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02-16-16 08:18 AM
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Recently I had somebody who added me to their friends list, but I have never seen nor heard from this user before, so I didn't add him back. I felt kinda bad about it, though. But I just don't feel right adding people that I never even interacted with before. Maybe if it was someone I had acquaintance with at the very least like EXPalen or zanderlex then yes. Perhaps I would. How do you rest of you feel about this? Would you add them anyway?
Recently I had somebody who added me to their friends list, but I have never seen nor heard from this user before, so I didn't add him back. I felt kinda bad about it, though. But I just don't feel right adding people that I never even interacted with before. Maybe if it was someone I had acquaintance with at the very least like EXPalen or zanderlex then yes. Perhaps I would. How do you rest of you feel about this? Would you add them anyway?
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I always do but that's more because of my position on the site than actually knowing or being friends with everyone on my friends list. If people want to add me then I'll add them back and they can chat with me or ask me questions or whatever.

I don't expect everyone to do that though. I honestly wouldn't if I weren't staff.
I always do but that's more because of my position on the site than actually knowing or being friends with everyone on my friends list. If people want to add me then I'll add them back and they can chat with me or ask me questions or whatever.

I don't expect everyone to do that though. I honestly wouldn't if I weren't staff.
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02-16-16 10:19 AM
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I used to add anyone who added me in the past, but now I'm restricting it to people who I actually interact with or I know about. I honestly don't care that much for the friend list, I have my own list of acquaintances and I know I'm in the list of other various users as well.

And since I was mentioned in this thread, I should send you a friend request to test your opinion first hand
I used to add anyone who added me in the past, but now I'm restricting it to people who I actually interact with or I know about. I honestly don't care that much for the friend list, I have my own list of acquaintances and I know I'm in the list of other various users as well.

And since I was mentioned in this thread, I should send you a friend request to test your opinion first hand
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I don't add anyone who adds me anymore unless I already really know them because most of the time the people who add me don't even know me and only add me for the heck of it because they see me everywhere so they think it will be cool. It's not like they try to talk to me, so if I added then, we still wouldn't interact, so usually I only add people that I already knew for a while or that I meet in chat. Plus I un-add people a lot if they are inactive or we grow apart.
I don't add anyone who adds me anymore unless I already really know them because most of the time the people who add me don't even know me and only add me for the heck of it because they see me everywhere so they think it will be cool. It's not like they try to talk to me, so if I added then, we still wouldn't interact, so usually I only add people that I already knew for a while or that I meet in chat. Plus I un-add people a lot if they are inactive or we grow apart.
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Yup, for some reason it feels kinda rude to not add them back.
Yup, for some reason it feels kinda rude to not add them back.
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Final Weapon :   I don't go looking for friends, but if someone wants to be friends here, even if they never talk to me again, I will add them.  I would consider that rude, especially from the more well known staff here.  I mean no disrespect at all, but I don't see the point in not adding friends if they ask for it.  There should be no harm done in doing so, and possibly even getting more of their friends to join as well
Final Weapon :   I don't go looking for friends, but if someone wants to be friends here, even if they never talk to me again, I will add them.  I would consider that rude, especially from the more well known staff here.  I mean no disrespect at all, but I don't see the point in not adding friends if they ask for it.  There should be no harm done in doing so, and possibly even getting more of their friends to join as well
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This usually never happened in my case, but if it did, I would probably end up adding them back anyway. Not so much for the fact that it would feel rude for me, but it'd be really irking to know that someone had added me and it wasn't mutual, even if we don't know each other that well. Guess I'd just do it to satisfy myself. Plus, why not? If they really want to add me, there's no point in not adding them back.
This usually never happened in my case, but if it did, I would probably end up adding them back anyway. Not so much for the fact that it would feel rude for me, but it'd be really irking to know that someone had added me and it wasn't mutual, even if we don't know each other that well. Guess I'd just do it to satisfy myself. Plus, why not? If they really want to add me, there's no point in not adding them back.
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If they've never contacted me or the contact wasn't very great, I don't add them. It doesn't take much effort to post a reply on my wall, send me a pm, or catch me in the chat room. If they can't do that, why bother adding them back? I'm not a collector of names, just Pokémon.

If they've never contacted me or the contact wasn't very great, I don't add them. It doesn't take much effort to post a reply on my wall, send me a pm, or catch me in the chat room. If they can't do that, why bother adding them back? I'm not a collector of names, just Pokémon.

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I wouldn't add them back. It's called a Friend's List for a reason.
I wouldn't add them back. It's called a Friend's List for a reason.
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Having only gotten one friend request on Vizzed I can't answer about here but on like steam or Elder Scrolls online or origin or something like that I never say yes because I don't know them and if they start saying weird things to me like "hey you want to voice chat with me" your something like that really creeps me out but here on Vizzed.... I might say yes.... I can't say for certain but because the rules are so well in forced and if some one started acting weird like that I can just report them and things well be done I think I might not worry so much.
Having only gotten one friend request on Vizzed I can't answer about here but on like steam or Elder Scrolls online or origin or something like that I never say yes because I don't know them and if they start saying weird things to me like "hey you want to voice chat with me" your something like that really creeps me out but here on Vizzed.... I might say yes.... I can't say for certain but because the rules are so well in forced and if some one started acting weird like that I can just report them and things well be done I think I might not worry so much.
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I don't always add people back. Mainly because people that I don't know add me because I'm staff. But If I know you and I think you are nice/cool/etc I'll add ya back. I don't really worry about my FL that much to be honest.
I don't always add people back. Mainly because people that I don't know add me because I'm staff. But If I know you and I think you are nice/cool/etc I'll add ya back. I don't really worry about my FL that much to be honest.
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Most of the users who are on my friends list were added by me before they added me to theirs. When someone actually does add me to their friends list first, I sometimes go ahead and add them to my list, though there are a few users who I didn't bother to add back mainly because I'd never seen or talked to them before.
Most of the users who are on my friends list were added by me before they added me to theirs. When someone actually does add me to their friends list first, I sometimes go ahead and add them to my list, though there are a few users who I didn't bother to add back mainly because I'd never seen or talked to them before.
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Final Weapon : whenever someone sends me a friend,s request I always add them to me it would be rude not to even if I don,t know them it,s a good way to get to meet new friends
Final Weapon : whenever someone sends me a friend,s request I always add them to me it would be rude not to even if I don,t know them it,s a good way to get to meet new friends
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I used to do that too when I started being on Vizzed. Just, add a complete stranger I never talked to before and add that name to the wall. Sometime later, I realized how pointless it was to have these people in the list when I literally never spoke to any of them. Dead serious.

In fact, I think that still remains the same with the people I got on the list now. I havent checked it in a while.
I used to do that too when I started being on Vizzed. Just, add a complete stranger I never talked to before and add that name to the wall. Sometime later, I realized how pointless it was to have these people in the list when I literally never spoke to any of them. Dead serious.

In fact, I think that still remains the same with the people I got on the list now. I havent checked it in a while.
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I don't add people back unless I really know them, but it isn't hard to get to know me. Instead of adding me randomly, try talking to me instead :p
I don't add people back unless I really know them, but it isn't hard to get to know me. Instead of adding me randomly, try talking to me instead :p
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I always do..

But if they go inactive, they're gone from my friends list.

And so far the majority of the people I've gotten along with have either gone inactive, or completely given up on this site.

I always do..

But if they go inactive, they're gone from my friends list.

And so far the majority of the people I've gotten along with have either gone inactive, or completely given up on this site.

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I do most of the times, unless someone adds me the first day they meet me. If they do that, I wait a few more days until I get to know the person well. I take them down if they become inactive for an extended period of time. I recently just modified my friends list, so I got rid of a lot of my "friends" as a lot of them hadn't been online in a long time. However, if they are a close friend, I will never take them down so I will know if they come back or not. 
I do most of the times, unless someone adds me the first day they meet me. If they do that, I wait a few more days until I get to know the person well. I take them down if they become inactive for an extended period of time. I recently just modified my friends list, so I got rid of a lot of my "friends" as a lot of them hadn't been online in a long time. However, if they are a close friend, I will never take them down so I will know if they come back or not. 
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I typically do add someone that adds me, but my list is getting a bit long and it might be time to get rid of some people from it soon.
I typically do add someone that adds me, but my list is getting a bit long and it might be time to get rid of some people from it soon.
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