I already wanted that for a while, but couldn't find any possibilities for that...

I mean, i'm only 15 years old, almost 16, and i don't seem to find the right person in real life... 
And IF i find somebody, she's (already) taken away by someone else...

So... If some of you girls reply to this post, maybe a yes? Maybe a no? I'm not forcing you to do this.
If some of you boys reply, maybe some advice for if this post fails?

Keep in mind that Vizzed is not a dating site. I highly doubt anyone here is just going to say yes to a stranger who they have never heard of before. 90% of the userbase is only here to play games in the RGR. Not to pop your bubble but it's extremely unlikely that this will work out.

Furret : Yes.

But yeah, I was single until like... I dunno, 15? Had a couple girlfriends, never worked out with either, real shame too. I wonder how one of them has been lately, I'm sure she's stressed.

MrBeingcool1 : The post will fail because you're talking about a relationship on a website that is primarily dedicated to Pokemon and video games.  You're talking to audience that is 95% male, if not more.  So you're not going to find anyone, especially since you're attempting to build any kind of friendship prior to saying you want a real relationship.

I'm not going to tell you what to do because I don't know your situation.  But I can tell what I did.

I learned to talk to girls in real life by practicing.  I would actually try to talk to girls when I was out and when I went to social events and when I was at the mall or at school.  I talked to everyone I could, whether I thought I would like them or not and whether I worried they would reject me or not.

I was rejected a ton of times and that's fine.  I dated a girl when I was 15, another when I was 16, and then it was easy and I was off to the races.

I talked to girls in real life and it made everything easier.  That scary, racing of the heart, the sweating, the fear, it goes away once you say hello to a few girls and realize they're nothing special.  Well, they're special but they're no better than anyone else.

I've noticed that at times, I feel like having a relationship with a girl as well. Most guys want to once they're in high school. But like Furret said, it isn't weird not to already be in a relationship by age 15. I'm 15 too and I've never been in one.

I'm friends with many girls at my school and it's really nice being just friends with them. I recommend becoming friends with a few girls first (starting out with one for a while) to see how that goes. 2 years ago at school I met my first friend-that-happens-to-be-a-girl and now she's one of my closest friends. After a while of being friends with a few girls (with a variety of personalities), you should feel a lot more prepared and confident about a future relationship.

Furret : uses Dream Crusher and counters with Consoling
(just couldn't pass up the opportunity, forgive me please.)

MrBeingcool1 :

Hey bro, I feel ya. I had those... uh... Love pains(?), can't put a name on something like, since I was nine --and still do when my wife's gone for too long.

Like the wise folks before said, this is something you got to wait on and it always starts as a normal everyday friendship and slaps you in the face when you least expect it and in the most unlikely of places.

I went on to about 22 before even dating. I asked a few times got shot down; got asked a few time shot those down, because I wanted a lady who "got me". Not Ms. Perfect but just someone who I could jibe with for life. It was actually on an MMO that I was a player on since 2007, when it struck me. Funny thing was, it started right after I got on after 1.5 year hiatus, and because I decided to run a random dungeon that I really wasn't up to since I had other things I wanted/needed to take care of and it would take 2 hours to run. I decided though to run it anyway since I didn't like leaving newbies hanging alone. During that run I came across a healer and liked her "spunk" and added her to my friendslist without asking her (something I don't usually do but I had to go). Later, I saw that same healer asking for help on getting to a really hard place in the game and I decided that was a good time to start a new friendship (and let me tell you... my toon died many times that day... but she survived lol). 

We played for about a year together and decided to finally meet up in real life (at that time we were on opposite sides of the country). We had such a good time that we meet up a few more times and before we realized what was happening we were exchanging rings(or really I just gave her one, I couldn't afford mine) and she started traveling with me.


So what am I getting at? Be Patient!

The key to it is focus on what you believe is the most important things in life (your virtues) and a lady who agrees with you on 80-90% of those will come along and hit it off without you 2 knowing it. Always keep in mind what this wise old man from the 1980s always said, and you'll be as rich as gold in love one of these days and with no divorces (hopefully).

Good Luck to you!

edit: fixed the link to the picture, should work now.

edit 2: You know a site is good when the majority of your question thread is answered by staff!

pfft who are you kidding, there's no grills on the interwebz

yoshirulez! : I'm a grill, even though my name (George Foreman) makes me out to be a guy. But I are grill.

Yo like no not here.
Also you're 15, don't worry about it man. Seriously, don't worry about it. Worry about school, what you want to do. Relationships can and will come later. But at 15 you're barely like maturing. No need for that. The fact that you did something like this just proves you're not ready.

Some tips when you are ready.
- Smell good. Really. Hygiene goes a long way.
- Don't worry about the things you can't change, focus on what you can.
- Nice guys don't finish last. Boring guys, however, do. Don't be boring.
- Social cues. Body language. Learn them.
- Be social.
- Take a chance. Don't think "She's out of my league". Even if she is, go on and ask her. You might be surprised.
- Don't become desperate for one. Just don't.
- Don't try to force one. If she doesn't like you, or you don't like her, don't have a relationship for the sake of being in one.
- Just be yourself. Cliche advice, but it really works. In the long run, being yourself and just being nice, funny, and not boring works out. Don't just be yourself. Be the most attractive version of yourself you can be.

(I mean I don't have nor have never had a girlfriend/boyfriend, and I'm also 16, so you might want to take that into account when seeing my advice)

MrBeingcool1 : I turn 17 next month, and I'm at a point in life where one side of me wants a girlfriend and the other side knows that I should be focusing on hobbies and school as those are the real priorities. Most relationships at our age don't work out, but if you meet the right person by all means go for it. Just know that you shouldn't push these things, as at our age dating is really more of a learning experience than a goal for the future. 

Unless you find love at first sight (what happened to me almost 10 years ago), you will need to wait for the "right circumstance." And by that I mean don't explicitly look for love everywhere. You're only 16, after all

If ever you're old enough (or when you become old enough) avoid cruising bars. It's like a giant ad, i.e. full of deception

Find out where there could be a possibility to find locally people, including girls, who would share the same interests as you, Participate. Try, fail and try and fail again. You will get there,I promise. I am sure there is a girl out there who thinks somewhere why she cant find a kid like you either. She will if you get yourself out there!

Pickuplines and all that is bull. You want a girl that is worth your while and wants to stick with you, don't you? Personal hygiene was mentioned. Take care of that and just go and talk to a girl. If she seems fine boring to you, move along no matter how good she looks. Or ugly. Find a girl you don't have to pretend to be somebody you are not. If you feel shy, she gets it, If there is that joke you like you thought nobody would, she might. If there was that thing you were always were teased for, there is a girl that actually thinks it cute and will love you for it.

But all it needs is you to get out there, man.