I have a wonderful girlfriend who I've been with for exactly three years today :'D!

Shaedo K : The whole point you're missing is that I'm not you, and my girlfriend isn't the girls you've dated. I spent a bunch of money to go see my girlfriend for a week last year, and I'm still with her. We're planning on seeing each other again soon, too. It will be our third year anniversary in 13 days.

Thank you everyone, for being so nice. You really make me feel welcomed(:

So everyone here who doesn't fit in a certain group is "different?"
Everyone is different, so stop making different look like a bad thing.
If you enjoy playing video games, card games, ect. instead of playing sports, going to parties, and doing other physical social things, it's just who you are.
You aren't a loser, you aren't a nerd, and you're not alone. Just as much as jocks may think I'm a nerd, I think they're an illiterate douche. If people don't like me for some reason, yes, I will try to be their friend and find out why they dislike me, but.. If someone just doesn't like me simply because of who I am, and never plan to get to know me, then they are no longer a part of my life.
I accept anyone to be my friend. My friends range from the weirdo's, the nerds, the losers, the normals, and the populars.
I don't belong to a clique, rather, I'm a loner with people whom I can call friends. I wouldn't change how I am because it makes me free.
Free of caring what people think, free of caring about losing friends, free of drama.

However, I have one person I hold very dear to me. One person I can trust no matter what.

Of course, like I said earlier: "Everyone is different." So you can't be me, nor do I want you to be, and I don't think I'm better than anyone else here.
But, I do love my way of a free lifestyle.
I enjoy video games, card games, and sports. I could easily fit in with any group I wanted to because I accept anyone. If you want friends, don't reject anyone.

One time, me and my friend were prank calling people randomly, and this old lady answered. My friend started talking about how her husband signed up for some weigh loss thing, and the lady responded with "I'm sorry, you've got the wrong number. My husband is deceased."
I've never prank called again.

I've been prank called several times, and I had to end up blocking the persons number from my phone, only because it was so annoying.

Yes, I have. But my reasons are just.

I'm not going to let my little brother, who is 3 years younger than me talk over me.
Sure, I could tell my parents, but he's the baby, so they won't do much. Maybe just *tell* him they will punish him, but never actually do it.

There is always a problem with getting your words in an ignorant pre-teens head, so you have to use force to tell them what you mean.
Not only have I hit him for disrespecting me, but I have done it when he disrespected my parents (Who do not do a THING when he does), my friends, and my other siblings.

I believe he will thank me for it. I've never thanked my older brother for it, but it did help me in ways.

Many of you are reading and saying "Well, he will hate you for it." It's not like I'm beating him. And it actually only happens seldomly.
I'm not saying he would grow up disrespecting his superiors, but I'm not taking that chance.
If he did happen to never change his ways, what if he disrespected the wrong person, and ended up in the hospital, or even worse; dead?

I love my little brother, and if I ever saw anyone else out of my family hurting him, I would deal 10 fold the damage they did to him.

I'm sure he'll never hold me hitting him a few times against me. We have a rather good brotherly relationship.

Most people spread rumors either because people misunderstood something, or because people have nothing better to do (Mostly because they have nothing better to do)

If you want to resolve it, it's better to let everyone know you know the rumors they're spreading, and get to the bottom of it.
You said you were getting praise, so you were obviously doing something right.

Rumors will always be there.

One time, there was this rumor about me going around that I was with this "loose" girl that I had never even met before, and she didn't even go to the same school as me, I also already had a girlfriend. Of course, all it did was make me laugh at the stupidity of the people making the rumor, because when I confronted them, they had no valid proof of me doing anything with her.

You have several options:

1. Make the people feel terrible by spreading a false rumor.
2. Let it pass; they will find another target soon.
3. Just let them talk; you know it's not true.
4. If it goes to this extent, find another job.

If you're ever worried about people judging you, just remember that they're in fault, not you.

Matthew 5:1-2 "Do not judge, or you too will be judged.  For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."

Has someone ever done/said something that made you feel special?


For me, it was about a month ago. I was talking to a girl on this website who was troubled because her boyfriend had cheated on her and left her.

Before she left the chat room, she told me this: "If everyone in the world were like you, this world would be a way better place."

I had no time to return any compliments, or even say thank you. I haven't talked to her since then.

I've had many compliments, but none like that. I just hope I helped her.

Share times you've felt special by a compliment or other occurrences? (:

A "Special tingly" feeling isn't even a fraction of what love is.
Honestly, you can never make judgements on if you will never fall in love or not.
Some people don't find "The one" until they are a lot older.
Some people find "The one" at a younger age.
Some people have to go through many relationships to find true love.
Should you lose hope just because you aren't lucky?
Your choice.
Take words from people in love:
It's the best feeling ever.

Of course, being in love isn't sunshine and rainbows.
If you want it, and if you want to keep it, you have to fight for it; fight hard, and fight forever.

Anytime you feel like you like someone, never miss that opportunity. You may never get it again.

Than you for the warm welcome, Laian!

I'm glad you see me as a nice person. You seem pretty awesome yourself.
I will follow the rules. This is a great site, and I will not do anything to try and corrupt it.

Well, I love watching "Let's Plays" xD Especially if the person has a good sense of humor and personality.
You seem like that type, so I'll watch some of your videos.

Once again, thank you for making me feel welcomed. You're the type of person that makes me want to stay around.

No way. I'm 17, and my friends range from 13-30. My girlfriend is only 14 (About to be 15, though)
Anyone can be a friend, all you have to be is friendly.

I saw this section on the board, and I thought I would share about my relationship.

It all started a good 3 and a half years ago, when I was playing the MMORPG game Adventure Quest Worlds.
I met this girl (Angela) who said she was 13 (I was 14 at the time) , very shy, and never talked much. When she did talk, it was usually just a simple "Lol"

I introduced her to my friends, and she just became a part of our "Group." A week later, as embarrassing as it must have been for her, one of her friends told me she had a crush on me. I has just gotten out of a relationship, and kinda wanted a break. So, I explained, and she understood.

After about a month, I got her and my (Best)friend (Stephen) to date (with my expert match making skills, it lasted but a week)
So they broke up, and about that time, everyone we knew started becoming inactive. And we slowly did as well.

About 3 months passed, and I decided I wanted to see if anyone was online by chance. To my luck, Stephen was online. When we started talking I mentioned how I hadn't seen Angela in a while. After about 5 minutes of us talking about her, she came online. It was like fate had this happen, because it was just so random that I even went on the game, and to go on practically the same time as two nearly inactive people, it was just weird.

She was beyond excited to see that we were on, and I had never seen her talk so much. It was uplifting. She thought we forgot about her.
We all became active again, but it was just the three of us. It was great, we were all best friends.

A week later, Angela told me she had something important to tell me, but I had to go, so it had to wait until the next day.
The next day, she told me "I like you.. A lot, but I don't want my feelings to get in the way of our friendship."
I replied with "I like you, too.. But, it's complicated"

What made it so complicated, is my first crush. I found out she liked me. But something slightly sad happened. I didn't know her parents, I didn't know her last name, and back then, I didn't now much about getting in touch with someone, even thought it was so easy. So, she basically became lost to me.

I had one last chance to find her, and that was at a thing called "Vacation Bible School." It's a thing most Christian (Or at least Protestants) have for 5 days each summer. It's basically for kids, but my purpose of going was hoping to see her.

Of course, she wasn't there. I felt heartache, because I knew I was probably never going to see her again. But another stroke of luck happened. On my way home from Vacation Bible School, my older brother played a song called "Dear God" By "Avenged Sevenfold"
One part of the song goes like "Some search never finding away, before long they waste away. I found you; something told me to stay, I give in to selfish ways."

I was just sitting there thinking to myself.. "Is it Angela?"

Maybe a month or two later, I got online. I explained everything to Angela. We didn't start dating as soon as I told her, but we may as well have. I gave her my phone number, and she called me the next day at 11:28 AM.

We talked until 5:07 PM. I never had such a good time talking to someone. And it was like we never ran out of things to talk about.

That night, she sent a picture to my email, and I was stunned. I would have never thought she was as beautiful as she was and is.

A week after talking on the phone, she had to hang up. I quickly told her "Wait! I love you!" And she just sat there for a few seconds, and what was probably about 5 seconds felt like a whole minute (I know, wow, a whole minute. But come on, I just told her that I loved her for the first time, and she's just sitting there) of awkward silence.. Suddenly, the lightest, cutest "I love you, too" came through the phone, and she hung up.
I was freaking out. I was like "I probably just ruined everything"

But about an hour later, she called me back, and asked if I really meant it.. And I said I did..

After that, we went online and started going all lovey dovey in front of Stephen. Little to my knowledge, I had no idea what I was really doing. Getting so close to Angela like that set a time bomb inside of Stephen.

A day later, she once again asked "Do you really love me?" And I said "Yes, I really do. Do you love me?" And she said she did.
I said, "Then let's make it official.. Angela, will you go out with me?" She said "I would love to." With a Smiley emoticon.

Everything was amazing. But little did we know, Stephen was slowly turning into a villain. I know, it seems like some fairytale or something, but everything I'm saying is the solid truth.

A few months later, I lost my Internet (THIS IS THE SCARY PART. NO INTERNET OMGHIWUBIBWCIBWCIBWCIUBW) it was terrible, and I have no clue how I would have lived if I wouldn't have gotten her number.

Now, after 6 months of being together, she started randomly crying during one of our phone conversations. I thought she wanted to break up or something, but really, she had a secret to tell me. She told me she lied about her age, and she's really only 12 (Basically 13 because her birthday was a week away). I was 15 at the time, but in all honesty, I really didn't care. I did something slightly cruel, but just to make sure she didn't lie to me again, I acted like I did care, and I said I was going to start treating her like a little kid. But it didn't last long, I told her I was joking and whatnot.

Anyways. We became even closer. We're 2 years, 6 months apart. (Even though she's taller than me by a half of an inch -.-")

Now let me get to the point about how Stephen becomes a villain. About 8 or 9 months of being together, Angela was having a friendly conversation with Stephen on MSN while me and her were on the phone.
Later that night, Angela said she had something to tell me. She told me that Stephen said he wanted to break us up. I was desperate to see why my use-to-be best friend was trying to do this.

Where I live, my phone would have EDGE 80% of the time, and 3G 5% of the time. The rest of the 15% goes to just no service, or a couple of bars. I used MSN on my phone to talk to him, and he said that I stole Angela from him, so he's going to try and break us up.
I became furious with him. But, he did have his chance.
Back then, I showed little mercy to anyone who gave me crap, and I was pretty mean about it. I said this: "Even if you did manage to break us up, which is impossible, because some basement rat like you couldn't break a nutshell in half, it's not like she would go out with you again. You bored the heck out of her, that's one of the reasons why you two broke up, remember? Yeah, she told me everything when you two were together. How does that make you feel?"

He left, and we didn't talk until a year later. (I finally had Internet again, so it was WAY easier to talk to him) Angela finally got us to talk again, and we made up, apparently. After a week of us being friends again, Angela told me that he wouldn't stop calling her pet names, and acting like he was her boyfriend.

I told him nicely to stop, but he refused. I told him to find his own girlfriend, and if he needed help, I would try to. He then said "Why would I need help from you? So you would make me fall in love again, and then steal her from me?" I once again said "Look, dude. You had your chance, and now you're just being creepy." He left, and we never talked again.

We still talk everyday on Skype. Hours, and hours. Never running out things to talk about (Most of the time)
I love her even more, and she is really starting to get super beautiful. To me, she really is the most beautiful girl in the world.

Anyways. That about sums up everything interesting. (Of course, there are more private matters in my relationship, but those are to be kept secret) I hope you like my story! !

Note: I may have not gotten all of the dates right, it was just an estimate of how long everything could have been. If you want to add everything up, be my guest.

Friendship: 1/??/09
Anniversary: 8/15/09

Joshua & Angela, going on 3 years. <3

I've been a member for a few days, and I think it's time to make myself known!



I'm pretty active, so add me, and message me!

I enjoy mostly pokemon VBA games. I really don't have a favorite Gen, though.



I like everyone, and try to befriend anyone. If someone ever has a
problem with me, I try to settle anything they find wrong with me, and
just be their friend.



I rarely have a problem with anyone.



I love making new friends, and I can talk about anything :3



I'm not shy or an awkward person, and I hope I'm approachable! (: