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10-04-14 12:20 PM
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So It started by watching Vsauce's DONG videos. I noticed a website where you can draw on other people's drawings and make them better ( or worse). I got on this website and had fun time with people. We made a community. We improved our drawing skills. We became closer friends. This was like a month ago. Now we have a Skype group and we seen eachother's face. We did Livestreams and had fun outside of that website. But there was this girl. This girl was always very nice and cute. Everybody liked her, but some liked her more than that. I was one who fell in this trap. I loved her, so I told her I love her. She felt bad because of one reason. She had somebody else. 
It was a girl.
She is Bisexual but likes girls more. I was the 2nd out of 6 or 7 people who like her that way FROM THAT SITE. I got so depressed I could only listen to Gloomy Sunday, the Hungarian Suicide Song (coincidence I'm Hungarian too) It was like my hearth was shattered and put into a glass box in a museum with the sign "just some guy". Now I witnessed another guy telling her, his feelings of love. He was even more depressed than I. Now I am just friends with this girl. She does not even tell that she is lesbian. I kinda hate her for that. So many feelings, wasted. So many hearths crushed, shattered. Just because she has a very nice personality.

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So It started by watching Vsauce's DONG videos. I noticed a website where you can draw on other people's drawings and make them better ( or worse). I got on this website and had fun time with people. We made a community. We improved our drawing skills. We became closer friends. This was like a month ago. Now we have a Skype group and we seen eachother's face. We did Livestreams and had fun outside of that website. But there was this girl. This girl was always very nice and cute. Everybody liked her, but some liked her more than that. I was one who fell in this trap. I loved her, so I told her I love her. She felt bad because of one reason. She had somebody else. 
It was a girl.
She is Bisexual but likes girls more. I was the 2nd out of 6 or 7 people who like her that way FROM THAT SITE. I got so depressed I could only listen to Gloomy Sunday, the Hungarian Suicide Song (coincidence I'm Hungarian too) It was like my hearth was shattered and put into a glass box in a museum with the sign "just some guy". Now I witnessed another guy telling her, his feelings of love. He was even more depressed than I. Now I am just friends with this girl. She does not even tell that she is lesbian. I kinda hate her for that. So many feelings, wasted. So many hearths crushed, shattered. Just because she has a very nice personality.

Tell me what you think.
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10-04-14 12:39 PM
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So I want to get this straight, you kinda hate her for not telling you her sexuality? I'm just saying she has no obligation to tell you who she prefers to date. Also I think you should think about it from her perspective a little bit, it gets pretty uncomfortable when all you want to do is make friends but a good bit of the people you're trying to befriend want more from you. But that aside, I understand being rejected is never any fun. You should be proud of yourself that you had the courage to confess your feelings for her because that's the only way you can make progress. Don't get so down in the dumps over something like this, you still got a friend out of all of this and if her personality is as great as you say it is then that's a pretty good plus.
So I want to get this straight, you kinda hate her for not telling you her sexuality? I'm just saying she has no obligation to tell you who she prefers to date. Also I think you should think about it from her perspective a little bit, it gets pretty uncomfortable when all you want to do is make friends but a good bit of the people you're trying to befriend want more from you. But that aside, I understand being rejected is never any fun. You should be proud of yourself that you had the courage to confess your feelings for her because that's the only way you can make progress. Don't get so down in the dumps over something like this, you still got a friend out of all of this and if her personality is as great as you say it is then that's a pretty good plus.
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10-04-14 12:48 PM
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You got a point dude.
You got a point dude.
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Rejection is no walk in the park and trust me, I've been in your shoes a few times as well. I even confessed to males that I've really liked more than friends. Rejection is all part of life and you have to learn and acknowledge your mistakes from it. One day, there will be that lucky person who will be your other half just like everyone else. Don't give up because there are way better people out there to search and look for. Take some time to move on. Love can be very complicated.
Rejection is no walk in the park and trust me, I've been in your shoes a few times as well. I even confessed to males that I've really liked more than friends. Rejection is all part of life and you have to learn and acknowledge your mistakes from it. One day, there will be that lucky person who will be your other half just like everyone else. Don't give up because there are way better people out there to search and look for. Take some time to move on. Love can be very complicated.
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Quhark : Welcome to the joys of the Internet, 

Firstly she never had to reveal her sexuality, Plus she's Bisexual and not a lesbian . It's not her fault you assumed she preferred men is it, you just assumed that as a woman she would be. 

Also girls get this a lot on the Internet, I know your intentions were probably pure, But imagine if you was in a situation where 5 or 6 guys was hitting on you. It's a pretty daunting thought.. Women on the Internet get this a lot simply because they are friendly. And people seem to correlate that with thoughts of perhaps she actually fancies me etc... If she was looking for love i am sure she would be using a dating site lol.

Regardless everyone feels what you feel at some point in their life. It's just the feeling of rejection and feeling unloved, She still probably wants to remain friends with you, so what's the problem, you can still be good friends and enjoy her nice personality, 

Also you will often find that people you fancy or like are already in relationships.. And you can't hate people for that. 

TL-DR- don't hate her because she has a girlfriend, Like her for her personality instead. 
Quhark : Welcome to the joys of the Internet, 

Firstly she never had to reveal her sexuality, Plus she's Bisexual and not a lesbian . It's not her fault you assumed she preferred men is it, you just assumed that as a woman she would be. 

Also girls get this a lot on the Internet, I know your intentions were probably pure, But imagine if you was in a situation where 5 or 6 guys was hitting on you. It's a pretty daunting thought.. Women on the Internet get this a lot simply because they are friendly. And people seem to correlate that with thoughts of perhaps she actually fancies me etc... If she was looking for love i am sure she would be using a dating site lol.

Regardless everyone feels what you feel at some point in their life. It's just the feeling of rejection and feeling unloved, She still probably wants to remain friends with you, so what's the problem, you can still be good friends and enjoy her nice personality, 

Also you will often find that people you fancy or like are already in relationships.. And you can't hate people for that. 

TL-DR- don't hate her because she has a girlfriend, Like her for her personality instead. 
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sonicmcmuffin :
1. Ok so she didn't want to hurt my feelings so we put eachother in friendzone.
2. She told me she likes girls more and that I'm one of the many guys that like her after I confessed.
3. She avoids talking to me through skype (we have a group of 16 people).
4. This drawing site she was on, she licked everybody and hugged everybody, even new people.
sonicmcmuffin :
1. Ok so she didn't want to hurt my feelings so we put eachother in friendzone.
2. She told me she likes girls more and that I'm one of the many guys that like her after I confessed.
3. She avoids talking to me through skype (we have a group of 16 people).
4. This drawing site she was on, she licked everybody and hugged everybody, even new people.
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I have Autism so I'm not the best one to give advice concerning socialization. Rejection is not fun and it hurts I have dealt with it in the past and I still have to deal with it from time to time. I would not get in the dumps about this because she is still your friend. I saw were you said she does not talk to you that much. Maybe you could apologize and say that you didn't make her feel uneasy. Probably she has been made uneasy due to so many guys trying to get her. I know from her perspective it may have made her uneasy. So maybe say that you were sorry for making her feel uneasy and that you would like to be just good friends or something like that. 
I have Autism so I'm not the best one to give advice concerning socialization. Rejection is not fun and it hurts I have dealt with it in the past and I still have to deal with it from time to time. I would not get in the dumps about this because she is still your friend. I saw were you said she does not talk to you that much. Maybe you could apologize and say that you didn't make her feel uneasy. Probably she has been made uneasy due to so many guys trying to get her. I know from her perspective it may have made her uneasy. So maybe say that you were sorry for making her feel uneasy and that you would like to be just good friends or something like that. 
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tornadocam : Having Autism does not make you a bad person. You are awesome, remember this.
tornadocam : Having Autism does not make you a bad person. You are awesome, remember this.
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Why are your feelings wasted.  Think of all the times you were excited and enthusiastic and you got to talk to this girl.  That excitement is going to come back again, I promise.  You tried, you went for it, you failed.  That happens.  That's life.  More importantly, you got to experience something that so few people dare to do.  You went out and told someone you loved them.  That's the bravest thing a person, guys especially, can ever do.  You bared your soul.  It's okay that she said no and went a different direction.  You'll heal.  You'll be stronger.

You wasted nothing.  You can't expect a first positive relationship to turn into a marriage.  Things are going to fail and not work.  But life is about living in the moment and loving those times when you're on your high and when everything is beautiful.

Things wouldn't be wonderful if we didn't get to experience the negative.  Take the time to grieve, feel bad, and then get up, dust yourself off, and keep things moving.

You're doing fine, man.  You're awesome, too.
Why are your feelings wasted.  Think of all the times you were excited and enthusiastic and you got to talk to this girl.  That excitement is going to come back again, I promise.  You tried, you went for it, you failed.  That happens.  That's life.  More importantly, you got to experience something that so few people dare to do.  You went out and told someone you loved them.  That's the bravest thing a person, guys especially, can ever do.  You bared your soul.  It's okay that she said no and went a different direction.  You'll heal.  You'll be stronger.

You wasted nothing.  You can't expect a first positive relationship to turn into a marriage.  Things are going to fail and not work.  But life is about living in the moment and loving those times when you're on your high and when everything is beautiful.

Things wouldn't be wonderful if we didn't get to experience the negative.  Take the time to grieve, feel bad, and then get up, dust yourself off, and keep things moving.

You're doing fine, man.  You're awesome, too.
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warmaker : Actually a lot happened since. We became friends and talk every day, now she introduced me to her friends. She and her friend is the reason why I have Snapchat. I became more confident and now I think she fell in love with me.
warmaker : Actually a lot happened since. We became friends and talk every day, now she introduced me to her friends. She and her friend is the reason why I have Snapchat. I became more confident and now I think she fell in love with me.
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Quhark : don't hate her she's just being who she is i'm bi but i don't make it announced but at the end of the day you gotta realize that you gotta move on remember the good times what make's you happy and if you stay like this there won't be any good times you'll look back and realize that you wasted time in your life, now use that time be happy and get a grip on yourself
Quhark : don't hate her she's just being who she is i'm bi but i don't make it announced but at the end of the day you gotta realize that you gotta move on remember the good times what make's you happy and if you stay like this there won't be any good times you'll look back and realize that you wasted time in your life, now use that time be happy and get a grip on yourself
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kirbmanboggle : I don't hate her. I still love her but I learned to be cool. I don't fear telling her my feelings anymore. Guys hate me because I talk to her a lot and they are jealous. I'm bi too btw. Also I think she likes me too. But if she is just my friend, that is enough for me. She already made me change so much that I went from a person who nobody talked to and was always depressed, to a person who is so cool you always want to hang out with. Until now I wanted to find friends in my school, now they find me.
kirbmanboggle : I don't hate her. I still love her but I learned to be cool. I don't fear telling her my feelings anymore. Guys hate me because I talk to her a lot and they are jealous. I'm bi too btw. Also I think she likes me too. But if she is just my friend, that is enough for me. She already made me change so much that I went from a person who nobody talked to and was always depressed, to a person who is so cool you always want to hang out with. Until now I wanted to find friends in my school, now they find me.
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It's amazing how just one person can make your life change so much in a short amount of time. Congratulations and since she has impacted your life so greatly, you really should try to be the best friend you can be for her.
It's amazing how just one person can make your life change so much in a short amount of time. Congratulations and since she has impacted your life so greatly, you really should try to be the best friend you can be for her.
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PacmanandMariofan : Lately I discovered that a relationship between me and her is like not possible because of her. I am okay with that. I still be her friend anyway. I might have been mean to her from time to time because she didn't love me but she made me remember that I am not a bad person and I should stop making everyone hate me, because she won't hate me, and I am a nice guy. 
People didn't hate me because they were jealous. They hated me because I was mean to them and I made everyone feel bad for me.
I am the one who made people hate me. Now that I know that I try to be a better person overall.
PacmanandMariofan : Lately I discovered that a relationship between me and her is like not possible because of her. I am okay with that. I still be her friend anyway. I might have been mean to her from time to time because she didn't love me but she made me remember that I am not a bad person and I should stop making everyone hate me, because she won't hate me, and I am a nice guy. 
People didn't hate me because they were jealous. They hated me because I was mean to them and I made everyone feel bad for me.
I am the one who made people hate me. Now that I know that I try to be a better person overall.
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