DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE! I FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW I FEEL

so yeah i used to like this girl called rebecca. so so so beautiful i regret never asking her out she was just incredible! still yeah man at then end she said that she liked me and i just went blank because i was dating someone else. then i said no to her cos i love this other girl and it turns out 3 years later she looks like OMG plus she has a great personality and that doesnt mean shes ugly XD thanks for listening dude oh and btw i still like her and i think she still likes me. only problem is i can't do nothing about it. i rejected her and now i think she hates me / likes me so... any advice?

TheGameLegend : ty man ty a lot. i ll try what you told me to do. if it works i'll give you all my Viz which is 975 now. if it doesn't then you owe me 5,000 Viz ;3. oh and thanks for showing me this site man. 

Yeah, it happens, this has happened to me once or twice before where I might like someone but I don't think they would care about me so I don't talk to them and I am very shy about it. It happens. I don't really make a habit of going out with people 24/7, but when there is someone I might like (very rare because almost everyone at my school is ugly) I don't really say anything or make it visible that I like them. I just am not at that point in my life yet, I will start getting into that later on in life, just not right now though, because I am very busy with school and I think that relationships would get in the way. So yes this happened to me before.

That's mean to say many of the girls are ugly.  I wonder what they think about you.

It's not pointless.  When you date someone, you learn about yourself and how you work with others.  You can learn who you like and what aspects of other people you enjoy.  You learn to talk, converse, interact, what's appropriate and not, and it's a big discovery of life.

If you don't start dating now, when do you start?  Wait until you're an adult?  Everyone else has practice and you're awkward and unused to what to do.  You have no confidence because everyone else has done all that stuff and you're outside looking in.  

Go date, have fun, and enjoy yourself.  Don't judge yourself on your relationships but don't say no either.

Well I have never done it mostly because I am anti - social but if I had to I would not really be shy. I have told girls on vizzed I like them before. Face to face experiences would not be as hard for me.

warmaker : I'll admit i'm also not the beautiful one, but when people are at a young age (12-15 at least) it's kind of pointless then. You still have to study and you still have to be a kid. What's the point of dating when your young? When your young is it not true that you have to enjoy yourself while it lasts? The best time to date is at your middle/late teens. But, hey! That's what I think, it's my advice. I'm 13 and I used to date then I noticed that it's just about 3 weeks of kissing followed by dumping the person/ person dumping me.

My style of getting a girl is
complimenting them and
walk away. It works I already
got like five girlfriends in one whole
school year. Don't believe me try
it for yourselves, you'll see.

Banenzo : It's scary to see someone so young already understand the pull and push principle. Don't rely on it too much though, as woman get older they start knowing the tricks; make sure you have a kind, responsible person for them to get to know.

Light Knight : Are you calling me 
young because I'm about 18
dude and that actually works on
other 18 year old. This teaches
you confidence in self. Those kind of
Warnings keeps on coming
but sometimes you just got to let it out
and get what you want or you die trying

TheGameLegend : The three weeks of kissing followed by dumping/being dumped is the point.  You learn to handle social situations, you learn to deal with heartbreak, you get to experience a lot of different girls kissing you and vice versa.  It doesn't have to be bad and you can still play sports, work on school, work for a job, and all that while having a relationship.  Relationships teach you about you.  That's why you should have them.

hey game legend your right it is too early to date someone and because at school they would start rumors and then lots of people involved i remember when i liked a girl and she got asked out by my rival i was mad him showing off just because he can shuffle i dont care if he can i can box and bust his face im still mad for what he did he is such a wanna be pretty and trying to start a shuffling crew but anyway game legend thanks for making this post i really like to be honest to girls of what i feel about them 

warmaker : I Agree with you completely but when your young it's actually harder to take in the feeling of being dumped or never having a person to like you. I admit it's a good experience but you should enjoy your life, your only young once! 

Well, I've been single for life. I've only ever had three crushes of any sort. Never had anywhere near the guts required to act on it at all. I don't regret not having the guts for the first two, but I really feel differently about the current one. She's smart, funny, beautiful, interested in a lot of the same things as me, we're good friends, and somehow I still don't have the guts. A little depressing.

jose2307 : Thanks Jose for liking my thread and I agree with you. Rumors spread really, really quick. For example I used to date this girl who was quite unpopular and I was quite popular (Out of 100 i'd be 79. Out of 100 she'd be 21). So basically they started spreading rumors in my school about how unpopular she was and how unpopular i'd be the future. It got worse and worse until my mate finally peer pressured me to dump her which I did. Very, Very sad day. Oh and my best friend used to date a girl that I really liked so, yeah, I understand your rivalry with that guy. Again thanks for liking my thread

I certainly am. I'm 29 years of age and I've never went on a date with a girl before in my life!

You are certainly not alone, this happend to me last year (this year respectively). It was coming to the end of year 8 and there was a girl I had liked for ages. We were good friends and she had shown her respect for me. I liked her a lot so I went on wikihow and read stuff about asking her out. From what I read there was a high chance of her liking me more than just a friend. I was ready for this, or so I thought. I would get to the point where I would say "Can I ask you a question" part, to my disappointment I would get too nervous and pretend I forgot what to say and change the subject.

In the end I never asked her out. But I still feel the same way for her.

MechaMento : Aye, I know what your saying mate, as I too have finished year 8 a while ago and now going to year 9. The question is the hardest thing to do, you REALLY need the guts to ask a girl out. Many men do the same thing that you do. It's not the question that scares them though... It's the answer! Guys usually have that nervous feeling because of the girls response. If you want advice, since me and you are alike, my advice is to ignore what websites say. Be gutsy and ask her out!... When I was in primary I used to like this girl a lot and i'd say that she liked me. The final day of year 6 came and I was just about to ask her out until I had the worst feeling ever... Like I just got shot. At that moment I said i was going to play some Football with my mates, to my dismay she looked really upset... I just found out that she liked me...

Dude, never (Many Ever inserted here), be shy to ask a girl out that you liked for ages. When the time comes and you both go your separate ways you will regret that day for most (Or the rest) of your life.