Just like the titled says. What is the most disturbing thing to have ever happened to you?

Me. I would have to say. When my grandfather was still around. He had a friend over and they were casually talking. My little cousin and I were in the living room playing on the Nintendo 64. Well, it was getting late and my grandfather's friend had already left. It was like 11:00 P.M that night and we were getting sleepy. Well, we decided to head to bed and I slept on the couch. As the night rolled on. I suddenly woke up around 3 in the morning to go use the bathroom and I just had a eerie feeling I was being watched. I happened to look over at the rocking chair and saw my grandfather's friend rocking back and forth in the rocking chair just a staring at me. It was creepy and I was scared. I didn't know what to do or say, because I didn't know how he reacted. Well, I gathered the courage and got up and went to the bathroom. After that. I didn't go back into the living room. I just went to the room where my cousin was sleeping at and just went to sleep on the floor wrapped up in my blanket. The morning came by and I woke up and went into the living room where my grandfather was there and his friend was there. The man looked at me and smiled saying. "Sleep well?" That was just creepy and I never went back.

What about you? Had anything disturbing happen to you?

Um, nothing really creepy happened to me, but this one time I had to use the bathroom REALLY badly while taking a long walk, so I went into a small alley. I had the feeling I was being watched ever since I got to the street I was on, so I turned around, and I saw someone looking at me. That person ran as fast as he could once I saw him. Pretty weird. >.>

My sister she used to sleep with her eyes open
and she would sleep walk so I woke up to go to the bathroom
one night and she was sitting in the corner and it scared me cause
she was just sitting there stareing at me
but she was sleeping.

crazycatpup : That is creepy. I haven't been in that situation before, but thinking about it reminds me of the Blair Witch Project when it showed that guy standing in the corner.  Did you wake her up? Which they say waking up a sleep walker is dangerous. *Shrugs*

No i didn't for that reason your not suppose
to wake them up. I don't understand why tho.

Most disturbing?

I was on a camping trip with my 6th grade class.

We were supposed to shower in a room where there were 2 shower stalls.

Me and my friend saw each other naked.

He got an erection.

Yeah, I am disturbed by things like that. I found out later he was gay. Thank god nothing happened >.<

legacyme3 : I seriously laughed at that. That must've have been extremely uncomfortable, but look at the bright side. At least your friend thought you looked hot.

Natas :

I should feel flattered,but I'm not.

Tons of gay people hit on me all the time. =/

I don't really enjoy it to be honest, because while I respect gay culture and all that stuff, I just don't like having to experience it.

I'm a supporter of the LBGT community, but I do have a bit of a fear of being hit on by them =/ silly huh?

leagacyme3: I hear ya. I respect them as well, but being hit on puts you in a awkward position and it gets quite uncomfortable real quick. I used to have some Bisexual male friends to gay friends until that one fateful day at school. He decided to "Cop a feel" My initial reactions was to slap his hand away and kinda lost my temper. I have heard that it's called a homophobe. Though that's kinda dumb. So yeah, I don't think it's silly. I feel the same way.  

I am sharing the details on this story only because this is a private forum, I trust you all not to judge/pity me or share the story. I've mentioned parts of it before here and elsewhere, but I will share it all this time.

The most disturbing thing that has ever happened to me unfolded over the course of a year back in 2004. I had ended a nearly three year relationship with an emotionally abusive  and extremely possessive boyfriend in December of 2003 but had tried to remain friends (it's what I do, I stay friends). Things were difficult and he had not taken the break-up well. Shortly after it happened, he raped me. I never reported it because he seemed to be doing more to punish himself for it than the legal system ever would have. I had to talk him out of killing himself, which was surreal at the time. I went on to a new boyfriend, but things didn't work out because of the latent trauma from what had happened. I had other relationship problems after (unrequited love, yadda yadda), money issues, whatever. The ex would periodically surface and bug me, trying to win me back and I would blow him off.

Time passed. That October, I started my first job (Shipwreck) and I entered an online relationship (it was safer). I was getting rides to and from work from my friend Pat (the unrequited love previously mentioned), along with two other friends, all of whom wanted to murder my ex but didn't because I asked them not to. I love my friends. Anywho, this whole disturbing series of events culminated when my parents went out of town for some family thing and I was staying home alone for the weekend because of work. The ex found out about it, and he was kinda stalking me by this point. He decided that he was coming over to spend the night with me, despite my saying no repeatedly. That first night after work, I got a voicemail on my pager (yes, I had a pager in 2004, my parents were cheap) saying that he was walking over and he'd be there in half an hour. Using Pat's phone, I tried to get it through his head that I didn't want him to come over, and when that failed I bought time by saying we were going to Denny's so if he showed up I wouldn't be home. He said he'd wait awhile longer and then come over and wait on the porch for me. I hung up the phone, shaking and trying to not freak out. It was dark and rainy, around 2am when my friends dropped me off ten minutes later. They offered to stay, but I told them not to because I didn't want them to go to jail for beating him to death or something. I went inside and locked the door. I wandered to my room, then to the bathroom and showered to get my make-up off before bed, all in complete darkness. That's right, showered in the dark. I was too afraid to turn on the lights because I didn't want him to know I was home. I talked to online boyfriend for a bit, telling him how scared I was... and I was very scared, hysterically terrified even. The last time that my ex had lost touch with reality like this, stalked me like this, was when the rape had happened. Online boyfriend managed to calm me down after a few minutes and I logged off to try and go to bed. I apparently freaked out so badly that I exhausted myself because I fell asleep soon after, with my doors locked, windows bolted, and a knife under my pillow. Apparently around 2:45am he showed up and knocked on the door for ten minutes before going back home. I never heard the knocking over the storm. He never tried it again.

I will be perfectly honest. I have been in far more dangerous situations than this. I've had windows shattered on me by gangbangers at my old job and been cornered by crazy hobos and I have never EVER been more afraid than I was that night. It is by far, the most disturbing thing that has ever happened to me, and I never want to feel like that again.

Elara : Oh, wow. I'm sorry all of that had happened to you. Reading that made me thing that old man that was staring at me had "Sexual" Intentions with me that night. Ugh, I don't want to know. Anyways, I can somewhat relate to that, but this had happened with my sister and her ex husband. Though, she didn't had it as bad as you had, but he would constantly stalk her as well, spreading lies about her just to steal their child away. He would even tried to kidnap my nephew. It came to the point where he would try to turn me against my own sister, but I wouldn't allow that, but that was years back. He had calmed down a lot since then.

Yeah, my ex calmed down eventually as well. Surprisingly enough, we are actually friends now. It took a LOT of time.

It is never good when a kid is involved. I am glad he has since backed off.

The most creepiest thing to ever happen to me happened at the old house I grew up in. Over the years we had heard noises, smelt odd smells and the like. One day me and my best friend where in my room both on the computer. Next thing I know my friend freaks out, shutting the door and closing his eyes and all. I asked him what was wrong? He told me he saw a shadow of a cat move down the hall, and not just a shadow. But like a cat was made of shadow. You see, the home used to be owned by a elderly couple, there mentally slow son and tons of cats. Well needless to say, at first I didn't believe him so I tried to see the shadow myself. I did, the next night.

I've had loads of creepy stuff happen to me.

Age 10:  Me and a friend almost got raped by a few older boys but thankfully they were stupid trying to do it to us in the playground during the day and an adult came buy and stopped them. (This was a strange playground no adults were ever there).  A few weeks later the same boys tried to shoot some of my friends down.  So my family moved to a nice suburban area.

Well come a year later that nice new house turned out not to be so nice.  It was haunted.  It went from pranks to us being a day away from death.  First started with pictures flying off the walls, children crying in the closets, hearing furniture move along the walls (no furniture was moving and you could hear people chattering).  Then a man ghost tried many times pulling my mom under her chair you could see the finger marks.   The thing making us move was one weekend we all started to get somewhat ill and my mom tried asking my dad to see if we had carbon monoxide poisoning but he decided to leave for a work vacation instead leaving all of us home.  The next day we had the landlord come and take a look and he said someone tampered with the furnace and one more day in there we would of been dead.  (Note my dad was cleared of any wrong doing he actually did have a work thing going on, he just has a lack of common sense lol)  So yea we know it was that male ghost trying to kill us.  Oh one other thing when the power would go out and we tried to listen to the radio we would always hear a garbled male voice in the background of the station we would listened to.  So we opted never to use the radio.

So come age 13 we move to another bigger house that was newly made.  Then came the internet!  I was stupid thinking that I was talking to a computer and gave out my telephone number...  (Yea you can see what is going to happen here).  Thankfully the guy was in India and all we had to do was change our phone number.  I learned never ever to do that again!

Come 2008 into 2009 on new years eve this was the year that my dad's best friend died.  Well on new years eve we heard a knock on the door three times.  The dogs who usually start barking shiver up into their cages.  We go to look outside the window and the light wasn't on and there were no foot prints in the freshly made snow.  (The stairs had yet been shoveled).  So yea that was scary.  The next night my dad was working at the clock tower movie house and he was up at the projection studio and a light came on going into the bell tower and he heard a voice saying "Good by my friend.  Sorry for the scare."  And the light turned off.  Of course there was no one up there.  So we knew the two incidences were made by my dad's old friend.

That ends all the creepy stuff that has happened to me.

I won't go into too specific details into this one.

When I was 8, nearly 9 in about a month or so, my mom, brother, and I, didn't actually own a house. Instead we were going to good friend's houses to live in. We had enough money to rent an apartment and such but this one invited us in. So, why not? It was a really big and nice house too. Said friend was just a single guy living by himself.


We only slept there for two nights when I was sleeping in my assigned room, I woke up, and the guy was over me touching me in places no adult man should be touching a child, that, and he had completely undressed me. I.E. the b*****d molested me.

He continued that for only 90 more seconds after I woke up and I was too scared to do anything. I guess he noticed I was awake because he just suddenly left. I told my mom what happened very early the next morning before the sun even came up because I couldn't sleep. Needless to say all 3 of us left the house before the sun rose, thankfully our grandmother's house was only a 15 minute walk away.

Elara : OMG, I am so sorry that happened to you. Around that time was close to when I was stalked by a female friend of mine. It is definitely a scary thing to go through, but of course I can't imagine what you went through as my situation was different. I hope you're okay now and he is no longer harassing you.