I like guys and girls that are chill and relaxed. I like talking about deep subjects, and having a fun time and goofing off.

That's not really a type though.  To understand 'your type' you should try and understand what personality you are.  Go do the Myers Briggs test - it's quite good.  You'll define your traits, strengths and weaknesses and then you'll be able understand why there are some people who you will get on better with than others.

I like the smart nerdy girls but that is kind of hard to describe. I would have to get past my anxiety and shyness to even approach one, let alone leave the house.

I like boys~~!!


My type:


They have to be funny! I love guys that can make me laugh. lol, I have the weirdest sense of humor so its really hard to humor me.


They have to be sophisticated! I can't stand people who are not sophisticated, I mean, sure, I'll be their friends but nothing more.
They must  have proper grammar. I'm not asking for college writing abilities but if they write like this 'hay, hao r u, c u l8r, luv u"... I will never speak to them again!


They must be into computers and online gaming. I want my career to focus on computers, so if they want to go and be a lawyer, then our relationship will not work. I can be extremely clingy so I want them to be able to work with me and play online games with me, so they must like computers.


Also, they should fancy exercising. I like to exercise. Not for appearances, since appearances dont matter to me, but I want them to do outside activities with me, like rock climbing, cycling, swimming...etc.


They must also be really caring. They have to be sweet  and love to cuddle!! I love to cuddle!! x3


They must not be  extreme religious. I dont like being told what to do and I respect everyone and their religion but when they try to convert me into believing what they believe, we will have problems!!


I also believe in Astrology and many other things that most normal people dont really consider. So, we must be compatible according to our Astrology signs. They also dont have to be into every single hobby I have, but they should respect them.


They should also like music! Not just listening to it but making it~~!


I also like to be the one in control on things but I like someone who demands being in control, if that makes sense. Like if we are debating on ordering Pizza or Chinese. I'll say pizzza, I dont want them to be like "ohh, okay..." NO, I want them to be like "Nuuuu, We  get Chinese!!! Because china is awesome!" And then we will debate about it... But after all we will do as I say and order pizza~.



This is a long list... D:
Heck! they dont have to be male, after what happened to  me last time, I realized that gender does not matter at all! I just want to be happy.
( I also like seals)

What type of girl do I go for.....  I think the easiest way to describe this and to keep this short is to do this.. 


7NosOPoen : I go for girls like this ...

Resuri : Let me get a checklist then

Weird sense of humor- check
Sophisticated- I'm British derp
Computer guy- Me and gal made you join this site
Exercise- I enjoy playing dodge ball and basically exercising with other people
Caring- I live to care for others..
Religion- I'm open minded and I don't really care about it 
Astrology-  Yup.. And other awesome stuff like that
Making  music- Nope I don't have the skill to do it.. Maybe if I practiced for about 20 years
Debates- I always debate with people about stuff... It makes stuff more fun and interesting personally

BUT AS I'M A PONY I GUESS I CANNOT FOLLOW THIS LIST  though I am about 88% of this list.. Sucks to be you...

More importantly I am already in a relationship with good old crazy welsh lady x x 

Tall, dark-haired hippie guys who are laid-back, mature, kind, honest, devoted, intelligent... and enjoy "sex, drugs and rock and roll".

I don't reeally have a type as such but I do have preferances these are: light brown hair, mature but sosmetimes childish, funny, respects my faith (this is the only ine set in stone), nice smile, and preferably smaller than I am and if not the same height

The smart and more sophisticated type of bad girls. Well, you dont have to be "bad" but I like girls with smarts and spirit and who are not affraid to walk out at night in bad neighbourhoods.

FredElliot : Yeah, I took a Briggs test in Philosophy class. Really neat

I'm pretty sure this question has already been asked? idk I like intellectuals that are usually quiet, but can get really loud about something they care about. She should be a bit shorter than me, have dark brown/black hair, and play an instrument; idk which  

I like a girl to be kind of like this

-Spontaneous, and out going.
I'm introverted in real life and a girl who wants to get me to try new things is a big plus since I have a lot of reservations about putting myself out there

-Caring and understanding
Again, I'm kind of in need of someone who compliments my own flaws. I have a lot of issues when it comes to trust and so forth for various reasons. I need them to realize and care about my issues and help me work through them

-they need to be able to take a lot of jokes.
Being my girlfriend means you will be teased a lot and it means you will be the butt of more than a few jokes. But the plus is it also gives you the ability to do the same and not hurt me I'm very self deprecating at times and let jokes like that in frequently.

-they need to be somewhat appealing
I don't need a model. I do need to be able to look at you and smile. I'm not the most attractive myself but I do have some standards.

-non smoker
I'm talking about cigarettes. Don't care if you do marijuana or whatever. I hate cigarette smoke. It upsets my stomach and pisses me off.

-good communication skills
If I ask you a question like where you are, I need an answer. I've been cheated on several times when the girl doesn't tell me. I don't need more paranoia. See trust issues

-need to find me attractive
Because if you aren't... what's the point. date someone you like looking at.

-and the final important one... respect my nonbeliefs
I don't believe in god. Deal with it. I'm not changing and you shouldn't try. Attempting to convert me will result in me ending our relationship. I've dated enough people to know there are others out there who won't try that.

Other stuff is unimportant comparatively.

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Only the usual.
Smaller than me. Gets my jokes (not laughing at everything to impress). Makes the Room 10 times brighter when entering. Destroys my ability to think with a slight flipping of the hair.
Cooking would be nice too.
Toss in a V.8. engine, some bucket seats and you got a prize worth killing for.
I think everyone should give up having a type that is defined to the point of readers being able to construct an artificial version. Might make life more interesting. Its not like shopping for a car. People are distinctly different.
I still like threads like this though.
I find them funny.
Good Luck To All.
That's it. I'm done. Stick a fork in me.
Peace.

I consider many things my type I guess you could say.. if your asking about looks.. looks don't matter to me because I find a person beautiful no matter what.. they don't have to be in shape or anything those kinds of things don't matter. I look more at inside and personality. As long as he can make me laugh and isn't all quiet and to him self I'm cool. The reason I don't like really quiet guys is because I was in a relationship with one and I didn't like it at all.. I was always doing the talking.  If I  talk and he listens that's a different thing but he wouldn't even listen and was in his own world and it made me sad. I have found somebody who is wonderful though now.. Talkative even listens to me <3

 

I don't like it when somebody tries to change me especially sense there is nothing that needs to be changed and if he didn't like me the way I was.. then hit the door..  I will respect and do all I can to make who I love comtorble and happy because in the end it makes me happy.

I am so very happy right now and I wouldn't ask for any other happiness because this is something I haven't felt in so long maybe never.. I sing at work , I smile more.. its just amazing. I hope this can happen to all of you to one day. <3

Bintsy

I'm mainly looking (and I found!) for a mentally mature man. I don't want to live with a boy
Although I don't consider myself "ageist", I think a 20 years difference is a bit too much
Bald/very short hair is very sexy (and soft to touch when it's freshly done!)
It will sound cliché, but brains is a big plus. I love to have "profound" discussions
Having similar political views can help. I don't think I could date a communist
He needs to take care of himself. I'm not looking for a model, but please don't be overweight
I want him to be himself. I can adjust to his faults, but it has to be mutual

The girl i want is already with me lol.
she is really nice. Long brown hair.. Brown/greenish eyes. She is not that tall. She is pretty small. lol. She is 19 years old.
she had nice hips. Not the skinny wooden plank stuff.. But those hips that you can actually hold without being scared to break her in 2 pieces lol.
the other body details are a bit to personal so lets go to the personality:

She is really nice. She is pretty smart. And she is also pretty wise.
we both believe in god.. But we both believe in different religions.. (f*** religion difference there is only one god people get over it..)
i'm sometimes a bit childish.. So she sometimes act like a mother.. I must say i don't like that but its her personality so it doesn't matter that much. She has a low self reflection. So i need to give her some positive feed back once in a while. Like: that she isn't fat or that she has a pretty face. And that i love her a lot.

i don't think doing this is annoying.. Since i'm pretty much one of these people who likes to slime to his girlfriend. Ha ha
there are some down points but that's not something that i don't like her more or less because of it.
but she had epilepsy.this was hard to live in at the beginning.. And we also broke up in that time period.. Because she was always away from the world.. She was there.. But at the same time.. She was not.. Floating between 2 different dimensions of being awake and being asleep.. And this was something really rare to see and to understand..

i had a relationship after that with another girl that was also my type. She had dark red/brown hair and she was a bit darker skinned.. Not that she was black . Just slightly brown  she had cat green eyes. And she seemed really nice at the beginning.. But after awhile.. See seems to be the one to claim a lot.. I had no spare time left or time for myself.. She forbid me to talk to my ex girlfriend (my current girlfriend)
so after a year or so i broke up with her.. I never ever forgot about my girlfriend back then. I always though about her.. About how much i hurtled her.. And how she would feel.. I was always in love with her even while being in another relationship.. This was really hard to live with.
since then i got back my contact with her. And now we already have one year and 4 months! So i'm REALLY happy to be back with her. And everything is going well now! She doesn't have epilepsy anymore she isn't AFTW (away from the world) and her personality is changed dramatically! She is a whole different person. She is more spontaneous, and had more energy!. But her energy ratio is still really low.. She get  tired really fast.. Its not that i'm rough with her or something ha ha xD.. But her body energy is really low.. Its a side effect of her medication against her epilepsy.. And i feel really sorry for her..

phew i think i think that is a lot of information isn't it?. But well i told you a story about my girlfriend. And what my type girl is!
greetings to all!, Yngwie

Okay, I understand that I am probably too young to go into extreme decision-making of this sort of thing yet, but I do like to have sort of an idea of who I am looking for in the future. okay, I want someone who first of all: doesn't smoke, or do alcohol, preferably one who doesn't have tattoos or anything like that. Personality wise though, I want her to be bright, maybe thoughtful and caring, but I also want her to be a person who makes good decisions and doesn't throw their life away. I think that is someone to consider. For now these are my prior expectation limitations, but as I get older, and understand the concept more, these may change as my life goes further down the road, but nevertheless I want someone who doesn't make bad decisions and throw their entire life away. Too bad my school doesn't offer these kinds of people, but maybe I will understand this more in the future to come.......

Just checking over my old posts amd wow I have changed a lot (other than my faith of course), time for an update, I like girls about my age (17) but of course no more than half a year younger, lightish brown hair (not short but not waist length either), honest eyes, someone who gets and shares my slightly warped sense of humor, smart but a bit gulabe, kind and caring, not clingy but keeps in touch and about 5ft 7inches. Ever get the feeling I am describing someone specific?

My type? I used to be very picky in my teen years, but now I'm a bit more realistic.

I enjoy spending time pursuing guys who I can respect. Without enough respect (something I can't really control), I can't feel attraction. Sure, I can be friends with guys I don't respect much, but date, that's another story.

Ok, ok back to type. I am attracted to men with a gentle side, especially when they think no one's looking. I like a man who has his own opinions and can stand up for what he believes in. A man who makes me want to be a better person without making me feel inferior, more like a muse in my life. I like a man to be semi-social; it kind of ties in with the bettering myself bit, since that's one aspect of my introverted life I'm working on fixing.

Of course, the usual, has a job, a car, and passions in life. Doesn't have kids or crazy exes. Can surprise me with random things and make me feel special from time to time. Will let me spoil him in a variety of ways. I love to give.

A sense of humor doesn't hurt as well as a man who is at least a little nature-y. An education is a plus as well. It makes me feel less weird when I don't have to "dumb myself down", I like being able to let down defenses and show who I am underneath, so being able to put me at ease is something I look for. But the nervous butterflies need to be there too. 

All in all, my "type" is a paradox, hence my dating troubles of past and current times.