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Have you ever had someone who once loved you a lot come to hate you?

 

07-11-14 10:45 PM
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I have a brother. He is nine years old, and he once adored the heck out of me. Now he mainly sees me as some sort of tool to get what he wants, and has become a lot more selfish. I've done some things I regret, and I fear I have damaged our relationship so much, that he'll never want it back (although I realize that it's him holding out at this point, not me).

I hope that someday he and I will kick it off again, and become best buds like we used to be.
I have a brother. He is nine years old, and he once adored the heck out of me. Now he mainly sees me as some sort of tool to get what he wants, and has become a lot more selfish. I've done some things I regret, and I fear I have damaged our relationship so much, that he'll never want it back (although I realize that it's him holding out at this point, not me).

I hope that someday he and I will kick it off again, and become best buds like we used to be.
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Hell yeah.
Everyone who I have ever loved and loved me, they all hate me for noooooo reason. It's annoying, and I just don't like it.
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Hell yeah.
Everyone who I have ever loved and loved me, they all hate me for noooooo reason. It's annoying, and I just don't like it.
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Wow... this is strange timing for a thread like this for me. Recently there was this girl that I REALLY like, more than anyone else before. So it's been a long time since I first met her and a lot of stuff has happened in 2 years, such as her breaking up with her boyfriend and starting to also like me. Unfortunately she went to Germany for a month in the Summer (I think she got back yesterday?). So during the time that she was gone she had been talking, as more than friends, with my best friend... So I have been working non-stop this Summer at the worst job with the longest hour possible. Usually 10 days in a row of up to 15 hours, but usually around 12. I'm sure you can see how sitting all day not seeing people at all could literally drive someone crazy so I kind of started to go crazy (I guess more than kind of). So when they told me that they were "talking" I was super pissed off at them. I started saying the nastiest stuff to them that I regret now. Luckily my best friend is the one that pointed out I was going crazy before all this happened so I was able to regain their friendship. Now I'm not really sure how the girl feels about me but I'm sure that she doesn't like me all that much. I wish I could say that I hate her, but I just can't and I don't think I will be able to for a long time. The saddest part is that I still like her but I know that nothing will ever happen between us again.
Wow... this is strange timing for a thread like this for me. Recently there was this girl that I REALLY like, more than anyone else before. So it's been a long time since I first met her and a lot of stuff has happened in 2 years, such as her breaking up with her boyfriend and starting to also like me. Unfortunately she went to Germany for a month in the Summer (I think she got back yesterday?). So during the time that she was gone she had been talking, as more than friends, with my best friend... So I have been working non-stop this Summer at the worst job with the longest hour possible. Usually 10 days in a row of up to 15 hours, but usually around 12. I'm sure you can see how sitting all day not seeing people at all could literally drive someone crazy so I kind of started to go crazy (I guess more than kind of). So when they told me that they were "talking" I was super pissed off at them. I started saying the nastiest stuff to them that I regret now. Luckily my best friend is the one that pointed out I was going crazy before all this happened so I was able to regain their friendship. Now I'm not really sure how the girl feels about me but I'm sure that she doesn't like me all that much. I wish I could say that I hate her, but I just can't and I don't think I will be able to for a long time. The saddest part is that I still like her but I know that nothing will ever happen between us again.
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So far I haven't, my little brother and I get along well but there was a time we usually got into fights. Now my sister has that problem I think you should talk with him or just wait, maybe it's just a period.
So far I haven't, my little brother and I get along well but there was a time we usually got into fights. Now my sister has that problem I think you should talk with him or just wait, maybe it's just a period.
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Barathemos : That's not true. I care. And I believe others on here care too, even if we're the minority. Focus on the love you receive, not the hate. Those who do hate you will come around eventually, I hope.
Barathemos : That's not true. I care. And I believe others on here care too, even if we're the minority. Focus on the love you receive, not the hate. Those who do hate you will come around eventually, I hope.
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My brother and I get into a few fights but it isn't constant though I haven't had anything like this yet. I do hope I never will but who knows.
My brother and I get into a few fights but it isn't constant though I haven't had anything like this yet. I do hope I never will but who knows.
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My little brother constantly fights with everybody. I think he used to like me, but he is now just a toxic relationship. I do not think there is anyone else who I know that does that, but there are more people who I once love that I now hate. 
My little brother constantly fights with everybody. I think he used to like me, but he is now just a toxic relationship. I do not think there is anyone else who I know that does that, but there are more people who I once love that I now hate. 
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Yeah in high school the boy I was with off and on though out it. He hated me after I told his girlfriend how all he did was cheat and lie to her. We haven't spoken since and before we were really god friends. I just hated how he treated everyone like crap and got away with it.
Yeah in high school the boy I was with off and on though out it. He hated me after I told his girlfriend how all he did was cheat and lie to her. We haven't spoken since and before we were really god friends. I just hated how he treated everyone like crap and got away with it.
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Yeah. An ex from high school. we went out for about 7 months, then she straight up and left me because I did not kiss her enough and was not mean enough to her. She has not spoken to me since. 
Yeah. An ex from high school. we went out for about 7 months, then she straight up and left me because I did not kiss her enough and was not mean enough to her. She has not spoken to me since. 
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Yes, we was a friend of mine back in grade 5. He was acting like a complete jackass (hitting people, swearing excessively, e.t.c.), so we grew farther apart until he severed all remaining contact. We haven't spoken to each other in years, though we ended on a sour note.
Yes, we was a friend of mine back in grade 5. He was acting like a complete jackass (hitting people, swearing excessively, e.t.c.), so we grew farther apart until he severed all remaining contact. We haven't spoken to each other in years, though we ended on a sour note.
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I haven't, but it seems that I have. My brother used to be so nice and mature. Starting a long time ago, he turned bad. Now, he's very immature and defiant, and a showoff. He's 6 six years old. He usually acts like a 2-year-old or a teenager. I try to be nice to him when he's nice to me, which is almost never. It's so hard because he's only nice when he wants to be or he's forced to. He's really smart but acts as if he's an idiot so people are less hard on him.

One time he pointed to the backyard door of my house, looked right at me, and said, "Get out." He looked ticked off. I was only so hard on him because I was trying to make him a better person. Well, that didn't work at all, so now I'm just hard on him. Another time, yesterday, right after I got home from one of the best experiences of my life and I was in a really good mood for the first time in weeks, he looked at me and said, "Go away!" He had a huge smile on his face when he said that. I grabbed his arm, said, "That wasn't nice," and scared the heck out of him. After that, I walked towards him while he was walking backwards. I asked him, "Do you know where not nice people go?" I waited a few seconds and then said, "They go in a time-out chair." I keep telling him that, and he acts as if he doesn't give a crap or he's too young to understand. Whatever. If my parents aren't going to try much harder to make him improve his personality, I'm going to keep trying harder and driving all 3 of them crazy. I'm just attempting to help my parents, my sister, and my mom's friend and they get angry about it. My brother has speech therapy and a safety program and my parents are letting the adults at those places do like 99% of the work. Ugh.

Everyone thinks he's so darn cute except my sister, my mom's friend and I, because we seem to be the only people that know what should be done with him and how mean he is. He shows off a lot more for guests and he behaves better for guests so my friends treat him very nicely. It makes me sick.

On my birthday this year, I had the last straw. I confessed to my parents in front of two of my friends that I don't like my brother, they need to stop giving him too many chances in order for him to take things seriously. I felt so much better after that, because I had been hiding that secret for months and it was hard to bear.

My brother has changed a lot of things at my house. They will never be similar again to how they were before he came because he caused my parents to go harder on my sister and I. That doesn't make sense because I'm nice to him when he's nice to me (not willingly, but I still do it), I have Autism which causes my social life to be a little bit difficult and frustrates me, and I'm their best kid by very far. Also, my sister doesn't learn much either, no matter what my parents do to her. If I asked my parents which of their kids is their favorite, I'd probably get screen privileges taken away, or I'd even get grounded.

My mom's friend, my friends, school, and Vizzed are what help me get through it. If none of those things helped me, I probably would have no tolerance for it.

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I haven't, but it seems that I have. My brother used to be so nice and mature. Starting a long time ago, he turned bad. Now, he's very immature and defiant, and a showoff. He's 6 six years old. He usually acts like a 2-year-old or a teenager. I try to be nice to him when he's nice to me, which is almost never. It's so hard because he's only nice when he wants to be or he's forced to. He's really smart but acts as if he's an idiot so people are less hard on him.

One time he pointed to the backyard door of my house, looked right at me, and said, "Get out." He looked ticked off. I was only so hard on him because I was trying to make him a better person. Well, that didn't work at all, so now I'm just hard on him. Another time, yesterday, right after I got home from one of the best experiences of my life and I was in a really good mood for the first time in weeks, he looked at me and said, "Go away!" He had a huge smile on his face when he said that. I grabbed his arm, said, "That wasn't nice," and scared the heck out of him. After that, I walked towards him while he was walking backwards. I asked him, "Do you know where not nice people go?" I waited a few seconds and then said, "They go in a time-out chair." I keep telling him that, and he acts as if he doesn't give a crap or he's too young to understand. Whatever. If my parents aren't going to try much harder to make him improve his personality, I'm going to keep trying harder and driving all 3 of them crazy. I'm just attempting to help my parents, my sister, and my mom's friend and they get angry about it. My brother has speech therapy and a safety program and my parents are letting the adults at those places do like 99% of the work. Ugh.

Everyone thinks he's so darn cute except my sister, my mom's friend and I, because we seem to be the only people that know what should be done with him and how mean he is. He shows off a lot more for guests and he behaves better for guests so my friends treat him very nicely. It makes me sick.

On my birthday this year, I had the last straw. I confessed to my parents in front of two of my friends that I don't like my brother, they need to stop giving him too many chances in order for him to take things seriously. I felt so much better after that, because I had been hiding that secret for months and it was hard to bear.

My brother has changed a lot of things at my house. They will never be similar again to how they were before he came because he caused my parents to go harder on my sister and I. That doesn't make sense because I'm nice to him when he's nice to me (not willingly, but I still do it), I have Autism which causes my social life to be a little bit difficult and frustrates me, and I'm their best kid by very far. Also, my sister doesn't learn much either, no matter what my parents do to her. If I asked my parents which of their kids is their favorite, I'd probably get screen privileges taken away, or I'd even get grounded.

My mom's friend, my friends, school, and Vizzed are what help me get through it. If none of those things helped me, I probably would have no tolerance for it.

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PacmanandMariofan : It sounds like your brother is a real jerk. I can relate. But if you're too hard on him, he'll only rebel and hate you more. I do believe that your brother hates you, even if he never says it. I try to be hard on my brother only when I have to be so he cannot say I'm a jerk as well honestly. My brother is also a habitual liar and a thief. Sadly, he got that partly from me. I am no longer like that, but he tries to claim that I am. Thankfully, I have earned a lot of my parents' trust back, but they still distrust me in some areas that I know I deserve trust.
PacmanandMariofan : It sounds like your brother is a real jerk. I can relate. But if you're too hard on him, he'll only rebel and hate you more. I do believe that your brother hates you, even if he never says it. I try to be hard on my brother only when I have to be so he cannot say I'm a jerk as well honestly. My brother is also a habitual liar and a thief. Sadly, he got that partly from me. I am no longer like that, but he tries to claim that I am. Thankfully, I have earned a lot of my parents' trust back, but they still distrust me in some areas that I know I deserve trust.
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supernerd117 : I hope your parents will eventually give you all the trust you deserve. I'm not really hard on my brother, I just do what's necessary to get him to listen and to let him know I mean business. Most of the time it works and most of the time, he isn't mean to me other than being defiant. He was defiant for months before I started going harder on him so I know he isn't defiant for me because of that. He's defiant for everyone in my family unit. I constantly hope that he'll become a better person so I can finally begin to like him again (I liked him until he turned bad) and my parents won't be so stressed out all the time.
supernerd117 : I hope your parents will eventually give you all the trust you deserve. I'm not really hard on my brother, I just do what's necessary to get him to listen and to let him know I mean business. Most of the time it works and most of the time, he isn't mean to me other than being defiant. He was defiant for months before I started going harder on him so I know he isn't defiant for me because of that. He's defiant for everyone in my family unit. I constantly hope that he'll become a better person so I can finally begin to like him again (I liked him until he turned bad) and my parents won't be so stressed out all the time.
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I had a friend who used to care about me and enjoyed being friends with me, or at least she acted like she was my best friend. Last year in February, I found out she actually hated me and never wanted to be my friend in the first place. However, I had been told she did "loved" me, or at least cared about me in the past, but eventually came to hate me. There is also my aunt who used to love me and treated me nicely. Then after my house burned down, she spent the next few years treating me coldly, trying to make me look bad in front of relatives, and talk trash about me or other family members behind our backs. She's back to caring for me and the family again, though sometimes I still wonder if she truly cares or is just faking it, knowing how she acted several years before.

At the moment, I am unsure of anyone else who loved me, then came to hate me, besides my aunt and (maybe) my ex friend.
I had a friend who used to care about me and enjoyed being friends with me, or at least she acted like she was my best friend. Last year in February, I found out she actually hated me and never wanted to be my friend in the first place. However, I had been told she did "loved" me, or at least cared about me in the past, but eventually came to hate me. There is also my aunt who used to love me and treated me nicely. Then after my house burned down, she spent the next few years treating me coldly, trying to make me look bad in front of relatives, and talk trash about me or other family members behind our backs. She's back to caring for me and the family again, though sometimes I still wonder if she truly cares or is just faking it, knowing how she acted several years before.

At the moment, I am unsure of anyone else who loved me, then came to hate me, besides my aunt and (maybe) my ex friend.
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Ya 2 months ago me and my girl friend broke up which was my best friend at one point, but now we don't always like being around each other as much but I hope we can make up soon because it's driving me crazy.
Ya 2 months ago me and my girl friend broke up which was my best friend at one point, but now we don't always like being around each other as much but I hope we can make up soon because it's driving me crazy.
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