Oh yeah. I have a lots of annoying siblings. I have two sisters that are technically triplets, and they annoy the mess out of me all the time. I have another sister who is not really that bad. Then, I have a little brother that is more annoying than the "twins" . 

My brother is not annoying in the way brothers usually are.

We never argue or anything, but I have come to realize how terrible of an attitude he has. I don't live with him, but whenever I have to spend time with him I realize how egotistical and proud he is. He cares only about looking smart, and cares very little about how other people feel.

I hope to move somewhere far away where I only have to see him rarely.

abbyzamaniP : I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters... they're all annoying. My brothers fight over petty stupid stuff and video games. It's constant and non-stop to the point where I want to lock those 2 in a sound proof room... 1 of my sisters is just a complete (fill in the blank). The way she acts she's going to get into a fight later in life and someone gonna set her straight the hard way. They are annoying, but they're family. Still love em

okay, i also understand your situations...actually, i have two brothers that drive me nutz..they're always telling on me..

My sister used to bug me by always having an annoying kiddie movie on at night while I was trying to sleep, extremely frustratng when t was every dang night

I get along with my two younger brothers. They're quiet and to themselves. I can get them to talk about the games they're playing and everything. (There's a 5 year gap and a 8 year gap between me and them. Before, I would fight with the brother that was 5 years younger than me, but that's changed.)

But, my little sister is different. She has learning disabilities and maturity issues that don't have a name, but they all stem back from when she fought a MS/meningitis-like disease that affects 1 in 100,000 people four years ago. Since then, she has been slow to develop.

 I have issues with it when my little brother is 11 months older than her and on the same page as me. But she doesn't understand the social cues when someone's getting upset with her and she eggs it on, which is my temper. I've got a temper. A really bad temper not everyone knows about, and it comes from dealing with her.

But there are times when she just pushes me over the edge when she screams at me for telling her to stop, to leave me alone. Of course, I scream back. Then I get in trouble for being older and knowing better, but I don't even get a chance to defend myself-- last night it got really bad, where mom had to separate us and get both of us to calm down, where I explained I cannot deal with it, no matter what I try. She gets I have no tolerance for being talked back to or screamed at, because shopping with her is a pain. She asks for everything she sees and doesn't understand unless it's been repeated to many times, that she can't have everything she wants. But I got things I needed for  my dorm room/school and that caused a problem. Then an even bigger problem when I asked her to get the door for me so I could take a chair inside, we wound up screaming at each other.

Afterwards, mom talked to us both. I found out she's afraid of getting sick again and why everything was "When I was eight years old..." for the past couple of weeks. She knows things changed when she was eight and she's afraid she'll get sick again (when she was sick, the gray matter around her brain was inflamed/gone. She couldn't stay awake, she couldn't move her neck. It took dad a full day to get her looked at by a doctor, which included going to Urgent Care, an adult hospital and a children's hospital until the adult hospital saw how bad it was. At the time, she was close to slipping into coma.). But now we know if she says her neck/back hurts, she needs to go to the hospital.

One of my biggest problems is when I come home with a new piercing or tattoo and she gives me this look, like she doesn't know who I am or wants to have contact with me. If she's around me, she'll suddenly have a desire to go out and modify her body like I have. But the look she gave me was... I don't even know, especially with the tattoo. It doesn't bother her now, seven months later. She's asked questions, why it's faded the way it has, so I guess she's accepted it. (But she still throws fits when 21 year old me drinks while in her presence. I've never been drunk, much less around her, but it's gotten better since I started).  

I've discussed this many times with my mom, in group therapy, but I can't handle being around her.  Everyone's suggested a way, but nothing works, and frankly, I'm disgusted with myself that I can't handle being around her. She might be better someday, or might not. But my family has a history of Alzheimer's and just being...slow. My great-grandmother was both, my mom is in her 40's and having problems with her memory, and my little sister is... This, so it's not in her favor. I'm terrified she won't be able to have a normal life by my own definition (attend college, have a good career, a great family, etc), but be stuck living with my parents for the rest of her life because she can't take care of herself.

cnsulli : Wow, you bring "annoying siblings" from a light-hearted matter to a serious one.

I must say, I don't think you should feel discussed with yourself about the way she acts. The fact you feel bad about it, recognize that they way she is is not her fault, and try to working it out by talking to your mom and going to group therapy all shows that you ARE a good sister. But everyone is different, and some people just can't put up with constant pressure of being around a sibling who is dependent. I can just imagine the feelings of frustration and guilt that come from trying to deal/care with someone like that all the time. For example, I consider myself very patient, but I don't know if I could handle having my parents in my home night and day if they had Alzheimer. Just because you've  had enough, doesn't mean you are a bad sister; it means that dealing with that type of pressure is not your strong point, and that isn't your fault.

As long as you keep trying the best you can, which it seems like you have, and be as patient as you can, you will always be a good sister. You might find it better when you move out and you are not around her all the time. You might find you can help out even more in caring for her when you don't live with your parent's, cause you'll have your OWN place to call your own.

It sounds like your whole family has had a hard time, but it seems like you are all very kind and caring.

My little sister is one of the annoying siblings I have. What makes her annoying is that she has a bad and short temper so she gets very mad at every little thing. Also what makes her annoying is she does this weird dance and says I'm jealous of it because I don't know how to do it, well the dance is horrible and I told her to never do it again and she goes and tells my Mom about what I said. Another thing that makes her annoying is the fact she tattles on every little thing.

I have a annoying step sister who likes to cock an attitude every time you talk to her and a step brother who thinks its fun to jump on the floor while you are in the basement so it sounds like stampeding rhinos and then you just want to stab yourself.

finally i found the right thread to post on  i have the most Annoying BROTHERS or how i call them my little bothers. if you had  to lvie through day 1 in my house youd probably want to kill yourself. they will knock on my bedroom door. over and over and over and over. if you dont answer them they will find another way in my room. the scary part is i live in a 2 story house and my rooms by the stairs. they will bug the crap out of you when your eating. when your taking a shower. and  even when im on vizzed since there bothering me right now!!! god i feel good about posting on this thread. 1 of them is 16 but acts like a freaking 9 year old and the other one is 14 and he is very immature. SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME lol

Angelofevil176 : punch them in the belly and show them whos boss lolz

I figured I would bring a serious light to the whole annoying siblings thing. She's annoying because she can't help it and I don't know how to handle it besides get upset when she pushes too many of my buttons.

Hopefully, the space helps. I don't live at home full time anymore. I'm just here for the summer and holidays, but this has been the longest I've been at my parents' since a year ago in the spring. It works out, as long as we're not exposed to each other for too long. But when I'm around too much and I take away mom's attention from her, it's when the fights start. Sibling rivalry rears it's ugly head and... Yeah.

Thank you, Light Knight for the encouragement. A low peak's been hit and it's wearing on all of us O_o