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					| This is a obvious question, because almost everyone on Vizzed has! But I wanted to post this thread to see what others have went though and see if any of theirs were similar or worse than mine! Bintsy : p This is a obvious question, because almost everyone on Vizzed has! But I wanted to post this thread to see what others have went though and see if any of theirs were similar or worse than mine! Bintsy : p | 
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					| Yeah, I have.  If you haven't then something's wrong with you, imo.  Either that, or you're a kid.  :p
 Just girls I liked not liking me back. The usual. Just girls I liked not liking me back. The usual. | 
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					| Oh yeah. I've had my heart shattered before by the only one who had the power to do so. I'm not too inclined to share the story openly in a forum though. It was pretty bad. Just say I've been to the point of hating to wake up in the mornings before.
 I'm a pretty happy person generally though. I'm a pretty happy person generally though. | 
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					| Yes, yes I have. We dated when we were 14 and it was basically "love at first sight". Back then I knew I was in love with as she was with me even though it was a long-distance relationship. Anyways we dated for a 3+ years and near the summer of that same year she got real angry at me as she was so hurt that I couldn't visit her for the summer (like I was suppose to for each summer we was together) because her dad got called into work on the same day they were suppose to pick me up. I guess he didn't want me around his daughter to have sex with her (I was and still 100% virgin). Anyways, after that summer I said "No" to go back out with her (deep down I didn't deserve her and that she deserved someone better than I). Like a week or two later she got so drunk (which she did not ever do in the past) that I believe another guy took advantage of her in her drunken state and got her pregnant. Around Christmas time she tried to get me back and I upset her so much that we did not talk for several months, after we talked again I broke down and said it was a big mistake into ever letting her go. She said she was still in love with me and so was I. We dated again for the final time for about a year again until shortly my 19th birthday that she said she stopped loving me and we haven't spoken since to each other. Sorry for the wall of text, I've never actually shared the whole story with anyone before, I am the type that bottles everything up inside. | 
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					| I to have has my heart broken a few times. Going in to a relationship, and falling for someone so deeply you think the happy times will never end. But then something comes in between the happy and leaves nothing but pain. It sucks when you get thrown in to a situation like that, it makes it all the worse when you don't know what you did wrong in the first place. I could go in to more details on the subject, but this is the king of information I don't really want to divulge on a public forum. Going in to a relationship, and falling for someone so deeply you think the happy times will never end. But then something comes in between the happy and leaves nothing but pain. It sucks when you get thrown in to a situation like that, it makes it all the worse when you don't know what you did wrong in the first place. I could go in to more details on the subject, but this is the king of information I don't really want to divulge on a public forum. | 
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					| Yes, many, many, MANY TIMES. usually involved being cheated on, lied to, used. all by different girls. and then 1 particular girl; long story short, it was an on again/off again relationship where i was the one breaking my own heart usually involved being cheated on, lied to, used. all by different girls. and then 1 particular girl; long story short, it was an on again/off again relationship where i was the one breaking my own heart | 
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					| Oh multiple multiple times. I doubt there is any kind of insight or knowledge I could share on the issue, though I have some years behind me, that would not be something you would have heard or read all before. Well, it sort of get easier the older you get and after having multiple bad relationships that end badly, but you never know. I bet even when you are 70 years old you might weep after a crush like a teenager. I doubt there is any kind of insight or knowledge I could share on the issue, though I have some years behind me, that would not be something you would have heard or read all before. Well, it sort of get easier the older you get and after having multiple bad relationships that end badly, but you never know. I bet even when you are 70 years old you might weep after a crush like a teenager. | 
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					| Yeah.  I've had it done really bad unfortunately.  I almost went into depression (I'm kinda sensitive) but luckily I pulled out of it.  I'm all better now though, and I'm happier than I have ever been haha.  | 
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					| My heart's been broken a couple of times, but the way I look at it is that the heartbreak was on a weak fault line, and the glue God used to patch it up was much stronger than the state it was originally in. Even so, I don't rush head-long into something because I'm not interested in getting hurt by just anyone. I more or less believe that the "right one" will come at the right time, and I'm not really in a position to be too worried about when she'll come. Rather, I'm just cool with finishing school, deciding on a career, and paying off my car/student loans while enjoying time with my Bible Study friends.  Still, though, heartbreak does present a good opportunity for growth, and in the even that it does happen, it's best to pay extra attention to your feelings and thoughts, because you can learn a lot about what you are made of. I would literally sit and contemplate the pain I was feeling, where in the body I felt it, and what kind of thoughts stimulated that pain. It's a very interesting perspective, and it makes for cool conversations with people who are intelligent. Still, though, heartbreak does present a good opportunity for growth, and in the even that it does happen, it's best to pay extra attention to your feelings and thoughts, because you can learn a lot about what you are made of. I would literally sit and contemplate the pain I was feeling, where in the body I felt it, and what kind of thoughts stimulated that pain. It's a very interesting perspective, and it makes for cool conversations with people who are intelligent. | 
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					| ya i been fu**ed over to many times so i gave up on girls but maybe ill give another try in my 20's but after giving up i can tell my mood been improved and not depressed but i dont have any feelings anymore an i like it | 
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					| Bintsy :  Of course I have.. But you just have to get that heart and wait for someone to superglue it back together.. The memories may still linger but the new ones created should erase the misery that lurks in your heart.  Mine was pretty simple was in a 2 year relationship.. Girlfriend told me out of nowhere that she wants to break up.. We haven't talked since.. It sucked but meh we have to get over these things and live in the present and not the past... though with that it's easier being said than done. Mine was pretty simple was in a 2 year relationship.. Girlfriend told me out of nowhere that she wants to break up.. We haven't talked since.. It sucked but meh we have to get over these things and live in the present and not the past... though with that it's easier being said than done. | 
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					| Bintsy : I have been heart broken once, when the girl I loved for 4 years went back to the U.K. where she was born. That was one of the saddest moments in my life   Bintsy : I have been heart broken once, when the girl I loved for 4 years went back to the U.K. where she was born. That was one of the saddest moments in my life   | 
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					| I still feel heart broken after loosing the one I knew was my soul mate. I know most tell me I am too young to know who is and who isn't, but I feel empty without him. It's probably the worst feeling I have ever had. | 
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					| xXBad-InfluenceXx :  I don't think many of us (myself included) understand what true love is because many of us think that "romantic" love is the truest form of love, so your age really doesn't qualify or disqualify you from that. Furthermore, the pain is very real regardless of whether or not you felt the truest form of love, because you did invest yourself in that person. It's a painful prospect, but it's one that can really teach you to be selective as to who you choose as a mate and how you engage in conversation and interaction with that person. You learn that you really have to take care when talking to someone you could be spending a considerable amount of time with. You most certainly do NOT want to upset him (or her, in my case), because doing so will put you yourself in a situation to where you will be miserable. And if a break-up happens, you'll convince yourself that you need that person when you really didn't. It's a vicious cycle that I've been a part of a couple of times, but it's one that I would not take back because I have learned so much about myself, what I am capable of, and how thick my skin really is. The problem that I found was that I DID invest too much into my ex-girlfriend. She literally WAS my soul-mate (at the time; I think we have the concept of soul-mates wrong), and as a result, I spent far too much time consumed in dealing with her, thinking that her emotional problems were mine to fix, wasting money I didn't have to take her on dates to try to make her happy when she really wouldn't be. It's not a pretty process and it's not a healthy thing to be doing that, and it affected me for YEARS (and in some ways, affects me to this day in a negative sense) before I realized that I was my own person and didn't have to define my life as "Rachel and Patrick." Once I became free of that (which was very recent), I became more comfortable being single, and most definitely more selective in the women that I view as potential candidates for girlfriends. Not only that, when I finally do find a new girlfriend, I know that I am going to allow her to be herself without me - that I'm not going to make my life just about us. I'm going to have my time, she's going to have her time, and we're going to have our time together. Timing and space is appropriate. You cannot spend your entire being into another person, because ultimately, you can't control that other person. And if that other person decides to do something you do not like or something that is pretty painful, you're going to really be feeling it for some time afterwards. Fortunately, though, you still have the opportunity to learn, as you're young. Growing up independent from another person, at least in respect to relationships and romantic love, will really help to strengthen you as a person so that when you do come in contact with a person you are truly compatible with (you will not be the same person in the future as you are now; don't forget that!), both of you will be able to function and compromise in a working, loving relationship. Remember this: Relationships require work. It does not just "happen," like we are so often shown in movies. Prince Charming might sweep you off your feet, but he's also going to irritate the mess out of you when he wants to watch sports and you want to watch Dancing with the Stars. Over time, you'll learn to compromise, and that is the beauty of relationship-type love. Your pain is very real, and I'm sorry that you're hurting. Understand that it will subside over time, as you create new memories and you do more things to separate yourself from the situation. If you look at it as a learning process, as a necessary event to help strengthen you and mold you into the beautiful, awesome, and strong woman you're going to be, the process becomes quicker, because you've accepted it and so you've accepted the consequences that come with it. This is most definitely a good thing. Also, realize that you need to guard your heart in a lot of ways, because some people will attempt to manipulate you into making poor decisions, and these can also really tear you up. That might be for another discussion, though. At any rate, I hope you take what I've written into consideration, and I most definitely hope it helps out! The problem that I found was that I DID invest too much into my ex-girlfriend. She literally WAS my soul-mate (at the time; I think we have the concept of soul-mates wrong), and as a result, I spent far too much time consumed in dealing with her, thinking that her emotional problems were mine to fix, wasting money I didn't have to take her on dates to try to make her happy when she really wouldn't be. It's not a pretty process and it's not a healthy thing to be doing that, and it affected me for YEARS (and in some ways, affects me to this day in a negative sense) before I realized that I was my own person and didn't have to define my life as "Rachel and Patrick." Once I became free of that (which was very recent), I became more comfortable being single, and most definitely more selective in the women that I view as potential candidates for girlfriends. Not only that, when I finally do find a new girlfriend, I know that I am going to allow her to be herself without me - that I'm not going to make my life just about us. I'm going to have my time, she's going to have her time, and we're going to have our time together. Timing and space is appropriate. You cannot spend your entire being into another person, because ultimately, you can't control that other person. And if that other person decides to do something you do not like or something that is pretty painful, you're going to really be feeling it for some time afterwards. Fortunately, though, you still have the opportunity to learn, as you're young. Growing up independent from another person, at least in respect to relationships and romantic love, will really help to strengthen you as a person so that when you do come in contact with a person you are truly compatible with (you will not be the same person in the future as you are now; don't forget that!), both of you will be able to function and compromise in a working, loving relationship. Remember this: Relationships require work. It does not just "happen," like we are so often shown in movies. Prince Charming might sweep you off your feet, but he's also going to irritate the mess out of you when he wants to watch sports and you want to watch Dancing with the Stars. Over time, you'll learn to compromise, and that is the beauty of relationship-type love. Your pain is very real, and I'm sorry that you're hurting. Understand that it will subside over time, as you create new memories and you do more things to separate yourself from the situation. If you look at it as a learning process, as a necessary event to help strengthen you and mold you into the beautiful, awesome, and strong woman you're going to be, the process becomes quicker, because you've accepted it and so you've accepted the consequences that come with it. This is most definitely a good thing. Also, realize that you need to guard your heart in a lot of ways, because some people will attempt to manipulate you into making poor decisions, and these can also really tear you up. 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					| Of course and quite recently first girlfriend and it was long distance she started to developed feelings for someone else so I told her then she better go get them first girlfriend and it was long distance she started to developed feelings for someone else so I told her then she better go get them | 
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					| I've been heart broken only once. It was the absolute worst day of my life.
 I'm not going to go into details. That's a story for me and those close to me. Basically though, I wanted so badly to die, and I was pretty damn close to the edge, or I was hanging off of it. I'm not going to go into details. That's a story for me and those close to me. Basically though, I wanted so badly to die, and I was pretty damn close to the edge, or I was hanging off of it. | 
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					| i never  got heart broken , but might happen when i get older , it happens to everyone . | 
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					| I've been hurt and I've cried, but I don't think I've ever been heartbroken despite the fact that I've cared for a few of the guys I've dated. I have many protective layers that help with that. I'm in my mid twenties, so fingers crossed that I never have to feel that crushing weight of a breaking heart! | 
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			| The "Why did I enter this room again?" girl | 
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					| No, not yet into deep relationships, and I certainly hope I don't ever have to suffer from heart break. As I will get older, my knowledge and understanding of relationships will improve and be increased. I feel sorry for all of those out there with a broken heart though. | 
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