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Which is worse, when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend near you

 

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In my personal opinion, losing touch with a friend who you come into contact everyday and still have the power to is worse, because as I just stated, you come into contact with that person everyday, and the reason for you both cutting ties in communication may make things awkward for you.
It's like when you have a crush, and you thought s/he was moving away, so you profess your love to him/her. Unfortunately for you, s/he did not move away, and now you are stuck with that awkward moment between you and him/her for the rest of the time you are still in contact with each other. 

When a friend moves away, at least you can still keep in touch and have some good times however you can on a phone, or communicating device. 

What do you think?
In my personal opinion, losing touch with a friend who you come into contact everyday and still have the power to is worse, because as I just stated, you come into contact with that person everyday, and the reason for you both cutting ties in communication may make things awkward for you.
It's like when you have a crush, and you thought s/he was moving away, so you profess your love to him/her. Unfortunately for you, s/he did not move away, and now you are stuck with that awkward moment between you and him/her for the rest of the time you are still in contact with each other. 

When a friend moves away, at least you can still keep in touch and have some good times however you can on a phone, or communicating device. 

What do you think?
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Well I think they both are equally suckish. Either way you are losing touch with them, so there isn't really a difference. Whether it is a physical distance between you or an emotional distance between you, you have still lost a friend.
Well I think they both are equally suckish. Either way you are losing touch with them, so there isn't really a difference. Whether it is a physical distance between you or an emotional distance between you, you have still lost a friend.
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tgags123 :

Well, for the first option, you can still contact them. Yes, it is not the day-to-day type of conversation(s) you would normally have, but it still is communication. 

I understand what you mean by "lose a friend" now. You lose him/her in your daily life, but not as a friend. 

But yes, both are suckish.
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Well, for the first option, you can still contact them. Yes, it is not the day-to-day type of conversation(s) you would normally have, but it still is communication. 

I understand what you mean by "lose a friend" now. You lose him/her in your daily life, but not as a friend. 

But yes, both are suckish.
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I think it is when a good frined moves away because one of my good friends moved away quite a long time ago and the latter happened to me too.

But i think the first one is worse just because you can't talk to them and don't get to see them anymore.
I think it is when a good frined moves away because one of my good friends moved away quite a long time ago and the latter happened to me too.

But i think the first one is worse just because you can't talk to them and don't get to see them anymore.
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Losing touch ofcource.
Losing touch ofcource.
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Probably losing touch with a good friend near you.  You still see him, but he doesn't talk to you anymore.  That must really suck.  It actually has happened to me before.
Probably losing touch with a good friend near you.  You still see him, but he doesn't talk to you anymore.  That must really suck.  It actually has happened to me before.
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Losing touch with the friend near you, because you can always still contact the friend that moves away, but if you lose the friend that is near you, you will always see them, but it won't be the same anymore.
Losing touch with the friend near you, because you can always still contact the friend that moves away, but if you lose the friend that is near you, you will always see them, but it won't be the same anymore.
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I think the first one, when Iose touch with a good friend! It happened to me and it is very bad...
I think the first one, when Iose touch with a good friend! It happened to me and it is very bad...
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I think that losing touch with a friend near you is worse. From personal experience it is the worse feeling in the world and there is not much you can do about it. You lose someone close to you and you will never be able to speak to them because its too uncomfortable or the relationship can no longer be revived.
I think that losing touch with a friend near you is worse. From personal experience it is the worse feeling in the world and there is not much you can do about it. You lose someone close to you and you will never be able to speak to them because its too uncomfortable or the relationship can no longer be revived.
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I would say that losing a close friend would be much harder for you emotionally. You are best friends and then suddenly your best friends moves away from you for ever, that is heart breaking. Where as when you lose touch with a close friend there is usually a reason, and a reason you both will contribute to. Both have happened to me and on more than one occasion, and they have slightly punctured my life since I was about 6 years old.
I would say that losing a close friend would be much harder for you emotionally. You are best friends and then suddenly your best friends moves away from you for ever, that is heart breaking. Where as when you lose touch with a close friend there is usually a reason, and a reason you both will contribute to. Both have happened to me and on more than one occasion, and they have slightly punctured my life since I was about 6 years old.
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I makes a difference the way you loose touch with someone. If it's because your friend is distancing him/herself from you, then that is the definitely the worst. I would rather my friend move away and keep a good friendship. Having friends in different parts of the word can come in be enjoyable later on in life. You have places to go and visit, and connections in different locations.

But if you loose touch with a nearby friend, but it's mutual, and both of you just don't really have much feeling for each other anymore, than it's not very troublesome. I would choose that over having a friend move away.
I makes a difference the way you loose touch with someone. If it's because your friend is distancing him/herself from you, then that is the definitely the worst. I would rather my friend move away and keep a good friendship. Having friends in different parts of the word can come in be enjoyable later on in life. You have places to go and visit, and connections in different locations.

But if you loose touch with a nearby friend, but it's mutual, and both of you just don't really have much feeling for each other anymore, than it's not very troublesome. I would choose that over having a friend move away.
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Well when a good friend moves away then you can still keep in touch with them . If they are your good friends then you must have their numbers or someway to contact them . But if you lose touch and you stop talking then that is bad . I guess that would be worse .
Well when a good friend moves away then you can still keep in touch with them . If they are your good friends then you must have their numbers or someway to contact them . But if you lose touch and you stop talking then that is bad . I guess that would be worse .
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I have been in both situations and I can say the latter is the worst, I am not entirely sure why because in theory it is the easiest to rectify but it causes more stress when you can't contact them.
I have been in both situations and I can say the latter is the worst, I am not entirely sure why because in theory it is the easiest to rectify but it causes more stress when you can't contact them.
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A good friend moving away is worse for me, though it may have something to do with the fact I live in a small town.
I've stopped talking to good friends before, but it's always been in a natural, 'our interests have changed, so hanging out is awkward now,' kind of deal.
The one friend I had move away was horrible. When she moved, we kept in contact for a week or so though Wii and stuff, then BAM just like that one of my best friends didn't respond to anything I sent. Broke my little heart, since I thought it was my fault and she hated me.
I admit, this experience was personal, but circumstances made the former harder for me to deal with than the latter.
A good friend moving away is worse for me, though it may have something to do with the fact I live in a small town.
I've stopped talking to good friends before, but it's always been in a natural, 'our interests have changed, so hanging out is awkward now,' kind of deal.
The one friend I had move away was horrible. When she moved, we kept in contact for a week or so though Wii and stuff, then BAM just like that one of my best friends didn't respond to anything I sent. Broke my little heart, since I thought it was my fault and she hated me.
I admit, this experience was personal, but circumstances made the former harder for me to deal with than the latter.
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Losing touch with a good friend near me is the worst for me, it's like we see each other but nothing it's like it used to be, just a feeling of awkwardness between us. In the other case you can try your best to stay in touch and sometimes it can be hard, if for example the time zones are too different but in the end if the relationship isn't working at least you don't need to see them all the time or around you.
Losing touch with a good friend near me is the worst for me, it's like we see each other but nothing it's like it used to be, just a feeling of awkwardness between us. In the other case you can try your best to stay in touch and sometimes it can be hard, if for example the time zones are too different but in the end if the relationship isn't working at least you don't need to see them all the time or around you.
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Both are equally bad to me, since I never got to really keep in touch with friends that move away and I have lost touch with those who are near me...

But losing touch with a good friend near you is probably worse. You can see the person a lot but can't talk to them anymore. I have been in that situation...and I'm still in it.

For when a good friend moves away, you can possibly still keep in touch with them by email or something similar, but you still won't get to see them.

That's just my thought though.
Both are equally bad to me, since I never got to really keep in touch with friends that move away and I have lost touch with those who are near me...

But losing touch with a good friend near you is probably worse. You can see the person a lot but can't talk to them anymore. I have been in that situation...and I'm still in it.

For when a good friend moves away, you can possibly still keep in touch with them by email or something similar, but you still won't get to see them.

That's just my thought though.
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Loosing Friends always hurts.
Imagine loosing Family.
Same difference. (Normally.)
In some cases it gets too extreme and an individual grows up pushing everyone away to avoid the pain of loss.
"Cheer Up. It can not last forever."
Is what a close relative told me.
Reality?
It can last forever.
The modern world is designed for it to last forever.
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Loosing Friends always hurts.
Imagine loosing Family.
Same difference. (Normally.)
In some cases it gets too extreme and an individual grows up pushing everyone away to avoid the pain of loss.
"Cheer Up. It can not last forever."
Is what a close relative told me.
Reality?
It can last forever.
The modern world is designed for it to last forever.
Wish I had more to say on the topic.
Good Luck To All.
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I think it's when a good friend moves away. I've had to deal with both, when I went through things as a teenager I lost all of my "friends" back then, and now my "best friend" went into the military, he's elsewhere in the country now and doesn't even keep in touch with me. I miss them both but I miss my "best friend" more.
I think it's when a good friend moves away. I've had to deal with both, when I went through things as a teenager I lost all of my "friends" back then, and now my "best friend" went into the military, he's elsewhere in the country now and doesn't even keep in touch with me. I miss them both but I miss my "best friend" more.
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In my opinion, I believe losing someone who is near you, and has contact with you pretty much every day, or sometime during the year. Knowing that they are close to you, up the street, or around the block. That's the worse. Because it's like that feeling you get, when you are walking to the store. "Are they going to see me?", "I hope they arent here". "I'm nervous". You know? Sometimes when i go places, where I know that someone is at, I'll take a quick spot around the parking lot or something to see if their car is there. lol.
In my opinion, I believe losing someone who is near you, and has contact with you pretty much every day, or sometime during the year. Knowing that they are close to you, up the street, or around the block. That's the worse. Because it's like that feeling you get, when you are walking to the store. "Are they going to see me?", "I hope they arent here". "I'm nervous". You know? Sometimes when i go places, where I know that someone is at, I'll take a quick spot around the parking lot or something to see if their car is there. lol.
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One is Worse than the Other, But both sides feel the same to me.

If the two friends managed to make the friendship count and became true friends, they would never feel like they lost a friend if one ever moved away from another. Friendship is powerful enough to allow you to feel the bond, knowing that some other part in the world, someone cares for you, no matter how long they have to be away from you. With technology these days, they could always communicate with one another right away, rather than waiting for a letter to return to them in the mailbox for a couple weeks.  

To me, losing touch with a friend is the worse of the two, as understandably, losing a friend can feel awful, but its not the worst thing to happen to someone. We can always take the time to make a friend with them again if it has been too long, unless there was a particular reason why you lost touch with one another, then it would be extremely difficult to do something about it. Those with a grudge can make your persuading harder since they dont want to be around you anymore. These people are blind to who you really are if they choose to be stuck with something from the past. That said, those who lose touch for no reason would always be friends, because the two of you understand one another already, they know the other is a fine person to spend time with.

My opinion is simply this; You never really "lose" a friend, so long as the one you lost understands you are cool to deal with. I have far more acquaintances than friends myself, but I know that they appreciate me enough to spend time with me, if they remember me.
One is Worse than the Other, But both sides feel the same to me.

If the two friends managed to make the friendship count and became true friends, they would never feel like they lost a friend if one ever moved away from another. Friendship is powerful enough to allow you to feel the bond, knowing that some other part in the world, someone cares for you, no matter how long they have to be away from you. With technology these days, they could always communicate with one another right away, rather than waiting for a letter to return to them in the mailbox for a couple weeks.  

To me, losing touch with a friend is the worse of the two, as understandably, losing a friend can feel awful, but its not the worst thing to happen to someone. We can always take the time to make a friend with them again if it has been too long, unless there was a particular reason why you lost touch with one another, then it would be extremely difficult to do something about it. Those with a grudge can make your persuading harder since they dont want to be around you anymore. These people are blind to who you really are if they choose to be stuck with something from the past. That said, those who lose touch for no reason would always be friends, because the two of you understand one another already, they know the other is a fine person to spend time with.

My opinion is simply this; You never really "lose" a friend, so long as the one you lost understands you are cool to deal with. I have far more acquaintances than friends myself, but I know that they appreciate me enough to spend time with me, if they remember me.
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