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Part of being a Christian is consistently looking towards Christ as an example on how to live our lives. This means that we must always be thinking upon our actions and thoughts, to be sure that they align with God's plan.  Striving towards such perfection means reflecting, learning, and adjusting.

One thing that I don't really see a lot here on vizzed are married couples.  More specifically, married Christian couples.  I can think of very few Christians here that are married, and thus, I'm asking anyone who is dating or has dated as well.

Mainly, I'm interested in knowing this:  Have you and someone you loved ever gotten into a humongous argument, or a heated situation?  Not to call you out or anything, but if you're answer is no, I'm certain you're lying.  Every couple has at some point, 'gotten into it'.  When we get into these kinds of situations, it's sometimes hard to step back from our emotions and react in a manner approved by God.

So I'd like to hear your stories.  What did you fight over, and how was the issue resolved?  Did you react in the right way, or the wrong way?  More importantly, did you learn anything?

I'm looking for biblical insight here.  Our own mistakes, after all, are not the only ones we can learn from.
Part of being a Christian is consistently looking towards Christ as an example on how to live our lives. This means that we must always be thinking upon our actions and thoughts, to be sure that they align with God's plan.  Striving towards such perfection means reflecting, learning, and adjusting.

One thing that I don't really see a lot here on vizzed are married couples.  More specifically, married Christian couples.  I can think of very few Christians here that are married, and thus, I'm asking anyone who is dating or has dated as well.

Mainly, I'm interested in knowing this:  Have you and someone you loved ever gotten into a humongous argument, or a heated situation?  Not to call you out or anything, but if you're answer is no, I'm certain you're lying.  Every couple has at some point, 'gotten into it'.  When we get into these kinds of situations, it's sometimes hard to step back from our emotions and react in a manner approved by God.

So I'd like to hear your stories.  What did you fight over, and how was the issue resolved?  Did you react in the right way, or the wrong way?  More importantly, did you learn anything?

I'm looking for biblical insight here.  Our own mistakes, after all, are not the only ones we can learn from.
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Christ never married and I guess that is what my future will be like.

Religion was never the issue. It is just that I am untolerable in many other ways and so were they. I was engaged maybe twice or thrice I think.

I still dream of having a family though. One can always have his daydreams but what you are given is what you get.

Mistakes were made but nothing was truly lost.

Christ never married and I guess that is what my future will be like.

Religion was never the issue. It is just that I am untolerable in many other ways and so were they. I was engaged maybe twice or thrice I think.

I still dream of having a family though. One can always have his daydreams but what you are given is what you get.

Mistakes were made but nothing was truly lost.

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Interesting thread.  I'm a bit reluctant to tell my whole story, because it gets a bit personal, so I'm just going to skim through this briefly  Just for the record, I'm married for 7 years now.

"Have you and someone you loved ever gotten into a humongous argument, or a heated situation?"
Oh yeah. 

"What did you fight over, and how was the issue resolved?"
Like I said, I'm not going into too much detail.  It was because of my past online gaming addiction (and other stuff that went with it)   I chirped my chores.  Obviously didn't give the wife enough attention.  Lied to the wife about a lot of things, just so that I could play and keep on doing what I was doing.  My spiritual life suffered heavily.
It got up to a point where I STRONGLY believe, God convicted me through my wife so heavily about my marriage and what I was busy doing to it, that I literally reached a point where I broke down (with a lot of tears) before my wife, confessing everything to her (and to God) and I asked for her and God's forgiveness.  Yeah people - your sin will find you out - one way or the other.

"Did you react in the right way, or the wrong way?"
I reacted completely in the wrong way when I was confronted by it.  Typically trying to justify myself and what I was doing.  

"More importantly, did you learn anything?"
Oh yeah!  Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! XD  Seriously - DO NOT fall for Satan's lie that something will go horribly wrong if you give everything to Christ.  DO NOT fall for Satan's lie that you cannot surrender your whole life to Christ, because you know better than anyone else how to control your life.  DO NOT try and justify your sin or that thing that is keeping you from having a full relationship with God, doesn't matter how innocent it might seem at the time.  If it takes more of your time than your time that you spend with God - give it a rest man, or better, give it to God.
Interesting thread.  I'm a bit reluctant to tell my whole story, because it gets a bit personal, so I'm just going to skim through this briefly  Just for the record, I'm married for 7 years now.

"Have you and someone you loved ever gotten into a humongous argument, or a heated situation?"
Oh yeah. 

"What did you fight over, and how was the issue resolved?"
Like I said, I'm not going into too much detail.  It was because of my past online gaming addiction (and other stuff that went with it)   I chirped my chores.  Obviously didn't give the wife enough attention.  Lied to the wife about a lot of things, just so that I could play and keep on doing what I was doing.  My spiritual life suffered heavily.
It got up to a point where I STRONGLY believe, God convicted me through my wife so heavily about my marriage and what I was busy doing to it, that I literally reached a point where I broke down (with a lot of tears) before my wife, confessing everything to her (and to God) and I asked for her and God's forgiveness.  Yeah people - your sin will find you out - one way or the other.

"Did you react in the right way, or the wrong way?"
I reacted completely in the wrong way when I was confronted by it.  Typically trying to justify myself and what I was doing.  

"More importantly, did you learn anything?"
Oh yeah!  Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! XD  Seriously - DO NOT fall for Satan's lie that something will go horribly wrong if you give everything to Christ.  DO NOT fall for Satan's lie that you cannot surrender your whole life to Christ, because you know better than anyone else how to control your life.  DO NOT try and justify your sin or that thing that is keeping you from having a full relationship with God, doesn't matter how innocent it might seem at the time.  If it takes more of your time than your time that you spend with God - give it a rest man, or better, give it to God.
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