send her a message and ask her if she can recall who you are ? Start a nice little conversation and maybe you can send her a friend request later again ?
Just think about it....

xxeliza321xx :
If she`s not familiar with you enough to add you on facebook as of yet, then it`s best to not pursue the matter further via facebook.

My suggestion would be communicating with her offline, as and where you have before, to understand her views of friendship more appropriately.

Really? There's someone I know who keeps sending me a request every week. I never declined any of them but he's still able to send.

Life is about 90% not understanding the decision making of other people.

This girl may not have added you because she works at the center and you're a student and therefor a "client" and maybe it's a rule.

Or she doesn't like you.

Or she doesn't know you well enough to be friends on Facebook.

Or she takes Facebook super serious and doesn't add anyone except a few specific friends.

The point is you can't try to figure out why something did or did not happen.  You, Eliza, try to do that a lot and it leaves you baffled, angry, upset, and frustrated.  People are going to decide things and much of the time even they don't know why the're doing something.  You spending time figuring it out is going to do nothing but make you unhappy.

You're here: She's not going to friend you.

My recommendation: Don't bring it up.  Forget it.  If you like her, talk to her and don't say anything.  Build a relationship before you try again.  Saying hi a few times isn't the same as being a friend and maybe she takes it seriously on the interwebs.

Just back off from her online for a bit.  Don't dissect it.  Go with whatever happens and don't take anything personally.

Thanks guys!
And yea, I think that's what I'll do
Just talk to her more in person and see what happens