Date doesn't equal girlfriend. I'm just trying to get to know some girls and try not to have it so we are "too close to date".

ok... i dont really see what you mean but.... Ok so you want to date... but not get to close to date...umm.. alright.. ok...uhhh.... You could try doing less romantic things.... like maybe a movie but skip the dinner thing... You know?

You misunderstand. When I get to know most girls I end up getting to know them as a friend, then I end up having them being really close friends. So I want to get to know a girl while we are dating. Do you understand now?

You wanna go out with them before its too late otherwise you wont be able to go out with them with out stuffing it up right?

Now you got it.

Yeah, that makes sense. I see what you ment by "to close to date"
I never had that problem...

good for you icewave

Do i detect sarcasm?

no more jelousy
(and yes i can't spell)

I don't get that problem with just girls I am very close to, I am generally nervous to date girls regardless, they seem to see that as a redeeming quality, or so it seems.

wat do you mean by redeeming

It means something that makes them want you more.

Some girls see shyness as a attractive thing. I both do and don't.

Good luck on the dating thing Michael.

As for my end of life...

Well, I've had two offers for dating that I have turned down, one male and one female. The guy is a good friend and all, but he creeps me out sometimes (a little TOO into BDSM) and the girl... well, for starters she is 14 and I see her like family, so yeah. That, and girls confuse the f*** out of me, more than guys, so I kinda have this thing about "look but don't date" with them.

I've given up hope on my ex coming back, and I am starting to see that it's probably better this way. At least I still have him as a friend, and that is what matters. I'm going to try the single life for once... it's been so long since I've really been single that I can't remember what it's like to enjoy it. Just to emphasize that, I'm nearly 21 and the last time I was really single and was happy I was 9. That's right, I've been dating since I was 9. Now you all see why I have knowledge on so much crap.

since 9? wow thats alot of dating and relationships... im 17 and still dateless, it sucs a bit, ok it has ups altho the ups for me aint really much but im ok wiht it, like in hitch im realizing now im a late bloomer cauz girls are starting to act interested in me. but yeah, wow thats alot im sory for your unfortunatly dating seen elara.and good luck on the single thing i hope it works out

Good luck with that Elara. That sounds like a big change for you. You have a 10 year head start on me in the dating scene Elara.

I'm trying to find the right girl to ask on a date now. I want to ask someone I sorta know, but that's just not the way I usually do things. I think I'm going to have to try it to have a bit of luck.

im starten the idea of clubin soon, just go out and meet heaps of girls, and guys as friends and then with some of the girls maybe flirt with em to see if we got anything in comen and take it from there

I don't think clubbing would be a great idea to meet girls. At least not to me. But if it sounds good to you, good luck with that.

its not like rave clubin, it'll more be like go to a bar, introduce myself to some people talk for a whle do some dancin get a phone number or 2 and then go home, and maybe in a week call em up to see how things are goin

Holy crap...

You know that saying about loving something and letting it go? I think it's true! I let go of Jayarre and embraced the idea of being single instead of dating someone else, and Jayarre came back. Eighteen days of being single, longest I've gone in years... and it felt like years to be honest.

Yay, I am teh happy! The part that really made it sink in though was when he held me close and said "I'm home. I belong with you."



See, now this can be used as encouragement. If I can succeed in love, after over 10 years of failure, then you guys can too. Hopefully it won't take 10 years for you guys though.

congrates, on the renewed love, and yes lets hope our success doesn't take that long