Well, i'm surprised that there isn't a thread like this on here so i've decided to start one.

Since a lot of people always come to me for advice or just to hear my opnion about something at school, i figured it be nice if we had something like this on here. And i don't mind helping people out because it's something i love to do and i love the feeling of being able to help and make someone's life better wheter it is something small like "what clothes should i wear for tomorrow?" or something really deep like relationship problems. I do not judge people or reject people because of what they have done or what their opinion is. I just try to find the most optimistic possibility out of any situation.

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Hmm...

Well, awhile ago, my dad shouted at me that I was irritating. But I'm not doing anything wrong. I understand that he was tired that was why he was gruesome, but I cant avoid feeling lonely.

And now I'm having a trouble sleeping coz of this. *_*'

If your dad was tired when he said that then chances are that's all it was. If he has a lot of stress in his life right now then he may sometimes be prone to outbursts like that. It isn't something that he means deep down, but it should definitely not be made into a common occurrence. Were you simply trying to talk with him.

Yeah. I was just trying to say what my mom asked me to say to him thenI was only able to say "hey da-" , then there, he shouted.

Something must have really frustrated him earlier. I think attempting to talk with him later on might help to put everything at ease. Try saying "hi" to him when you approach. Maybe you called out to him in the wrong way the first time. I keep picture it like he was walking in from work when he shouted at you, but I get the feeling that's not the case.

Originally posted by Cyro Xero

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Maybe you called out to him in the wrong way the first time.

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Nope. I always call him the same way that I did a while ago.

Originally posted by Cyro Xero

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I keep picture it like he was walking in from work when he shouted at you, but I get the feeling that's not the case.

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Yeah. It isnt.

Hrmm.... as what I can remember, there were lots of papers on the table and his phone beside him, then he was using the laptop. The tv was open and he was even eating bread twist.
Then I came in.

Originally posted by Juliet

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Hrmm.... as what I can remember, there were lots of papers on the table and his phone beside him, then he was using the laptop. The tv was open and he was even eating bread twist.
Then I came in.

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Maybe he's worried that he might be behind on bills???

my parents yell at me like that sometimes when they're extrememly worried about something. It usually means that they are stressed. And when parents (in general) are stressed they are probably just saying things out of nowhere because they are too frustrated to even watch what they say.

if anything just find the right time to talk to him (when he's not on the laptop, watching tv, etc.) and ask him about it. I'm pretty sure he doesn't mean it or didn't mean to call you that.

Maybe he was busy and you got him at a bad time. I'm sure he loves you and doesn't mean it literally, when a person is angry, they'll choose words to hurt, not words that are true.

Its weird ive been really depressed lately and idk why ive been sobber for 2 days ive been clean for 1 my girl freind never wants to hang out with me and it really pisses me off i was wondering if you could help me with my problems because i dont want to ask my freinds because im the one whos always happy and i dont want my freinds to think theres somthing wrong

Originally posted by Juliet

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Hmm...

Well, awhile ago, my dad shouted at me that I was irritating. But I'm not doing anything wrong. I understand that he was tired that was why he was gruesome, but I cant avoid feeling lonely.

And now I'm having a trouble sleeping coz of this. *_*'

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He must have yelled pretty loud.. :

Are you that's the cause of your loss of sleep?