Some things absurdly push us over the edge. It goes too far. It seethes our souls. In life, we are taught to use restraint and caution in approaching certain situations. However, some people and things are only a little tolerable. When we can't take it anymore, we burst into rage and become incredibly defensive. There is a difference between anger and hate. Anger only happens temporarily, and is mostly occasional. Hate can lead to holding grudges, setting a personal vendetta, and more awful things. I really can't stand people who are ignorant or insult my timidness. Hate is quite fearsome.
What do you despise and why? What do you do to relieve the stress? Thanks for letting it all out.

When someone says that they have changed, and not have then keep on repeatedly shown how worse they have gotten. Not only for me, but for other people as well. Another thing is complaining.....now I don't mind some complains that are necessary. There are the unnecessary ones out there that I just hate. Lets say like my mums one for an example she would complain about something, that is not of any use and keep going at it for a while. I think those are my top ones I might had forgotten some others, if I have I'll come back to post them up.

Hate is a strong word that usually denotes a lot of emotion attached to someone. Hate, I think, is usually reserved for when the word "love" goes wrong.

I can't think of a whole lot that I hate, other than people who cause pain, physical or emotional, to others for no other reason than doing it.

I fought in a war for the United States and I understand shooting other people hurts a lot. There was an objective to that and a purpose and it wasn't solely for the enjoyment of seeing other people suffer. That doesn't count.

But I see videos on YouTube and I read stories and hear about things like the knock-out game, or people just pranking others with the intent to cause pain, discomfort, anxiety, and I'm just baffled.

I have read the psychology behind why they do it but it still doesn't register with me. Maybe I'm well adjusted and happy enough I don't need to assert what little control I have over other people through the threat of violence. I'm confident and competent and things go well for me.

It's tough to say I hate anything but I really can't get behind what I wrote about above. It just makes no sense to me.

People who are the exact opposite of my personality.

Ultrajeff : Sometimes anger is necessary. Depending on the circumstances, it may be necessary often. It's better to have controlled, righteous anger than debilitating, uncontrolled sorrow. But there are different types of anger. We should aim for the anger we can control. Anger that isn't selfish. Anger when we see others suffering under their own vices because they refuse to improve. Anger when we see people under the whip that have done nothing wrong. Anger when religious freedom is oppressed, like what is happening in Russia. Even anger at our parents when they treat their children unfairly. The key with this anger, when used correctly, is that it actually promotes peace. But with that anger should be wisdom, otherwise the anger tends to spin out of control and become something bad.

Eniitan : Preach it. I so often think about this, because it's so true of my family...and often has been true of me. So many people change for a while, but turn back to what they were because they didn't do what they had to in order to make that change a lasting one. The goal in life is to try our best. Some of us don't try at all, some of us try, some of us try harder, then there are those who try their best. Those are the people we should aim to be like. I think you're one of those people.

supernerd117 : Yeah.....I can understand that see. If you are going to change and make things work for the better then keep it at that. There are some people out there who do try, but then when keep on doing it. It would be hard for other people to believe them those people would even come to learn how that person says things, and what if they are saying is true of change or not. :/

Oh....I so have to agree with you on that. My mum has a bad habit of that, and some other things as well. I know I can get angry, but I do something to calm me down. That's the main reason I can't tell her of anything she doesn't encourage me. I'm not saying she is a bad mother. shes a wonderful one. But, the way she handles something or most things doesn't make me to see I can tell her anything of what I want to talk about. That is where my real life brother come in for that, or my friends on vizzed since it helps more that way. My brother tends to be busy a lot he will get back to me at times when he can. '-'

Eniitan : Often I feel I have absolutely nobody to talk to outside of God. Sometimes I feel really lonely. I feel I hold a lot of opinions and beliefs that many disagree with vehemently, even my closest confidant on Earth, my mom. So who can I talk to about them deeply except God? Often at best, I'm disagreed with but respected. On the internet (or even off it), that's often not the case, especially since I rarely get out of the house. It's really hard finding like-minded people sometimes. But at the very least, I know there are people out there trying their best, even if we aren't on the same page on everything or even aren't on the same level. We will be some day, I hope.

I like talking to people that are respectful and kind, no matter what position they hold. And I know all of us need to be flexible, so that we can come to understand more. It's hard changing my opinions/beliefs sometimes. Really hard. But it's easier when someone comes along and is kind about it and spends time with me helping me to figure things out. I think that means I should talk to others more so I can weed out those things I'm wrong about.

You are thankfully a lot more tolerant than most people I know. It's good to see that, and I need to be more like that. And I'm glad we can relate, because that gives a strong sense of comfort and belief that I can keep going and getting better.

Minuano :

A lot of things. Here are a few I hate. I hate idiots that walk around like tech zombies on their damned smart phones.,I hate tailgaters.,I hate people that feel they must talk to you when you do not want to talk.,I hate people that act like hood rats or jackholes.,I hate having to deal with family at times.

I was at Wendy's today and I realized I hate when fast food places overlook my order. I waited 20 minutes for ice cream. Other people ordered ice cream after me and got it before, they just assumed I got mine and took it off the list and I hate that. I usually just build up a ton of rage inside and then go on a rampage on Twitter.

I hate the title of this thread. I think that counts since there really isn't anything that I hate.

What do I hate? Well, hate is a really strong word. I don’t tend to hate anything unless it’s wronged someone terribly. Even then, most situations are just frustrating, not exactly hateful like hate crime or terrorism. I guess I’ll just mention a few things that I find extremely frustrating but that’s also very close to hateful. A few things that frustrate me include when people lie and you and everyone else knows it and can tell they’re lying to your face. I don’t mean the little white lies that people tend to tell just to spare someone’s feelings; I mean the bold-faced lies that people concoct just to try to get a lighter sentence for killing someone, even though the crime had been caught on video and submitted as evidence. They deny being the killer or knowing the victim, even though they provided details only the murderer would know, and when confronted with the evidence, they switch to a plea of insanity. I also dislike it when people are then willing to believe that plea of insanity to give the perpetrator the so-called benefit of the doubt and they even rally around them to do so. It makes me wonder… Whatever happened to common sense, logic and justice?

I also hate ignorance and some forms of carelessness and the problems that result from both (this would be even closer to hate this time), because so many terrible incidents often occur that probably did not even need to have happened in the first place. Some people say it’s okay to not learn everything to the best of your ability or that something is “close enough, so whatever,” but they’ve never thought about what it feels like to be on the receiving end of their own incompetent surgical knives. Sometimes, I think it would be nice if those people could get a dose of their own medicine each time they treat people poorly, in every sense of the word. For a more personal example, one of my friends was told repeatedly that there was nothing wrong with them when they went to get their X-rays taken (every year, no less!), and it turned out that no one had been checking the X-rays so the cancerous lump that had been steadily growing and expanding was never actually detected until it was too late. The hospital maintains that the technician had reviewed the images because the images were signed off, but the same images were given to another random doctor and they were able to point out the tumor… which was smack dab in the center of all of the images! The tumor was that obvious, that even I could see it once I was told what those technicians were supposed to be looking for (they had ONE job, just ONE!). When the doctor (of another hospital) took a red pen and circled the giant spot that was already beginning to push other body parts out of its way, the extent of that first hospital’s deception really hit home for me. On that day, I learned the hard way that even the best hospitals are sometimes only in it for the money, and we are truly the captains of our ship. No one else will stand up for you if you don’t stand up for yourself first, nor will anyone else ever care about your health or life and death more than you (well, if you can find one that does, you are very blessed indeed). If you think there’s something wrong with what the technicians or doctors etc. said, even at a hospital that’s considered one of the best in the country, don’t hesitate to go to get another medical opinion ASAP. Humans are more caring and yet at the same time more apathetic than most people think.

Another time, I went to receive general anesthesia (I was donating something), and the people that were writing my weight down wrote 1000+ for my weight. -.-0 … Normally, I wouldn’t worry too much if the charts were off by a few pounds or kg, but I got them to come back and fix the number of zeroes because I just couldn’t let such an egregious error slide. Sometimes, I still wonder if I would have died that day from one of the most careless mistakes on Earth if I hadn’t forced them to return.

Finally, another thing that I dislike strongly because it can cause severe problems would be misunderstandings. So many issues could be prevented if people could only find a way to understand each other sometimes rather than just assuming they know everything, and then everything goes wrong after that.

As for what I do to relieve any stress I get from becoming angry or getting frustrated to the point of hate, I would usually take care of the root cause of the problem (talk to whoever I need to in order to resolve the issues), try to think of a poem that I’ve always used to calm myself down whenever I felt myself losing my cool (the poem is about peace and love in the world), or if I get to the point where the other two methods above no longer work on me anymore, I would usually excuse myself from the room for a few minutes to cool down and regain my composure. So far, these methods have worked for me.

I hate myself.

See, this is something I've always struggled with. I don't think I'm inherently a terrible person, I don't even think I'm that much of a bad person. I'm just a person that likes to sabotage the progress I make in my day to day life.

Unfortunately, this usually has repercussions. I get too into flirting, and find myself about to commit taboos. I hype myself up, and arrogantly boast of my accomplishments to boost my self-esteem. I manipulate people into doing things so I don't have to do them myself. I'm basically really good at being bad, and recognize the problem instantly.

That's where my resolutions kicked in. I wanted to curb a lot of these issues, and try to be more positively positive. I've dialed a lot of things back, but there are some things I'm still doing that I'm having trouble stopping. Primarily this involves flirting, as some people can't even tell if I genuinely like them or not, and are getting confused about the signals I'm sending to them. Whether I like them or not is irrelevant, because no one can understand my intent, regardless of what my intent is. And honestly, I'm beginning to think even I don't know what my intent is.

So here I am, sitting at a desk at 9 PM, wondering just what I can do to properly combat these vicious cycle behaviors and be a happier person. I'm always evolving and adjusting, but some days, it's a little harder than others.

There are many things that I hate, as I'm sure there are for multiple other people as well. I'll just list the first things I think of off the top of my head and see where I go from there.

One thing that I really hate is people who think they are always right, no matter what evidence you present to them or what you say to them to try and show them the truth of the matter. I briefly talked about this in my "You Know What Grinds My Gears?" thread. My dad happens to be one of these people, and I like to call them a narcissist.

Another thing that I really hate is people who don't even acknowledge you exist just because you're not in their "inner circle" of friends. Luckily, I don't think I've experienced something like this too many times before in my life, but I know of plenty of people who have.

One last thing I can think of that I hate is this dumb law that states that if you were tried for a crime and were found innocent, you can no longer be held accountable for said crime unless new evidence comes up. For example, OJ Simpson was found innocent during his trial. Years later, he basically admits he did in fact kill his wife. But thanks to that stupid law, he can't go to jail for it. What kind of idiot thought up of that one!? You're putting the public in danger for crying out loud! Ugh.