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09-30-11 12:24 AM
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Does anyone out there like more then one person?
If so, then why? And how do you deal with it? ...liking more then one person but not wanting to hurt someone else.
What would you do if you found out your boyfriend/girlfriend liked another person other then you?
Would you tell the multiple people you like that they aren't the only person?

Me personally I like more then one person, I like a few people actually. I've never actually met any of them so of course I would never date them but there is such thing as a crush right? ..I know it may sounds bad to some people but I see nothing wrong with it unless your taken, Still even then it's iffy. Though of course I would never cheat on someone I was with.
I wanna know how many other people on vizzed are faced with this issue.
I don't enjoy hurting people personally, it's just somehow I seemed to begin liking more then one person at a time so I'm curious as to how many others have the same issue. I don't mean it as if you would date more then one person, just simply have a crush on. 



Does anyone out there like more then one person?
If so, then why? And how do you deal with it? ...liking more then one person but not wanting to hurt someone else.
What would you do if you found out your boyfriend/girlfriend liked another person other then you?
Would you tell the multiple people you like that they aren't the only person?

Me personally I like more then one person, I like a few people actually. I've never actually met any of them so of course I would never date them but there is such thing as a crush right? ..I know it may sounds bad to some people but I see nothing wrong with it unless your taken, Still even then it's iffy. Though of course I would never cheat on someone I was with.
I wanna know how many other people on vizzed are faced with this issue.
I don't enjoy hurting people personally, it's just somehow I seemed to begin liking more then one person at a time so I'm curious as to how many others have the same issue. I don't mean it as if you would date more then one person, just simply have a crush on. 


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It's perfectly natural to like multiple people. If you want to look at it from a nature standpoint, we would need to be attracted to multiple people in order to reproduce, right?

So while I say it's natural, it's no excuse to go out and have multiple relationships at at time. You still have to respect the current relationship you are in and the boyfriend/girlfriend that you have.

Since you're still young and not committed to any one person through marriage, then it's fine to like someone, date them for a while, break up, and try it with another. That's how you know what you like and don't like in a person. It will make your future life much better when you actually do go through marriage.
It's perfectly natural to like multiple people. If you want to look at it from a nature standpoint, we would need to be attracted to multiple people in order to reproduce, right?

So while I say it's natural, it's no excuse to go out and have multiple relationships at at time. You still have to respect the current relationship you are in and the boyfriend/girlfriend that you have.

Since you're still young and not committed to any one person through marriage, then it's fine to like someone, date them for a while, break up, and try it with another. That's how you know what you like and don't like in a person. It will make your future life much better when you actually do go through marriage.

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Someone70 :

And I perfectly agree with you on all aspects.


For my own standpoint. I love my girlfriend. I do. She is amazing. It doesn't mean I'm not attracted to the personalities of others though. I can be attracted, because it's natural to be attracted.

As long as one respects the relationship and honors the other person, I think it's ok.

If I found out she liked other people, yes, I'd be jealous. Of course I would. Human nature. Doesn't mean it's wrong though.
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And I perfectly agree with you on all aspects.


For my own standpoint. I love my girlfriend. I do. She is amazing. It doesn't mean I'm not attracted to the personalities of others though. I can be attracted, because it's natural to be attracted.

As long as one respects the relationship and honors the other person, I think it's ok.

If I found out she liked other people, yes, I'd be jealous. Of course I would. Human nature. Doesn't mean it's wrong though.

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Liking more then one person leads to:

STD's
Cheating
Multiple babies with multiple daddies
Less Money & Time
Abortions
Broken Hearts
Fights
Drama

Liking more then one person (in porn format) leads to:

No STDS
No Cheating
No babies
More Money & More Time
No Abortions
No broken hearts
No Fights
No Drama

Maybe people should start using porn to satisfy their urges cause that is all they are. The reason why you like more then one is because one is not good enough. I suggest not getting married or having children if that is the case cause you can destroy a lot of lives that way.
Liking more then one person leads to:

STD's
Cheating
Multiple babies with multiple daddies
Less Money & Time
Abortions
Broken Hearts
Fights
Drama

Liking more then one person (in porn format) leads to:

No STDS
No Cheating
No babies
More Money & More Time
No Abortions
No broken hearts
No Fights
No Drama

Maybe people should start using porn to satisfy their urges cause that is all they are. The reason why you like more then one is because one is not good enough. I suggest not getting married or having children if that is the case cause you can destroy a lot of lives that way.

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Lol, I was asking for advice. Just making something for people to comment on. Though I do agree with someone and leggy. 

As for what jigsaw said: I do plan on getting married one day and having children. ...I would gladly drop all my "crushes" for the right person. I not once said anything about sexual so STD's, and babies would not happen. I don't believe in abortions so that covers that. I would never cheat, I have all the time in the world. Breaking hearts is part of life, as is fights and drama. So everything there is covered. And to me one person is plenty it's why I my last relationship was almost 2 years.  .....This is of course if you were pointing your words towards me.



Lol, I was asking for advice. Just making something for people to comment on. Though I do agree with someone and leggy. 

As for what jigsaw said: I do plan on getting married one day and having children. ...I would gladly drop all my "crushes" for the right person. I not once said anything about sexual so STD's, and babies would not happen. I don't believe in abortions so that covers that. I would never cheat, I have all the time in the world. Breaking hearts is part of life, as is fights and drama. So everything there is covered. And to me one person is plenty it's why I my last relationship was almost 2 years.  .....This is of course if you were pointing your words towards me.

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beautiful nightmare : I think it's very possible to like/love more than 1 person at a time but I think it's selfish to toy with both of those people's feelings if it gets to be serious with one or the other. Pick one, or pick neither.
beautiful nightmare : I think it's very possible to like/love more than 1 person at a time but I think it's selfish to toy with both of those people's feelings if it gets to be serious with one or the other. Pick one, or pick neither.

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I agree with you geeogree, as i said before. I didn't create this thread for advice, I just created it for something to talk about plus i thought it would be interesting to see peoples thoughts on this manner. To even toy with one person's emotions is selfish, and something a lot of people do but I try my best to avoid.



I agree with you geeogree, as i said before. I didn't create this thread for advice, I just created it for something to talk about plus i thought it would be interesting to see peoples thoughts on this manner. To even toy with one person's emotions is selfish, and something a lot of people do but I try my best to avoid.

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I've been in a situation a few times where I had feelings for more than one guy. I've liked two guys at once, I've even loved two guys at once. I've loved one and had a crush on another... it's all natural.

Acting on it, as has been said, is generally a bad idea unless all involved support concepts of open relationships or just casual dating. But, just because you are in a committed relationship doesn't mean you cannot look.
I've been in a situation a few times where I had feelings for more than one guy. I've liked two guys at once, I've even loved two guys at once. I've loved one and had a crush on another... it's all natural.

Acting on it, as has been said, is generally a bad idea unless all involved support concepts of open relationships or just casual dating. But, just because you are in a committed relationship doesn't mean you cannot look.

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I agree Elara ^.^



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Yea.....lots of people I know do.

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I've experienced this, and I'm actually suffering from it currently.

It's just complicated, considering I like three boys right now. One is cute, but slightly not in my taste, but he's still someone I'd date. The second one is someone I'd totally date right away, but he's not giving any hints that he liked me or so. If anything, we would act like close friends, and that's pretty much it. The third one is someone online, and I'm hesitant for several reasons. That's all I'll say about the third matter now. =P

Anyway, that's just my 2 cents situation along with this thread, and all I'm going to suggest is that it's natural for you to like multiple people at once, but seriously, this is no reason to cheat or get in multiple relationships or as such. If anything, try to choose.

I've experienced this, and I'm actually suffering from it currently.

It's just complicated, considering I like three boys right now. One is cute, but slightly not in my taste, but he's still someone I'd date. The second one is someone I'd totally date right away, but he's not giving any hints that he liked me or so. If anything, we would act like close friends, and that's pretty much it. The third one is someone online, and I'm hesitant for several reasons. That's all I'll say about the third matter now. =P

Anyway, that's just my 2 cents situation along with this thread, and all I'm going to suggest is that it's natural for you to like multiple people at once, but seriously, this is no reason to cheat or get in multiple relationships or as such. If anything, try to choose.

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Not an issue really. You just have feelings for more than one person and that is totally fine. I have this all the time it is just how you act on these feelings that can really tell what the person is.
Not an issue really. You just have feelings for more than one person and that is totally fine. I have this all the time it is just how you act on these feelings that can really tell what the person is.

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Hey raven!!!!,

I think nearly all the people of the world have had the situation when they have "liked" more than one person at a time, and there is usually something that changes this. e.g finding more about the person you "like" and finding out they are not your type, or basic stuff like they become unavailable.

From my perspective, i don't find that many people attractive personality wise, maybe because my personality is not precisely an easy one to find attractive, I mean most people find me extremley negative which is not the case.

Anyways back to the point, Fancying people is just natural, It's when this "crush" becomes so powerful that it makes you do stupid things to try and get there attention. Just take your time to see who you like if it doesn't become more clear. then just jump in the deep end and ask one of them out of just lightly flirt with them to find out there opinion of you

P.S i'm sorry if this makes no sense just tell me and ill try to re word it.


Hey raven!!!!,

I think nearly all the people of the world have had the situation when they have "liked" more than one person at a time, and there is usually something that changes this. e.g finding more about the person you "like" and finding out they are not your type, or basic stuff like they become unavailable.

From my perspective, i don't find that many people attractive personality wise, maybe because my personality is not precisely an easy one to find attractive, I mean most people find me extremley negative which is not the case.

Anyways back to the point, Fancying people is just natural, It's when this "crush" becomes so powerful that it makes you do stupid things to try and get there attention. Just take your time to see who you like if it doesn't become more clear. then just jump in the deep end and ask one of them out of just lightly flirt with them to find out there opinion of you

P.S i'm sorry if this makes no sense just tell me and ill try to re word it.




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