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01-05-15 05:22 PM
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So my brother who is in 8th grade (13 years old) just came home from school and told my mom that he was invited to a |
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01-05-15 05:34 PM
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I can understand your mom's uneasiness too. However, I don't know how I would respond if I were in her shoes. Granted, if I knew one of the girls was his girlfriend, and I had not met her yet, then I would probably say no, since he is only 13. However, if I knew the girl, and the girl's parents, and the parents of the host of the I guess it just all depends, is all. I guess it just all depends, is all. |
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01-05-15 05:36 PM
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tgags123 : I don't know your brother. But man, it would take a lot of faith to believe that any kid that age wouldn't fudge there. I had no such opportunities growing up to break my virginity thanks to my parents. And I am REALLY thankful for that. I also wouldn't be surprised if your mom was uneasy. Hate to say it tgags, but even "Good kids" can go bad just like that. Without supervision, and in the wrong situation. That's why I wouldn't allow it. I know for myself, sometimes our instincts can become quite impulsive. And at a puberty stage like that you may never know what might happen. That being said, if you trust him, I would take your word for it. And Yeah, I can see him being too scared too react immorally in that situation. (Just cause I know I would be too scared at that age). In the end, I think I would just go with whatever your mom says. (For his benefit) He's not going to lose anything just cause he couldn't We never want to think evil about anyone like that. Especially family members. But we check just to make sure. For their benefit. tgags123 : I don't know your brother. But man, it would take a lot of faith to believe that any kid that age wouldn't fudge there. I had no such opportunities growing up to break my virginity thanks to my parents. And I am REALLY thankful for that. I also wouldn't be surprised if your mom was uneasy. Hate to say it tgags, but even "Good kids" can go bad just like that. Without supervision, and in the wrong situation. That's why I wouldn't allow it. I know for myself, sometimes our instincts can become quite impulsive. And at a puberty stage like that you may never know what might happen. That being said, if you trust him, I would take your word for it. And Yeah, I can see him being too scared too react immorally in that situation. (Just cause I know I would be too scared at that age). In the end, I think I would just go with whatever your mom says. (For his benefit) He's not going to lose anything just cause he couldn't We never want to think evil about anyone like that. Especially family members. But we check just to make sure. For their benefit. |
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01-05-15 05:40 PM
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This kind of thing always bothers me.
I find that boy-girl Yes, I know when boys and girls end up I've never been to one, as my parents are super crazy about that, and won't even let me and my freaking girlfriend get out of the main room in our house. yeah, everyone has sexual desires, but it's pretty easy to just not do it. And if someone is like one of those kids who isn't really into that kind of thing (as to younger kids it can appeal to be really weird and sometimes sickening) then there really isn't a big risk to it. Being uneasy about that is natural. But if i were to I find that boy-girl Yes, I know when boys and girls end up I've never been to one, as my parents are super crazy about that, and won't even let me and my freaking girlfriend get out of the main room in our house. yeah, everyone has sexual desires, but it's pretty easy to just not do it. And if someone is like one of those kids who isn't really into that kind of thing (as to younger kids it can appeal to be really weird and sometimes sickening) then there really isn't a big risk to it. Being uneasy about that is natural. But if i were to |
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01-05-15 05:44 PM
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01-05-15 06:02 PM
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tgags123 : Wow. That's. . . . disgusting. Too bad. But yeah, I see, "light experimentation" a possibility. I guess it's like trying out strange waters, or something like that. I would say watch him. FTR I have a 14 year old little brother whom I would say the same thing. (He's big anti sex, and so was I at his age. XD not something I need to worry bout till I get married, at least then there's loyalty, and my girl will know I'll always be there for her. I can't stand the idea of sex being anything less than a sacred bond and promise between two people. I bet the world would be a much happier for both children and adults if that were kept. But anyway, you're the big brother. Keep an eye out for him. He may thank you someday. Even if a problem doesn't arise. tgags123 : Wow. That's. . . . disgusting. Too bad. But yeah, I see, "light experimentation" a possibility. I guess it's like trying out strange waters, or something like that. I would say watch him. FTR I have a 14 year old little brother whom I would say the same thing. (He's big anti sex, and so was I at his age. XD not something I need to worry bout till I get married, at least then there's loyalty, and my girl will know I'll always be there for her. I can't stand the idea of sex being anything less than a sacred bond and promise between two people. I bet the world would be a much happier for both children and adults if that were kept. But anyway, you're the big brother. Keep an eye out for him. He may thank you someday. Even if a problem doesn't arise. |
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01-07-15 08:43 PM
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I think that it's fine, if you have any doubt towards the subject you could interrogate him. Another suggestion is texting him/calling him while he's at the Just some words of wisdom, but be trusting and supportive towards him, he definitely would appreciate that. (^w^) Just some words of wisdom, but be trusting and supportive towards him, he definitely would appreciate that. (^w^) |
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Wow, I would be very uneasy 13 years old and boy- girl |
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01-08-15 05:33 AM
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I know I'm an 'old-fogey' and stickler when it comes to things like this... And I know that most people are so liberal nowadays that they'd be appalled at having anything against such a Now, there ARE more than two kids there, and I'd certainly, certainly hope the parents are aware and responsible enough to make sure nothing awry happens. That being said.. I still don't think I'd let my own kids go if I had any. It only takes one mistake to create a lifetime of regret. Now, there ARE more than two kids there, and I'd certainly, certainly hope the parents are aware and responsible enough to make sure nothing awry happens. That being said.. I still don't think I'd let my own kids go if I had any. It only takes one mistake to create a lifetime of regret. |
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Alrighty then ... I think I will have to agree with Singelli on this one. I'm of the old mind set as well it appears because I would have a huge issue with this unless I knew the parents well enough to trust the situation would be handled right. Sound like your mom does not know the parents and to me that would raise a red flag very quickly. Even if your brother did not initiate anything who's to say the young girl will not ? Not to mention there is other potential problems there as well. If it was me I would say no unless I met the parents for a visit and got to judge them for myself in person, face to face. That is what I would suggest your mother do if she wants to show trust in him and let your brother do this |
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