Today my mom called me a worthless***. And my stepfather called me some pretty hurtful things that I don't think would be appropriate to say. Crushing my feelings without a care in the world. Please forgive me for wishing harm on another human being, but I wish my stepfather will suffer a most horrible death soon. I mean, what kind of parents calls their son worthless and all these other things in front of his face without the slightest bit of remorse or regret afterwards?

Why did they call you these names? Is it out of sheer anger or? Did something happen? Since I would like to know a little more to it...
Wait. Was it when you went to go and stay at your grandmothers place?

Eniitan : Well, you see, en, It all happened today. Apparently, my mother was upset about something perhaps the shortage of money recently, and cruelty decided to take it all out on me. She went upstairs when I was studying and called me all kinds of terrible things. And started going on about how I was a useless and worthless son to have. Some time later she called my stepfather up. She had the speaker on, too, so I was able to hear everything that was said between. I was hurt that the majority of it was about me being a...I'm sorry. I really don't think it'll be appropriate to say this. But they really crushed my feelings today. And be hurted me the most is that she was fully aware that I was listening in on the conversion and still didn't cease the aweful things she and he was saying about me. I'm feeling very suicidal right now, to tell the truth. They're my parents, so I took what they said about me personally. :'(

Final Weapon : Maybe not to the same degree, but my mom's been verbally abusive to me. Suicide is lame, man. It's a reactionary quick fix to try to avoid dealing with the issue at hand, and it's not very rewarding in the end. The best thing you can do is find out what you think you were born to do or what you want to do with the rest of your life, harden your heart and accept things for what they are. I know, she's your mother, but after a while, your hurt will turn into hate, and then to indifference. I know first hand. You don't need her, and once you cut ties with her, it may seem like there's a small part of you missing, but at the same time, a great feeling of liberation washes over you. Take some time to think about what you want to do for a career, a hobby, or optimally, both at the same time, and relentlessly pursue it.

m0ssb3rg935 : Thanks, moss. At a time like this, I needed some helpful advice. But now I'm going through that some moment again and again continuously in my mind when my mom called me that. It is causing me a lot of mental suffering. I can't sleep, eat, or have fun because of it. It is slowly destroying me.

Final Weapon : Let me put this into perspective another way. I don't know what all was said, but I do understand how you feel right now. It seems like a really, really bad thing, but this was going to happen some time in your life with someone. A parent, a friend, a girlfriend, a roommate, etc. What's happening here is that you're getting it out of the way early. I mean, I can all but guarantee that this is going to happen again, if not on multiple occasions. But, when it happens, you're going to be better equipped for it. Eventually, you'll just shrug it off or even laugh. Right now, you're being tempered. This is an emotional trial. This is where you start to learn self control. It's essentially helping you develop and mature. She calls you worthless. What is she worth? Is she worth more than you? I think not. From the few things that I've learned about her in your previous posts, your mother isn't exactly an example of civility, either. As far as I'm concerned, her opinion is unqualified and marginalized because of her conduct. The only thing tearing you down is you.

tornadocam : Well... When I said cut ties, I really meant on an emotional and familial level. For example, my mom's a drunken raging lunatic, but I still live under the same roof with her. My safe space is wherever I happen to be standing. On the other hand, completely eliminating her presence is better. Anyway, I should stop posting in this thread for a while. Too many sandwiches.

Final Weapon : *growlz in sheer anger* how dare she say any of those mean and aweful things to you 1 don't even give it anymore mind since none of what she said is true and 2 that rotten a*sh**e you callz a step father better be glad I don't livez in the same state as you or he'd be in the hospital right nowz getting over 2,000 stiches for all the injuries I would have inflicted on him >,..,>

I'm very laid back and easy going but when it come to protecting my friendz you'd better not be the cause of their pain or your in deep trouble DX<

*takes a few deep breaths and calms down a bit* I'm very sorryz your having to deal with that Final Weapon if you need someone to talk to further aboutz it and say every horrible thing they have called you to someone just to release it from your mind then please PM me and I will fully hear you out on the matter *hugs you tight*

That son of a biscuit of a stepfather can go away now, he has done way to much to you.

But you say your mom is upset to you... Because of money? What the actual (****) is going on there? Look, money isn't the most important thing in the world. (Omg, i just saw what Jygin wrote. It make sense, i feel like that the same way)

I have no idea what to say to this, as i have no experience with this. When i was 13, the evil being in my house was myself. Now it's all over, but still i can't just say things here and hope it will help. All i can say is: Stay normal and don't do things that may make these things happen. I don't mean that you're the bad guy in this situation, but if you spend your money (of which can also be by accident) and your mother is getting angry because of that, be more careful next time. Don't make her angry, and if you think it will be okay for now, talk with her about it.

My stepfather gave me a wise word to solve problems: Think. Think before doing things.

Again, i do not say you're the evil guy here, or do anything wrong, but to prevent you indeed do things wrong, you can be more careful and in the meantime, think of a good solution.

(None of these things are proved to help)
Jygin :   I mentioned you, now i gotta summon you.

What if one day they change? What if they apologize and try to make things right? Will you still hate them then? Hatred of people is a terrible thing. It only destroys relationships and makes the hater unhappy. Hate what they did, don't hate them. What they did was unkind and wrong. God will punish them. God loves all His children and when He sees one of His children suffering unjustly, He will have avenge that child in His own way. But He has mercy, too. Try to show that to your family. Don't let yourself be like them. They can change, and so can you. Be the first to do it.

m0ssb3rg935 : I think you're right, moss. Maybe I was being a little too over sensitive about what my mom said to me. I mean, I was ready to cry a river over it. Maybe I should look at it as a emotional trial that I must overcome to became stronger as a person. Just as you said, moss. One day again my girlfriend or someone else close to me could do the same thing. Better to learn how to deal with it now than later. Thanks, moss.

tornadocam : I couldn't agree more. It's like letting a punch hit you and not doing anything to get out of the way. I think it would probably be best to move out and stay with another relative. At this point, all I can see continuing to live with my mom is more emotional pain and confuse within the house.

Jygin : Haha. Ah, thanks, jygin. I didn't know you cared so much about me. I'll definitely be such to contact you if I'm ever suppressing my feelings and need someone to talk with.

MrBeingcool1 : I know, right? Money should not be the reason for any mother to go upstairs and call their own children worthless***. But I think I sort of understand what might've caused her to say those horrible things about me. It's been really hard for her to take care of three children all by herself for the past few years. Shortages of money near the end of months is usually one problem we face and struggle with. Normally, my mom is a really nice and righteous person, but she becomes a entirety different person when stressed. It's like watching a angel transform into a demon. That's how I would describe it. Although maybe the sad thing in all of this is that there are many other close relatives that would be more than glad to help her with these difficulties, but she rejects it every time. I think finally leaving her is the solution to this problem, cool.

supernerd117 : Yes, I agree, supernerd. Holding on to hate will do me no good and will probably worsen the problem even more. I should prey to god that someday they'll change for the better.

That is not good, not good at all. If you ever wish to vent to someone then I can be the person you vent to. I already have a lot of people vent to me so what's one more if it will help someone feel better.

18mlivingston : Ah, thank you, mlivingston. You're too kind, but I couldn't possibly imagine burdening you by venting about my struggles and hardships in life.

I think they are angry about the situation honestly and just using you are a scapegoat. Just let them say what they want,and just for you. It is a pain in the @ss but just ignore it and worry about yourself.

Or as the history of the F word would say, "F--K the f--king f--keys."