It should be special! I think it really should be but i understand that it's an option between to people even though the relationship might not last. I'm also very relaxed about it people should be able to do what they want, regardless of what others think.

i see it has baseball. well i havnt done that  yet. im only 13

Sex is sex to me, it can be made special if the mood is right and what not. Not going into detail on this subject due to the fact that this is vizzed so that is really all I have to say about that. lol

It's going to sound biased coming from me since I'm a virgin & have a religious background. Long story short, sex is something that should be seen & treated as special between two people. It can be fun, but if that's all that it's treated as then how do you know when you've found the right person? Having sex is the closest two people can physically get, & should be done between people who trust & respect each other. If sex is done numerous times for one person & they later on find someone that they really like/love, how can they let this person get closer? They've let other people touch them in ways that cross the line & now they have this person that they truly love doing the same thing. What's the difference? How can you prove that you love this person when you've let other people go as far as physically possible before your loved one? Having sex should be like saying "I love you & that's why you are the only one I want to be this close with.". If it's not then there's no way (atleast not one that I can find) to show someone you truly love how much you mean to them. Again, this sounds biased because of me as a person, but that's what I really think sex boils down to.

Coming from personal experience it is way over rated and should be kept for that special someone. I have had as much intimacy as about a normal 30 year old. You know why I lost my virginity at twelve? Because someone told me that I wasn't cool and by doing the dirty  I thought it was a right of passage as a man. Well by keeping it in your pants until you are married is being a true man. A player isn't a man he is more like a predator who usually goes for the doe eyed girls who are easily swept off their feet. Trust me if people make fun of you in school just disregard them even if it makes you "lower on the food chain" or less popular.  If you are a virgin be proud of it, shout it to the world!! Girls will respect you more often and you will find a really great women eventually if you be honest and tell them. But be careful there are Boy/Girls, Men/Women who will go out of their way and try and seduce you just so the can take your virginity away don't give in no matter how bad the temptations are. Also you will not get girls pregnant and you will have 0% chance of STDs unless something very unfortunate happens like a blood transfusion, you start shooting etc.. I admit that I have played girls but after maturing a little bit I faced my fears and apologized for what I have done. If you are active in sex be sure to wrap up so you don't end up paying child support for eighteen years. Anyways save it till you married and I respect every single one of you who are virgins and if you aren't it isn't a bad thing just be careful you can ruin girls lives and your own in a instant.

Sex can cause a lot of problems like unwanted babies, stds and tons of drama. If you don't want to ruin peoples lives I suggest internet porn. Save lives, helps the economy if you pay for it and you can remain disease free and drama free. Plus you can cheat all you want. Internet porn is like the gameshark of sex you are in god mode and can hack into anyones pants at anytime you want.

Sex is a great feeling and people can have sex for whatever reason they choose, it's not for me to judge. I personally believe sex should be shared with someone you deeply care about as a way to show deep affection for the person. It's a great bonding experience and I believe is the ultimate way to express your love for someone next to marriage. Don't get me wrong though, sex is a lot of fun and I've definitely thought about just doing it just for that fact but I've never been put in a situation so I dont know how Id react, maybe my opinion on that fact will change, maybe it won't, only time will tell.

Like basketball for the win!! I've been called a nympho by people I've been with but I don't really classify myself as one because when I'm not in a relationship or dating someone I can control myself. Usually by err...controlling myself

I tried reading this many times but I didnt see a question there that was suppoused to be answered. I quess you like basketball.

I prefer icehockey innuendos.

Sex is something that I won't do till Iam older

Sex is something that is nor good or bad.

Sex is like doing the dishes. Sometimes your parrent makes you do it,sometimes its the parent of your child. But most of the time you wish somebody else would do it and you could just go and play your damn Xbox. And you just try to forget. Forget very hard.

Sex is love. Every time I went to bed with my current partner and past ones, I did it because I had a real connection with them

If awesome was an option i would have voted it. On the other hand i know there is a part of me that realizes that sex is special for the special person who makes you happy. 

jaws123 : I concur with the awesome thing xD

I think it has to be special to thou however, it always feels more intimate when you are doing it with the person you are in love with.

EvilAlu : Hehehe

*Certain* forms of sex are special and are to be kept for your special someone. Otherwise, I find nothing special in the act. As long as it's happening between consenting adults, then it's none of our business

Overrated. Period.

It's sorta a stress killer and a workout. Sex doesn't only cause negative outcomes, there's benefits as well.

lets talk about sex baby lets talk about you and me!

I believe that sex is something special and I always have (well at least since I had an interest in it).
Before having sex I saw it as a very big thing like it was the height of being together with someone. Since I have been with many sexual partners and every time I've tried to make it special however that isn't easy for one night stand as usually he or she is just looking for a quick 'shag' and then we never speak again which has been very emotionally draining in the past. In the past couple of months I've slowed down and stopped having one night stands and it's returned to something that can be special and that I can really enjoy with someone I have actual feelings for. I make each time as memorable as possible and I've always been complimented by past girlfriends and boyfriends for being respectful in bed and making each time something special.

Just my two sense.
-Setrophth

Honestly? I believe sex is something you should only have with one person. I screwed that up, being stupid and pining after a guy who was just looking to "Get some," and I really do wish I could go back in time and erase that night. =/ I don't like how people take on multiple sex partners, because I think it really takes away from all the meaning and such that sex originally was.

Every time a guy gets to know me, he turns into a raging horndog... I find it rather disturbing, and there is really only one guy I allow to behave that way with me. That is ONLY because I plan on spending the rest of my life with him. But really, I find wrestling with people to be a lot more fun and exciting. In the end, you are still relaxed and satisfied. Plus, there is no chance AT ALL of accidental pregnancies, or STD's when it comes to just wrestling with your partner. . - .

That is what I think.