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06-22-11 07:23 PM
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So i was with my aunt and we were walking home from the splash
park my bf texts me for awhile then a weird number texts my phone
it was his friend and i got dumped He said it was because
i was moving but he knew i was moving when he asked me out
now cj won't talk to me and i just wanna know if were still
friends or whats going on. I don't know what to do
somebody help please.
So i was with my aunt and we were walking home from the splash
park my bf texts me for awhile then a weird number texts my phone
it was his friend and i got dumped He said it was because
i was moving but he knew i was moving when he asked me out
now cj won't talk to me and i just wanna know if were still
friends or whats going on. I don't know what to do
somebody help please.
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06-22-11 07:31 PM
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All I have to say if "F*ck him" sorry if it's not good enough advice.
All I have to say if "F*ck him" sorry if it's not good enough advice.
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06-22-11 07:32 PM
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Man, sorry to hear that. I would think that he's a bit sad that you're moving. Maybe you should give him some space, then ask him about it when the time is right.
Man, sorry to hear that. I would think that he's a bit sad that you're moving. Maybe you should give him some space, then ask him about it when the time is right.
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06-23-11 07:54 AM
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You said that he knew that you were going to move, right? In my point of view, he didn't do that because of you moving, probably there is another "reason". Or he wanted to be your bf, just because he knew that it wouldn't going to last long, you know something like "lets have some fun". In both cases, I would say just to move on, don't stay behind just because of a man, he doesn't deserve it.
I'm sure you'll find a better one, who will stay by your side through thick and thin and who will really care about you
You said that he knew that you were going to move, right? In my point of view, he didn't do that because of you moving, probably there is another "reason". Or he wanted to be your bf, just because he knew that it wouldn't going to last long, you know something like "lets have some fun". In both cases, I would say just to move on, don't stay behind just because of a man, he doesn't deserve it.
I'm sure you'll find a better one, who will stay by your side through thick and thin and who will really care about you
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06-23-11 09:05 AM
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Firstly, my condolences for what has occurred, and I can understand how you would feel. However, I have to concur with the other posters and says its time to move on. Coming from a male, it is hard to tell for sure why he has pursued you initially, but a few things about your story stands out to me. Specifically, you said it was his friend who texted you saying your boyfriend dumped you...isn't that a bit odd? Did your boyfriend specifically say its over, or is what you're saying based purely on what his friend said? 

He (the former boyfriend) is likely feeling one of two things at the moment. He is feeling either hurt that it is time for you to go, or he feels free, or perhaps a weird mixture of the two. He knows it is over, and a guy's pride suffers less from being the dumper and not the dumped, so he probably opted to end it, albeit perhaps the cowards way. he is likely estranging himself from you to spare any more pain that he may be feeling.

If you want to know further answers, talk to him about it, but ultimately it is time for moving on. I think you both know that is true, so at least try to end on good terms before you bid whatever farewells you may. If I was in these shows, I would say my goodbye, and walk out of town with my head held high as I can be, fedora and sunglasses clad, with Lucille, Gretsch or Satch on my back as I leave...well that's just me, but it is time you bid your farewells. 

If it makes anything easier, try listening to some of the Scorpion's ballads and it might help. Neil Young also does it well. Listen to whatever music makes you fulfilled with hope before you go down that highway.
Firstly, my condolences for what has occurred, and I can understand how you would feel. However, I have to concur with the other posters and says its time to move on. Coming from a male, it is hard to tell for sure why he has pursued you initially, but a few things about your story stands out to me. Specifically, you said it was his friend who texted you saying your boyfriend dumped you...isn't that a bit odd? Did your boyfriend specifically say its over, or is what you're saying based purely on what his friend said? 

He (the former boyfriend) is likely feeling one of two things at the moment. He is feeling either hurt that it is time for you to go, or he feels free, or perhaps a weird mixture of the two. He knows it is over, and a guy's pride suffers less from being the dumper and not the dumped, so he probably opted to end it, albeit perhaps the cowards way. he is likely estranging himself from you to spare any more pain that he may be feeling.

If you want to know further answers, talk to him about it, but ultimately it is time for moving on. I think you both know that is true, so at least try to end on good terms before you bid whatever farewells you may. If I was in these shows, I would say my goodbye, and walk out of town with my head held high as I can be, fedora and sunglasses clad, with Lucille, Gretsch or Satch on my back as I leave...well that's just me, but it is time you bid your farewells. 

If it makes anything easier, try listening to some of the Scorpion's ballads and it might help. Neil Young also does it well. Listen to whatever music makes you fulfilled with hope before you go down that highway.
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06-23-11 09:08 AM
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this is one of those situations you just forget.

The relationship was short, he was an idiot, and you basically didn't get anything out of it.

This is a time where it'd be appropriate to flip the guy off.

Look for some other guy, and have some fun, it's not worth dwelling on the undeserving.
this is one of those situations you just forget.

The relationship was short, he was an idiot, and you basically didn't get anything out of it.

This is a time where it'd be appropriate to flip the guy off.

Look for some other guy, and have some fun, it's not worth dwelling on the undeserving.
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06-23-11 11:31 AM
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Find someone else. Not only did HE not have the balls to break up with you himself, but it was done through texting. That means he didn't really care. I'm sorry to say that, but it's the truth. You can find someone else, it's not -that- hard (well, not for everyone anyway heh).
Just keep a positive attitude. Oh, and this part is VERY important: as you two are now broken up, cease all contact, unless it's to arrange an exchange of some of your belongings. Do not talk to him now for any other reason. Move on. Talking will lead to depression and the horrifying hope of "maybe we can get back together...". That is a very bad thing. Depending on how long you two were together will determine how long it takes to get over the relationship. This is usually anywhere from 1-6 months. Sometimes more, sometimes less, but 1-6 months is a good benchmark figure (obviously the less time together, the less time to get over it).
Just keep your chin up, and if you start feeling bad, call some friends who've been by your side for what seems like forever, and just go do -something-. Anything. Go out to eat, go to a theme park, watch a movie, hell, even just go out to have some coffee or to drive around. Keep your mind busy. That is extremely important.
I wish you the best of luck
Find someone else. Not only did HE not have the balls to break up with you himself, but it was done through texting. That means he didn't really care. I'm sorry to say that, but it's the truth. You can find someone else, it's not -that- hard (well, not for everyone anyway heh).
Just keep a positive attitude. Oh, and this part is VERY important: as you two are now broken up, cease all contact, unless it's to arrange an exchange of some of your belongings. Do not talk to him now for any other reason. Move on. Talking will lead to depression and the horrifying hope of "maybe we can get back together...". That is a very bad thing. Depending on how long you two were together will determine how long it takes to get over the relationship. This is usually anywhere from 1-6 months. Sometimes more, sometimes less, but 1-6 months is a good benchmark figure (obviously the less time together, the less time to get over it).
Just keep your chin up, and if you start feeling bad, call some friends who've been by your side for what seems like forever, and just go do -something-. Anything. Go out to eat, go to a theme park, watch a movie, hell, even just go out to have some coffee or to drive around. Keep your mind busy. That is extremely important.
I wish you the best of luck
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06-23-11 07:48 PM
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Nobody needs an a*shole like him. Sure, he might been extremely sweet to you before, but that is just... WRONG.
Nobody needs an a*shole like him. Sure, he might been extremely sweet to you before, but that is just... WRONG.
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06-24-11 04:08 PM
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Sorry cat, I honestly can't help you there. He's just being a jerk > and I know how hard moving can be leaving everyone trust me I've done it 3-4 times
Sorry cat, I honestly can't help you there. He's just being a jerk > and I know how hard moving can be leaving everyone trust me I've done it 3-4 times
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Well, he was a jerk then, but at least he is your friend again. Heartbreaking at first but at least you didn't lose your friend. :/
Well, he was a jerk then, but at least he is your friend again. Heartbreaking at first but at least you didn't lose your friend. :/
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06-24-11 04:12 PM
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Aw, sorry to hear, that's messed up! I agree with Choko, screw him.... that's a ridiculous reason to break up with someone...especially the way he went about it...cowardly. You're still young so you have plenty of years to meet a new and better boyfriend.

For the most part, there's still telephones and internet...in case you both are interested remaining friends or partners.
Aw, sorry to hear, that's messed up! I agree with Choko, screw him.... that's a ridiculous reason to break up with someone...especially the way he went about it...cowardly. You're still young so you have plenty of years to meet a new and better boyfriend.

For the most part, there's still telephones and internet...in case you both are interested remaining friends or partners.
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