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05-17-16 09:40 PM
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Hello everybody I just want to thank you for taking your time out of your day to read this. Okay so about in the 8th grade I met this girl lets call her Becky. At first I liked her then it came to mind why like a girl that I don't even know? So I decided to talk to her cause we were assigned in a group. Few months past we are acquaintances. I didn't like her like that any more I tell her some very dark jokes she starts laughing then she tells very dark jokes we both started laughing and I told her whatever you do don't take me seriously all the time . Then our teacher assigned new seating charts I was assigned to a group of guys and Becky sat a table behind me. This 1 kid who sits at my table john starts to flirt with out loud in front of the class he said he Wanted to buy her affection me personally I thought he was gonna get her . John flirted a little bit more then stopped Becky said "I have a boyfriend" that didn't bother me 1 bit a few months later we had a project. Of course me being simple I decided to use Lego's sometimes Becky would come to my table and play with my Lego's that sounds kinda dirty. Anyway it was the final 1 week before school end we were watching a movie I decided to sit next to beck not close to her only like a chair or 2 away and talked to my other friend. And here is the part where I think I messed up after the movie ended and the teacher turn on the lights I saw Becky with gum in her mouth I asked beck hey do you have any more gum she said no then I said well you have gum in your mouth can I have that piece she laughed and said no but that was a good joke. Then I said no I am not joking I want the gum in your mouth her face expression changed like she seen a ghost she said "um are you serious" then I said yes shortly after I said no Becky I was just kidding why would I want the gum in your mouth.Her facial expression is still blank. I said " Becky I was just kidding really like no joke this time forget everything I said I am just kidding" she slowly walked away .The next day in 1st period I saw Becky she was actually happy but too happy to be normal we started talking and we had a good time but something felt off.The next day she walked straight towards me she asked hey ill give you a pack off gum tomorrow just tell me where you will be. I said the bleachers she said okay ill meet you there.Tell me why the next day I see her with her boyfriend and a guy friend and he is pissed me personally I didn't even notice in till later I was waving at her she waved back her boyfriend was even more angry it was like he was gonna burst out into the hulk and the friend kept a safe distance she approached me the boyfriend couldn't even look me in the eye. She said hi I said hi back she said "here is your gum I mean you did try to steal out my mouth right"? With a smile I said no I didn't try to steal it I told you I was joking "her boy friend look the other way" " well any ways here" and all 3 of them walked off.I'm in high school now and I walk past Becky in the hallway she walks fast by me and walks with her boyfriend the other day her she started to twiddle her fingers. In till her boyfriend came by. Today I saw she look at me with wide eyes. Did I do something wrong? P.S when we would joke around we would joke around a lot mostly about dark stuff like the deep web so I don't know if I mad her feel disgusted because she would joke about me in some very dark ways so and I all so was in a group work with her boy friend he was really nice to me and I was nice to him and I made him laugh P.S.S you are a trooper for reading this I tried to make this short but would saw what happened by the way can you point out some spelling errors? And also can you summarize the story in the comments please so others can now what I was typing thanks very much. and also when we used to be acquaintances i saw her in the hallway with her boyfriend to say hi and she pushed me out of the way before this. P.S.S.S after that day we never talked to each other if anything she tries to avoid eye contact i don't have any classes with her. but next year i am going to be to buy a tutor to be home schooled Okay so about in the 8th grade I met this girl lets call her Becky. At first I liked her then it came to mind why like a girl that I don't even know? So I decided to talk to her cause we were assigned in a group. Few months past we are acquaintances. I didn't like her like that any more I tell her some very dark jokes she starts laughing then she tells very dark jokes we both started laughing and I told her whatever you do don't take me seriously all the time . Then our teacher assigned new seating charts I was assigned to a group of guys and Becky sat a table behind me. This 1 kid who sits at my table john starts to flirt with out loud in front of the class he said he Wanted to buy her affection me personally I thought he was gonna get her . John flirted a little bit more then stopped Becky said "I have a boyfriend" that didn't bother me 1 bit a few months later we had a project. Of course me being simple I decided to use Lego's sometimes Becky would come to my table and play with my Lego's that sounds kinda dirty. Anyway it was the final 1 week before school end we were watching a movie I decided to sit next to beck not close to her only like a chair or 2 away and talked to my other friend. And here is the part where I think I messed up after the movie ended and the teacher turn on the lights I saw Becky with gum in her mouth I asked beck hey do you have any more gum she said no then I said well you have gum in your mouth can I have that piece she laughed and said no but that was a good joke. Then I said no I am not joking I want the gum in your mouth her face expression changed like she seen a ghost she said "um are you serious" then I said yes shortly after I said no Becky I was just kidding why would I want the gum in your mouth.Her facial expression is still blank. I said " Becky I was just kidding really like no joke this time forget everything I said I am just kidding" she slowly walked away .The next day in 1st period I saw Becky she was actually happy but too happy to be normal we started talking and we had a good time but something felt off.The next day she walked straight towards me she asked hey ill give you a pack off gum tomorrow just tell me where you will be. I said the bleachers she said okay ill meet you there.Tell me why the next day I see her with her boyfriend and a guy friend and he is pissed me personally I didn't even notice in till later I was waving at her she waved back her boyfriend was even more angry it was like he was gonna burst out into the hulk and the friend kept a safe distance she approached me the boyfriend couldn't even look me in the eye. She said hi I said hi back she said "here is your gum I mean you did try to steal out my mouth right"? With a smile I said no I didn't try to steal it I told you I was joking "her boy friend look the other way" " well any ways here" and all 3 of them walked off.I'm in high school now and I walk past Becky in the hallway she walks fast by me and walks with her boyfriend the other day her she started to twiddle her fingers. In till her boyfriend came by. Today I saw she look at me with wide eyes. Did I do something wrong? P.S when we would joke around we would joke around a lot mostly about dark stuff like the deep web so I don't know if I mad her feel disgusted because she would joke about me in some very dark ways so and I all so was in a group work with her boy friend he was really nice to me and I was nice to him and I made him laugh P.S.S you are a trooper for reading this I tried to make this short but would saw what happened by the way can you point out some spelling errors? And also can you summarize the story in the comments please so others can now what I was typing thanks very much. and also when we used to be acquaintances i saw her in the hallway with her boyfriend to say hi and she pushed me out of the way before this. P.S.S.S after that day we never talked to each other if anything she tries to avoid eye contact i don't have any classes with her. but next year i am going to be to buy a tutor to be home schooled |
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(edited by fangsonic on 05-18-16 06:31 AM)
05-17-16 11:02 PM
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Its certainly odd to say what you did in response... Do you still talk to her? Does she act differently if her BF isn't around? Do you still talk to her? Does she act differently if her BF isn't around? |
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05-17-16 11:50 PM
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I'd say just ask her directly what's up. Don't be pushy or aggressive in any way (I'm not saying you would), but at the same time be clear about what you're asking. I mean what's the worst that could come from asking? She doesn't say anything and you're exactly where you started, or you at least get an answer one way or the other. Regardless of how the conversation turns out, it never hurts to say something along the lines of "I'm sorry if what I did / said bothered you in any way. I didn't mean to upset you and I hope you won't hold it against me." I'm being as general as possible here since from an outside perspective it's hard to really see the big picture of what's going on between the two of you. I'm not great with advice by any means, but I hope this at least helps to some extent. I mean what's the worst that could come from asking? She doesn't say anything and you're exactly where you started, or you at least get an answer one way or the other. Regardless of how the conversation turns out, it never hurts to say something along the lines of "I'm sorry if what I did / said bothered you in any way. I didn't mean to upset you and I hope you won't hold it against me." I'm being as general as possible here since from an outside perspective it's hard to really see the big picture of what's going on between the two of you. I'm not great with advice by any means, but I hope this at least helps to some extent. |
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05-18-16 06:16 AM
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Vanelan : No I don't talk to her anymore I only glance at her it the hallway like she usually walks normal and she doesn't run away in any sort of fashion. The most she did was twitted her fingers in nervousness. She acts normal around her boy friend I mean I do walk in her path every day since we have classes right next door to each other. One time I went in her class she ignored me. I kinda feel really bad for some reason yet I feel like I shouldn't feel bad since I really didn't doing anything major. I mean there are a lot of people who did worst things than I did. By the way thanks for replying if helps out. |
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(edited by fangsonic on 05-18-16 06:17 AM)
05-18-16 06:44 AM
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She must be scared of you. Maybe you need to talk to her boyfriend, and tell him it was all just a big misunderstanding. |
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05-18-16 07:54 AM
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I'm going to disagree with Ultrajeff. I don't think it's necessary to her involve her boyfriend yet - from what I understand highschool boys are very ego-driven and that could be disastrous. Unless you two are friends, the guy could misinterpret your motives. I agree with cox - tell her you feel like she's ignoring you, but if she blows you off again, let it go. This could be totally unrelated to what you said, and her boyfriend may have just become jealous of your friendship. If that's the case, nothing you say will bring things back to the way it was. What you said was weird, but I don't see it making her go as far as to flat out ignore you. I agree with cox - tell her you feel like she's ignoring you, but if she blows you off again, let it go. This could be totally unrelated to what you said, and her boyfriend may have just become jealous of your friendship. If that's the case, nothing you say will bring things back to the way it was. What you said was weird, but I don't see it making her go as far as to flat out ignore you. |
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05-18-16 11:53 AM
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Yea. I wouldn't involve the boyfriend if you don't know him. You don't need to get him jealous or angry because of a comment to your friend. I would also agree with Cox and just try and talk to her. Something as simple as, "Hi, how have you been?" Might be enough to gauge where you stand. You don't need to get him jealous or angry because of a comment to your friend. I would also agree with Cox and just try and talk to her. Something as simple as, "Hi, how have you been?" Might be enough to gauge where you stand. |
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