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12-26-13 12:39 AM
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It is an age old saying and we have all heard it at least once in our lives. Bad things happen to good people. And I have to question it due to recent events in my life. As most of my friends know I have had one hell of a year. This year for me has been catalogued with death. Even yesterday on Christmas morning I had to decide if I should put down my dog, to prevent him from spending the last weeks or if I was lucky months of his life suffering. I did have him put down, and it killed me to do it. 
   But through this year starting like sh*t and ending in sh*t. I have to prompt the question does this make me a good person? Does suffering make a person innately good? 
It is an age old saying and we have all heard it at least once in our lives. Bad things happen to good people. And I have to question it due to recent events in my life. As most of my friends know I have had one hell of a year. This year for me has been catalogued with death. Even yesterday on Christmas morning I had to decide if I should put down my dog, to prevent him from spending the last weeks or if I was lucky months of his life suffering. I did have him put down, and it killed me to do it. 
   But through this year starting like sh*t and ending in sh*t. I have to prompt the question does this make me a good person? Does suffering make a person innately good? 
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Suffering doesn't make anyone innately good.  There are a massive number of criminals who committed violent crimes because they themselves were abused or suffered.  Generally suffering makes people angry and anger is vented on others.  You aren't a saint because you had a bad year.  How you react certainly defines you as good or bad.

Things that happened are tough and emotionally you deal with them.  If you keep a positive attitude, keep moving forward and enjoying what you do have and rallying around the things that make you happy, in spite of all the pain and suffering, you're a good person.  Suffering itself doesn't define you.  Your reaction to failure and loss does.

Keep going, keep focusing on making others happy around you, and I'll call you good.

Saying that, yes bad things happen to good people.  Bad things happen to everyone.
Suffering doesn't make anyone innately good.  There are a massive number of criminals who committed violent crimes because they themselves were abused or suffered.  Generally suffering makes people angry and anger is vented on others.  You aren't a saint because you had a bad year.  How you react certainly defines you as good or bad.

Things that happened are tough and emotionally you deal with them.  If you keep a positive attitude, keep moving forward and enjoying what you do have and rallying around the things that make you happy, in spite of all the pain and suffering, you're a good person.  Suffering itself doesn't define you.  Your reaction to failure and loss does.

Keep going, keep focusing on making others happy around you, and I'll call you good.

Saying that, yes bad things happen to good people.  Bad things happen to everyone.
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Yes, bad things happen to the good people all the time. It's life. =
Yes, bad things happen to the good people all the time. It's life. =
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Yes, and bad things happen to bad people.

Bad things don't choose who they happen to, they just do.

Everyone has struggles, whether you are a good person, or a bad person.

Struggle doesn't make someone innately good. Struggle is an experience that can either improve you as a person or absolutely break you.
Yes, and bad things happen to bad people.

Bad things don't choose who they happen to, they just do.

Everyone has struggles, whether you are a good person, or a bad person.

Struggle doesn't make someone innately good. Struggle is an experience that can either improve you as a person or absolutely break you.
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I can relate to having a bad year and it's still currently still going on unfortunately and I'm still a good person at heart. I try to help out people the best I can. I'm generally a nice guy. I lost both of my aunts to cancer and recently lost my best friend. He lived a great life. Now my step dad is in prison due to not able to pay the fine. So now the bills and keeping food on the table for the family lies on me and I just lost my job. What luck right?

Anyways, bad things happens to both good and bad people. It' just nothing you can do, but just to bare with it and keep moving forward, learn from the experience and make yourself stronger for the future.  
I can relate to having a bad year and it's still currently still going on unfortunately and I'm still a good person at heart. I try to help out people the best I can. I'm generally a nice guy. I lost both of my aunts to cancer and recently lost my best friend. He lived a great life. Now my step dad is in prison due to not able to pay the fine. So now the bills and keeping food on the table for the family lies on me and I just lost my job. What luck right?

Anyways, bad things happens to both good and bad people. It' just nothing you can do, but just to bare with it and keep moving forward, learn from the experience and make yourself stronger for the future.  
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I will say that suffering through something certainly can help you endure related situations, and it can also help you realize how to deal with similar situations that may happen in the future.

It's the same thing with the mistakes that you will make in your life.
I will say that suffering through something certainly can help you endure related situations, and it can also help you realize how to deal with similar situations that may happen in the future.

It's the same thing with the mistakes that you will make in your life.
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Obviously. Bad things can happen to good people, good things can happen to bad people.
My best friend is very nice. She's never gotten in a fight, she's only gotten in trouble at school because of missing certain equipment, ect, but her mother died last year of cancer and her dad is very ill at the moment.
Obviously. Bad things can happen to good people, good things can happen to bad people.
My best friend is very nice. She's never gotten in a fight, she's only gotten in trouble at school because of missing certain equipment, ect, but her mother died last year of cancer and her dad is very ill at the moment.
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First of all, I'm very sorry about your past year. Stay strong.
To answer your question, yes, bad things do happen to good people. Bad things also happen to bad people. I think that most of the time it's what you do with your own collection of bad things and good things that defines if you're "bad" or "good" yourself, but then again, most of the time "bad" and "good" are pretty hard to determine since we may handle some events better than others, and I think there may be the potential for both bad and good in varying amounts inside of us all.
First of all, I'm very sorry about your past year. Stay strong.
To answer your question, yes, bad things do happen to good people. Bad things also happen to bad people. I think that most of the time it's what you do with your own collection of bad things and good things that defines if you're "bad" or "good" yourself, but then again, most of the time "bad" and "good" are pretty hard to determine since we may handle some events better than others, and I think there may be the potential for both bad and good in varying amounts inside of us all.
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Even the nice guys have nasty within them, you don't have to be backlit to be the villain. That proves that you cannot be perfectly positive in your life no matter what. So if you are believing Karma or obeying to that saying in the Bible about loving your neighbour, neither of them are going to work out. 

Suppose you are like me and you really don't want to be under the influence that those religious rules are true you still cannot escape the bad things in life. Life happens however it chooses to, there is no stopping certain bad outcomes or events. It is just part of living and we have to accept that.
Even the nice guys have nasty within them, you don't have to be backlit to be the villain. That proves that you cannot be perfectly positive in your life no matter what. So if you are believing Karma or obeying to that saying in the Bible about loving your neighbour, neither of them are going to work out. 

Suppose you are like me and you really don't want to be under the influence that those religious rules are true you still cannot escape the bad things in life. Life happens however it chooses to, there is no stopping certain bad outcomes or events. It is just part of living and we have to accept that.
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Sometimes yes but the real question is "Is the trouble minor or huge"?
Sometimes yes but the real question is "Is the trouble minor or huge"?
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Yes, bad things do happen to people. Sometimes we do not know why they happen they just do. But for me when bad things happen I try to remember I serve a God and have a savior in Jesus Christ. I have had to rely on my faith in Christ  a lot cause I have had some bad things happen to me but my God got me through it.  The most important thing to remember is it is not God's fault for the Bible tells us he will never forsake us. So bad things do happen to people sometimes they just happen. 
I hope this answers your question 
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Yes, bad things do happen to people. Sometimes we do not know why they happen they just do. But for me when bad things happen I try to remember I serve a God and have a savior in Jesus Christ. I have had to rely on my faith in Christ  a lot cause I have had some bad things happen to me but my God got me through it.  The most important thing to remember is it is not God's fault for the Bible tells us he will never forsake us. So bad things do happen to people sometimes they just happen. 
I hope this answers your question 
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Yes, bad things happen to good people, but bad things also happen to bad people. Simply put, bad things happen to everyone, and it doesn't matter if the person is good or bad. All you can do about it is just keep on fighting and overcome the suffering.
Yes, bad things happen to good people, but bad things also happen to bad people. Simply put, bad things happen to everyone, and it doesn't matter if the person is good or bad. All you can do about it is just keep on fighting and overcome the suffering.
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Fallman7 : well its true it does happen to those good people out some people might of had somthing bad happen to them because of me but some did not have something bad happen 
Fallman7 : well its true it does happen to those good people out some people might of had somthing bad happen to them because of me but some did not have something bad happen 
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Yes, this is true. I mean, people can be really great people, but if they just don't have the right luck at the right time, bad things will happen too them. I mean, look at Jesus. Probably the best man ever ( saying he is son of god and all that ) but he did really great things for people, and what happened? They killed him! AKA bad things happening to good people!
Yes, this is true. I mean, people can be really great people, but if they just don't have the right luck at the right time, bad things will happen too them. I mean, look at Jesus. Probably the best man ever ( saying he is son of god and all that ) but he did really great things for people, and what happened? They killed him! AKA bad things happening to good people!
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Yep. I used to not believe that bad things happened to good people but when I started to grow up I started seeing terrible things. The truth of the matter is some people are never going to change and you have to really try in life to win. You can't control what happens in your life concerning these bad things no. For instance my friend is an amazing person and she ended up losing both of her grand parents in the same exact year almost. I also had a friend who was treated horrible brought down and ended up in the hospital because some girl got a bunch of other girls to beat her up for no reason. Our car got burned because a woman got jealous of my moms relationship with a guy she hadn't been with in 4 months. We didn't deserve that.. I even had to quit my job because of it. We didn't have a car for a very long time. I think that truth of the matter is we will always have this feeling of sadness and regret.. of the bad things that have happened to us and no matter how hard we try we can't control what future back things are going to happen.. we can only live our life the best we can and hope for good things instead of bad. Sometimes I wish that bad things never happened to good people but that is just not our world.



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Yep. I used to not believe that bad things happened to good people but when I started to grow up I started seeing terrible things. The truth of the matter is some people are never going to change and you have to really try in life to win. You can't control what happens in your life concerning these bad things no. For instance my friend is an amazing person and she ended up losing both of her grand parents in the same exact year almost. I also had a friend who was treated horrible brought down and ended up in the hospital because some girl got a bunch of other girls to beat her up for no reason. Our car got burned because a woman got jealous of my moms relationship with a guy she hadn't been with in 4 months. We didn't deserve that.. I even had to quit my job because of it. We didn't have a car for a very long time. I think that truth of the matter is we will always have this feeling of sadness and regret.. of the bad things that have happened to us and no matter how hard we try we can't control what future back things are going to happen.. we can only live our life the best we can and hope for good things instead of bad. Sometimes I wish that bad things never happened to good people but that is just not our world.



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I see this all the time, people who do good things sometimes are the ones who suffer the most. However, having a good person go through a tough situation can also be a good way to help build them.

I see this all the time, people who do good things sometimes are the ones who suffer the most. However, having a good person go through a tough situation can also be a good way to help build them.

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Good people do have their share of problems as do bad people. The difference between a bad person and  a good person in how they respond and react to those problems.
Good people do have their share of problems as do bad people. The difference between a bad person and  a good person in how they respond and react to those problems.
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