Looking at traits and attributes are no way to find a girlfriend and make it a lasting relationship. You'd want to look for someone that interests you, talk to them and learn about them, and then ask yourself why you like them. At your age and mine, infatuation is always mistaken for love, I've done this several times. For me, I know I love a girl Im currently trying to be with because I'm happy around her, and she makes me feel comfortable just being near her. I also think she has the most interesting personality that I could spend hours explaining. All of the things like she's cute/funny/smart/strong can be found anywhere and everywhere. Its how that girl makes you feel and what she is really like that you want to look for. You have a really interesting problem and Id like to tell you this, to take on step-father roles is a HUGE responsibility for anyone, and you're only 14. To have a girlfriend you need to be capable to take care of yourself and your girlfriend, and to throw a kid in the mix just makes thing incredibly hectic. Do you honestly think you can take care of 3 different lives at once, especially at your age? Just consider that in your decision making, your life isn't the only one at stake, but the lives of two other people. But hey, I'm only 15 myself, I could be perfectly right, perfectly wrong, and anywhere in the middle. However, I'm giving you my experience and knowledge, and I'm pretty smart about stuff like this for my age. I hope you make a good decision and things turn out okay. Oh, and even if you don't end up with Girl 2, try to help her out whenever and however you can, it is really stressful to be a teen-mom. And heck, she was a mom before she was even a teen, so support her if you can.
Looking at traits and attributes are no way to find a girlfriend and make it a lasting relationship. You'd want to look for someone that interests you, talk to them and learn about them, and then ask yourself why you like them. At your age and mine, infatuation is always mistaken for love, I've done this several times. For me, I know I love a girl Im currently trying to be with because I'm happy around her, and she makes me feel comfortable just being near her. I also think she has the most interesting personality that I could spend hours explaining. All of the things like she's cute/funny/smart/strong can be found anywhere and everywhere. Its how that girl makes you feel and what she is really like that you want to look for. You have a really interesting problem and Id like to tell you this, to take on step-father roles is a HUGE responsibility for anyone, and you're only 14. To have a girlfriend you need to be capable to take care of yourself and your girlfriend, and to throw a kid in the mix just makes thing incredibly hectic. Do you honestly think you can take care of 3 different lives at once, especially at your age? Just consider that in your decision making, your life isn't the only one at stake, but the lives of two other people. But hey, I'm only 15 myself, I could be perfectly right, perfectly wrong, and anywhere in the middle. However, I'm giving you my experience and knowledge, and I'm pretty smart about stuff like this for my age. I hope you make a good decision and things turn out okay. Oh, and even if you don't end up with Girl 2, try to help her out whenever and however you can, it is really stressful to be a teen-mom. And heck, she was a mom before she was even a teen, so support her if you can.