well this girl name Ashley i liked her since 6th grade in 8th grade now and idk if she likes me we been friends for like 3 years now and i want to tell her how i feel cause i have so much feeling for her but idk if she feels that way and i don't want her to say i something like this i once knew that kid he was cool tell he told me all that stuff hes a creep now and hes weird to so yup something along those lines im afraid of can you guys give me some advice school is about to end and this thing called 8th grade day is coming up where all the 8th grade kids chill with each other so is that the right day help me please.

sincerely your pal 95jake1

If I were you I would definitely tell her how you feel. Because she may feel the same way about you. Because you don't want to go through life with alot of regets. You just got to go for it man don't be shy because some other guy's wont be shy and they will get her before you.

wow lol the get her before you prob scares me the most and thank you so much for the advice i will really consider this truly man thanks

sincerely 95jake1

This is you, not your brother, right? I would hate to have a second long winded reply to a topic that isn't actually supposed to exist.

Just ask her. Go for it. Odds are, she secretly has a crush on you as well. First though, I suggest just hanging out with her as friends and seeing how she acts around you. If you think she acts differently than other friends of hers, she may actually have feelings for you. If she doesn't, she may just be hiding it. Please, though, tell me that when you guys "chill with each other," you don't end up making out in a closet somewhere. That would be taking it way too fast.
Just go for it. Tell me how it ends up.

Every time I had a crush on somebody, I always let him know about it.
So, if I were you, I would go and tell her the truth about my feelings. I think she will appreciate it.
Please keep us informed about how is going
Good luck

sakura this is me Michael the owner of this acc my frigging brother excuse me for my rudeness loged onto here and posted something stupid so sorry about that and thanks for your advice along with everyone else s sorry again sakura for the misunderstanding

your pal 95jake1

I honestly am going to go against everyone else and tell you, no don't tell her about your feelings... at least not yet. Look, your situation sounds exactly like mine when I was in 8th grade. I've liked someone since around... 5,6 grade. The thing is, I had to leave the state for a move, so I felt like I had to tell her. What ended up happening was, in a conversation she told me who she liked, and asked me who I liked and I ended up telling her. Now, she's got her own boyfriend and I'm probably more than 500 miles away from her. We don't really talk that much.
I understand how you feel. You really like this person, but you're afraid she wouldn't feel the same way. The thing is though, are you good enough friends with her? Is there anyway you can be absolutely certain she likes you beforehand? It might be better to find out first. The fact is, if she's single, and you know she doesn't like anyone then go for it. Take your best shot, I'd really encourage it . BUT, if she likes someone else, you might wanna back off because then you'd probably end up being not so close if you're good friends. See, if you try to fight for her, here's how it might end up. You might "ruin" your friendship with her, or you might sort of impress her, you know?
All I'm saying is it's ok that you're being careful. Don't worry about it too much. If you end up telling her, don't be nervous. Just let it all out I'm just saying you should be a little more sure about her feelings before doing so.
Hope this helps and best of luck

mdynasty926 your words are truly inspiring and i will take your advice to heart thank you

your friend 95jake1

stop trying to boost your post count and you are too young to feel true, meaningful love. wait until you hit your twenties and it is much more likely to be real. Kids don't fall in love, they fall in lust.

Bobbynibbles : let me try to say this as nice as i can cause im a nice guy read evrey single thing i posted or responded to you'll see what i mean first of all who are you to tell me that im to young im not a baby if that's what your implying second of all i see your trying to give advice and thank you for that but your advice came very raw to me and i don't really like what you have posted consider picking nicer words.

your friend 95jake1

95jake1 : i'm giving you the straight up reality, kid. You are not in love. Have you spent years with this girl? or did you just get a funny feeling in the front of your pants? I've been in love before and is a very deep thing, and I doubt you could touch it.

Bobbynibbles : i have liked this girl for 3 years i didn't just see her and pitch a tent ....
im pretty sure i know what love is i see it everyday and you know what im jealous im jealous of you and all the other people who have it i spent my days talking to girls flirten i want a girlfriend now a relationship do you see what i mean now im not a kid i may be 13 but i dont act like a kid or have kid values not telling you what to say to me but i dont like be called

sincerely your friend 95jake1

95jake1 : Tell her how you feel man. I know from lots of experience how depressing and especially unnecessary it is to keep feelings bottled up. The only reason you shouldn't would only be if she had a boy friend. Too many times I would see the one I loved and do nothing, but act like an idiot. It was not necessary of me to do so, she was nice. Just tell her man. Like I said, I know this kind of from experience.

Hoochman : thanks for the advice man i love when people can relate to me i really do and ill consider this bro .PS she dosent have a boyfriend so i think i shall go for it as i said there's this thing coming up called 8th grade day and its where all the 8th graders chill and have a huge party probably would be the perfect day to tell her cause everyone having a great time and its the day before school gets out

your friend 95jake1

Man,I am in the same situation as you 8th grade, a girl named Ashley, and I am to afraid to tell here.school just got out and I already regret not telling her.

Gee I never thought I'd be inspiring :3 hahaha.
My pleasure

matthew30903 : well school is almost out for me not quite out but yea girls name ashley and i love her and best of luck to you man i hope you really do tell her how you fell

sincerely your friend 95jake1

95jake1 : Although, I am partly with the bobbynipples guy. Even for a teen, I have a good understanding of love. I too believe that love is not that happy little school boy feeling we all got in our early youth when we saw a pretty girl. Real love is deeper than that. Although if you've liked and known this girl a couple years than maybe you're situation might be the real deal.

Hoochman : trust me this isn't a thing where i see here pitch a tent then talk to her for awhile and like her then claim to love her no way we have alot of things in common and i really got to know her.

sincerely 95jake1

95jake1 : I know how you feel, but I'm guessing Bobbynibbles is probably only just trying to say that for your own good. The reason I think this is because, we're teenagers, it's extremely normal to feel really "in love" with someone. The fact is though, there's not a lot of relationships that last when they start so young. But then again, young love is rather nice .
The fact that you've liked this person for such a long time, it must mean you really do love her, or it's that teen feeling inside of you, but I feel as if you're serious about this and are willing to make that commitment. I do hope you get this girl man