Unfortunately, I'm new here and I have no idea what I'm doing and I'm going to just share my feelings if that's okay with others. So I'm going to start of by saying that  my name is Hope and I'm sixteen. And my boyfriend has been cheating on me even though we've been together for 3 years and a couple months. Today, he told me and he also is leaving me. I thought we were going to be together until the end and I even planned my life with him. All of a sudden he lost his feelings for me. I have no idea what to do or  who I am and in all honesty I want to die. Really, I have no one there for me anymore except my friend who is 4 hours away. I can't do this anymore and I just hate my life. No one else wants me and I'm so alone. Why did he do this to me? Why won't he take me back even after I begged? I don't know what I did wrong but I loved him with everything I had and I trusted him as a best friend. I need help. I need someone here for me. I can't be alone. Thank you and sorry to rant. 

Hope0903 : I'm so sorry to hear that. :/ sounds like your going thorough a lot right now. I hope you get thorough this. 

Just letting you know though, this is NOT the Forum for this kind of thing. I will alert the local mods now

P.S.: I know you cant move this to another forum, so don't try.

Local Mods : Please move. Thanks.

Emoteen134

A**holes exist. If he is enough of an idiot to cheat on you, then he isn't worth your time. I am really sorry that you had to find this out the hard way. I know it hurts, but trust me it will get better.

Hope....I met you on the chat.....I am sorry to hear that, he is not worth your time, if you keep doing it then.....you will be more depressed than you are now. I believe one day you will find someone who will love and cherish you, much better than your bf did. Find some friends to hang out with, who understand you in the most possible way, please don't let this get you down hes an idiot to cheat on you like that, and there is so much to live for.....its not the end of the world just fight, in order to become more stronger in a way. I believe that all things will come to a person at the right time. You just have to wait if you can......don't be depressed about it ok?


So take this from me, have hope, faith and believe. If you need more advice then, I will be willing to help you. ^-^

Hope0903,

Loosing a love is very very hard. You feel so alone, cheated, and desperate to get it back. This happens to a lot of people, and so you are not alone.

Your boyfriend was probably also in his teens? Regardless, at this point in your life, you are changing so much. You are learning about yourself, you are developing your personality. And so did your boy friend, and your relationship. You did NOTHING wrong. Your boyfriend just cared more about exploring his sexuality than he did about being honest... unfortunately, that happens. But it was never your fault, or that you were not good enough, you could of been the princess of the earth, he still would of cheated on you. It's not that he didn't care about you, is that he didn't care about fidelity and honesty. I know it seems impossible, but forget that jerk.

I know you can feel really alone after something like this, but trust me, Hope, it will pass. Try to make new friends, spend time with your family, and call up some of your other friends.

Avoid bouncing back into a new relationship too soon, just give yourself some time to find more friends and heal.

We are all here for you, so please feel free to talk to us as much as you want. No need to apologize for telling us how you feel.

PS I'm sorry, but I'll be moving this thread yet again. I think it belongs in Cafe Corner.

emoteen134 : Thank you and I'm very sorry. I'm new to this and haven't explored yet.

Hope0903 : Its fine. I just hope your okay now. All I really want from any new member is just to have fun.

Emoteen134

You have so much in life ahead of you, so don't let this stop you. Keep moving forward and live life to the fullest!

Hope0903 :    First, I agree with tgags. Jerks like that do exist among us, but you can't get too hung up about this or it will eat you up. If he was willing to cheat after being with you for 3 years then let him go. It will be hard, but you have to move on. DON'T do anything you might regret later like killing yourself or begging him to take you back. You're right, you probably didn't do anything wrong. But if he's gonna be like that then step away. You don't need to take that. It will take awhile to move on emotionally but you need to try because someone out there will love you forever. Remember, you are only 16. You have much more greatness to live for. Don't waste your talents.

-sigh- I've been in a situation similar to this one...only about a month ago too actually. My advice for you is to try to keep your mind off it, do other things that you enjoy doing until you're finally over this guy. Besides, if he cheats on you he is clearly a degenerate and therefore not worth being upset over. I don't know you very well but if you need anyone to talk to feel free to talk to me.

No need to be sorry! It sounds like you are going threw a lot. I know what it's like to have a cheating boyfriend.. I have been hurt so many times.. it just sucks you know. Don't think about harming your self because your going to find an amazing guy who will love you for you and be faithful to you. This guy just sounds cruel and somebody that you might just want to let go because if you take him back or he takes you back.. I'm sure it will happen again. I hope things work out for you!





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