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03-28-05 02:35 AM
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Well.. I hate to start off with a sotry first, so if oyu can't read a sort of long post don't bother..

Well I went out with this one girl, Jackie, in January.. It was great, I went on a few dates with her and everything.. but it didnt last too long...only 2 weeks.. So I adn't thought about it really, but yesterday I relized I liked her alot.. I mean alot, I even dumped a girl I was going out with because I like Jackie... Well we havent talked much before 2 nights ago.. online.. (Since I don't like talking on the phone so much.. and im too lazy to go hang out with her and talk) And it was liek the last time me and her went out, we had previosuly been in a fight, and then she talked to me oen day.. and I went out with her like a couple days later..
*Switches Over to Present Time*

Well know since I've been talking about her, I didnt exactly tell her I liked her, I said that she was my best gf.. blah.. blah.. a few nice things.. I forgot.. blah..

And know.. I didnt a very kidish thing to do.. I told her I liked this girl.. and I gave her crappy cleus.. like i really liek this girl.. I don't know if shes just clueless or palying dumb.. I know it sounds odd, but i think she might be clueless, anyways I'm susposed to hang out with her and her friends tomorrow... Do you think If I told her this week, she would take me back?
Well.. I hate to start off with a sotry first, so if oyu can't read a sort of long post don't bother..

Well I went out with this one girl, Jackie, in January.. It was great, I went on a few dates with her and everything.. but it didnt last too long...only 2 weeks.. So I adn't thought about it really, but yesterday I relized I liked her alot.. I mean alot, I even dumped a girl I was going out with because I like Jackie... Well we havent talked much before 2 nights ago.. online.. (Since I don't like talking on the phone so much.. and im too lazy to go hang out with her and talk) And it was liek the last time me and her went out, we had previosuly been in a fight, and then she talked to me oen day.. and I went out with her like a couple days later..
*Switches Over to Present Time*

Well know since I've been talking about her, I didnt exactly tell her I liked her, I said that she was my best gf.. blah.. blah.. a few nice things.. I forgot.. blah..

And know.. I didnt a very kidish thing to do.. I told her I liked this girl.. and I gave her crappy cleus.. like i really liek this girl.. I don't know if shes just clueless or palying dumb.. I know it sounds odd, but i think she might be clueless, anyways I'm susposed to hang out with her and her friends tomorrow... Do you think If I told her this week, she would take me back?
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03-28-05 07:10 AM
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I think if you came out and told her, things would look up. But..let me tell you. Ya know how you said you were too lazy to go hang out with her? You can't be that way if she does. You have to show her you want her. Make an attempt at her...ya know?....but...I hope things look up for ya...
I think if you came out and told her, things would look up. But..let me tell you. Ya know how you said you were too lazy to go hang out with her? You can't be that way if she does. You have to show her you want her. Make an attempt at her...ya know?....but...I hope things look up for ya...
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03-28-05 09:10 AM
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You have to tell her. I mean you can't just keep feeling that way, you need to go ahead and be open with it.

Also I agree with FF Freak about the being too lazy to hang out with her. To me that would say that you didn't like her that much.
You have to tell her. I mean you can't just keep feeling that way, you need to go ahead and be open with it.

Also I agree with FF Freak about the being too lazy to hang out with her. To me that would say that you didn't like her that much.
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Yea, you should prolly tell her. Anything is possible.
Yea, you should prolly tell her. Anything is possible.
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I agree with FF Freak too... And honesty is the best policy. So you like her... But now you need to prove it to her. And figure out what y'all did during your two weeks together that meant the most to you or her. If it was a romantic dinner for two, do that again. If it was a night out to the movies, do it again... Set it up exactly the same way (ie go to the same restaurant before/after the movie, etc) as it had been before... Things like that will remind her of your relationship and she'll be more comfortable with the idea of starting that relationship back up.
I agree with FF Freak too... And honesty is the best policy. So you like her... But now you need to prove it to her. And figure out what y'all did during your two weeks together that meant the most to you or her. If it was a romantic dinner for two, do that again. If it was a night out to the movies, do it again... Set it up exactly the same way (ie go to the same restaurant before/after the movie, etc) as it had been before... Things like that will remind her of your relationship and she'll be more comfortable with the idea of starting that relationship back up.
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03-28-05 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by ff_freak
I think if you came out and told her, things would look up. But..let me tell you. Ya know how you said you were too lazy to go hang out with her? You can't be that way if she does. You have to show her you want her. Make an attempt at her...ya know?....but...I hope things look up for ya...


Let me clear things up.. I didn't mean to put lazy.. I'm more nervous.. I don't wanna screw up around a girl I like, know what I mean?.. And we were suposed to hang out today, but the rain ruined it, well acutally thing MIGHT clear up, but it looks doubtful... And with the info that everyone gave.. perhaps after we hang out, one day.., I'll ask her if she wants to goto the movies later in the week.. Not alone .. of course.. or should it be alone? <-- That's my next question.
Originally posted by ff_freak
I think if you came out and told her, things would look up. But..let me tell you. Ya know how you said you were too lazy to go hang out with her? You can't be that way if she does. You have to show her you want her. Make an attempt at her...ya know?....but...I hope things look up for ya...


Let me clear things up.. I didn't mean to put lazy.. I'm more nervous.. I don't wanna screw up around a girl I like, know what I mean?.. And we were suposed to hang out today, but the rain ruined it, well acutally thing MIGHT clear up, but it looks doubtful... And with the info that everyone gave.. perhaps after we hang out, one day.., I'll ask her if she wants to goto the movies later in the week.. Not alone .. of course.. or should it be alone? <-- That's my next question.
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Or by acting like a total jerk etc. I mean she went out with you in the first place so be yourself and don't worry about screwing something up.

Really to answer your other question you need to feel her out. See how she reacts while you are there. You may just want to give her the option on whether it should be you two or with a group. You may say something like, "Do you want to go to a movie (or whatever) with me sometime? Or maybe you and I could go as part of a group? It's up to you." But I say try to give her the option. But like if when you hang out everything goes really well then you may just want to ask her to go to the movies and forget about the group part. So like I said just feel her out. Think about her tone, body language, and just the way she acts toward you.
Or by acting like a total jerk etc. I mean she went out with you in the first place so be yourself and don't worry about screwing something up.

Really to answer your other question you need to feel her out. See how she reacts while you are there. You may just want to give her the option on whether it should be you two or with a group. You may say something like, "Do you want to go to a movie (or whatever) with me sometime? Or maybe you and I could go as part of a group? It's up to you." But I say try to give her the option. But like if when you hang out everything goes really well then you may just want to ask her to go to the movies and forget about the group part. So like I said just feel her out. Think about her tone, body language, and just the way she acts toward you.
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