Feel free to type out your Life problems, it can make you feel a lot better 

GlazedKitten : I really cannot think of many problems right now. Unless you consider the fact that I do not get to see my mom all that much because she has been working the night shift. But that is about to change, so that really is not a problem now is it?

There is this really clingy girl at school that seems to be obsessed and clingy with me. I cannot get her off my back and I see her once every week during my club meetings.  What can I do to resolve this situation?

ghostfishy : Clingy like she wants to hang out all the time? Need more input. What sort of club? What does she want to do? Does she seem lonely?

She is a very socializing person but she seems to always focus on me for some reason. Whenever I tried to be friends with her, she seems to be overaffectionate like hanging onto my arm or hugged me tight during the first week that I met. I don't really like when people come on too strong on me especially when I recently meet them.  I met her last year when she was in 2 of my classes and I saw her every day when I had to go to school. Whenever I want to go somewhere, she tends to follow me everywhere when we see each other.
I have a club meeting every Tuesday with the psychology club and I am the secretary for the club so I have to be there for club meetings every week. 
She loves being around people in general but I am not the type to use my voice and be very affectionate with others most of the time like her. I think it is because that she wants to be well loved which means interacting with everyone she sees. She isn't the hardworking type when it comes to school as well. I remember when she would ask me what would happen in class when she was absent twice and she asked me when she was absent (how would I know and remember?). I feel like she is very dependent from what I see from her. She isn't responsible and focused with her future.  I don't think that she is lonely at all.

ghostfishy : So what's the problem?  She wants to be your girlfriend and you're not interested?  You're not attracted to her?  There's nothing wrong with enjoying attention from someone if you don't mind it.  You obviously mind it.  If you're not interested, tell her directly that there is no chance of having an intimate relationship with her, now or ever.  Completely crush her dreams and hopes and you'll be clear of her.  If you say, "not really now," you're saying, "Maybe later so hang around."  That's why she's still there,  hoping for attention and affection from you.

My problem is I live in an area that doesn't have a strong economy and I dislike the job I do currently because of staff.  The staff don't act like a team and no one works together and we're struggling because they do the minimum, collect their paychecks and go home.  No one wants to bring glory and success to the business.  I can't go anywhere and I've been actively looking.  It's not fun.

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warmaker :

It's not really a relationship sort of thing. I honestly am not interested at her at all when it comes to friendship in the first place. I don't like how she is as a person. She just forces herself onto me way too strong and it just drives me off. I mean I don't mind the affection if I am close to a person but I don't feel close to her emotionally or physically at all. Plus she also uses people when it comes to schoolwork which she shouldn't do when it is college and responsibility in your own hands.

My question is how do I approach to her by saying that I don't want to be her friend or getting involved with her at all without avoiding drama (I've heard her complain about people who don't like her and she thinks very narrow and doesn't respect haters and people who think differently from her)? I do know that I will meet other people in my life and all of that good stuff. I am glad that I have some good friends in college but it bothers me when I have to see her every week. I feel like I can't shake her off of my life.

ghostfishy : a clingy, un-lonely girl in a club with you. As the club secretary, it will probably be difficult for you to distance yourself as you will be at all the meetings.

Perhaps come up with some fake crap you have to do as part of your function. "Oh, i have to email the minutes, sorry, you go on and do that thing you want to do, I'm going to be here a long time. " As she is not lonely this is good - it means she can socially gravitate towards others and eventually realize you are too busy to hang out or do her work, and leave you alone. I would let your club president know you are uncomfortable with her but dealing with it, just so she can back up your fake claims.

ghostfishy : Look man you gotta crush her dreams, go no mercy because no one can control your opinion.

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GlazedKitten :

Thanks for the feedback, guys! I will take in your perspectives and think about what I should I do.

My only issue is a lack of employment and dwindling money. Other than that, I have no other problems.

Finally a place where I can talk about life. Well, I don't really have many problems in life. I do hate when I have friends, though, who argue a lot. It just makes me unhappy to be in the middle of the fighting. Also, I hate when I always have to be in the middle of everyone's drama. It just puts me in a bad mood when I don't want to be in one.

I don't think I have told many people this but, 10 years ago, I lost my dad to a massive heart attack. I was right there to when he died. I miss him so much everyday. I do have things to remember him by. I like to draw a lot, which I got my drawing skills from him. I wish he was here, though, to see me draw them. I would love to show them off to him but, sadly, I can't :'( I even lost an aunt to the same thing. Same with my dad, I had to watch her die. I just can't bear to think what would happen if I lost my mom.

Truthfully, I don't have too many friends where I live. The friends I have live a little ways away from me. I wish I had a lot of friends that lived close to me that I could hang out with on a daily basis. Play games, hang out, grab a bite to eat, etc. I kinda feel alone with no people to hang out with. I do have friends that go to the same church as me. Just the only time I usually hang out with them is at church. It's hard being lonely without people to hang out with.

Where other people are sociable, I think i'm not real sociable. I feel kinda awkward around people cause I don't know what to say or anything. I sometimes feel like I would embarrass myself. Man, I just don't know what to do. I hate being unsociable and lonely most of the time. Church does help with my sociability some but, just not as much as I would like it to help. If only I was more sociable, I could have more friends to hang out with. Bah, I'm just gonna stiop rambling on about useless stuff.

Bye... :/

~PokePal435 has left the building~

PokePal435 : You're not rambling about useless stuff. You're most likely going to be able to solve that problem, but it'll require you to step out of your comfort zone.

It's OK to make your own thread about life, even if it's not meant to be responded to. I did it a lot when I was having problems, and it made me feel a lot better. Also, I always got responses so I'd know what to do about those problems.

Even if you don't know what to say and/or it's awkward, it's a great idea to talk to people. Even if all you can say is "hi", you might be able to get a good conversation. Sometimes who you're talking to will have more to say, and they might want to talk to you. Another thing you could do instead of just saying "hi" is saying, "Hi, I don't have anyone to talk to. Is it OK if I talk to you?" I used to be in the same position as yours.

At the beginning of this school year, I didn't have any friends in any of my classes. Everyone else had someone to talk to and no one seemed to want to talk to me. Well, I had that proven wrong later because I started talking to people I hadn't talked to before. It was very awkward and pretty embarrassing, but me and the people I talked to always enjoyed talking to each other, we had good conversations once I got used to it, and 3 of the random people I talked to became friends of mine that I talk to a lot every day. I also got more acquaintances (people that I talk to but aren't my friends).

Trying to become more sociable will be scary, uncomfortable, and embarrassing at first, but you have to go through those feelings so you can get used to it. I did that this year, and now I have a lot more people to talk to and it's not hard to do anymore.

PacmanandMariofan : I had friends to hang out with in school. Just they live about 30 minutes from where I live and I don't really get out much. Some of the friends I have I'm losing contact with. Its hard to lose friends when you hung out with them in high school. It's ok I guess because I do have friends a church. I only want friends that live really close to me that I can hang out with more than just staying at my house playing on my computer.

Church is the only place that makes me feel comfortable because they are like my family. I'm not saying I feel comfortable being home as well. I'm just stating that church is more comfortable to me.

Well I guess I shouldn't say I'm horrible at socializing, I should say that I socialize more in a group of people. I feel kinda awkward if it's only with a very few people. So if I'm in a group, I could socialize better because there's a chance that some of the people can relate to what you have to say. You may even have stuff in common with those people.

Well, I think talking about stuff helps me I'm glad someone can relate to me haha

well, I'm outta here

~PokePal435 has left the building~

PokePal435 : I wish you good luck, I'm also horrible at socializing, but people still accept me for who i am 

GlazedKitten : It's all good. It will just take time to be better at socializing. That's what I got church for. I have lots of people to talk to there and help with my sociability. It's good that I'm not alone on this at least

PokePal435 : I'm glad for that!, Enjoy the weekend, Have Pokemon X or Y? I'm also a fan of Pokemon

GlazedKitten : I don't even have a 3DS. I wish I did though cause then I would be getting both X and Y for it. Shoot I would be trying to get all the Pokémon games lol

But it will have to wait till I get a job o make my own money. Honestly, I'm a lazy guy xD

Compared to the past three years, my life right now is peaceful.

It's a definite benefit to living alone.

Most of my worries are trivial, such as missing assignment deadlines.

My hamster just died yesterday, another thing to be depressed about... sigh