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12-12-14 08:39 PM
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Woman are an arrow not a target. A flower not a fox. Sex is the last thing I want. That's not what love is. Love is a simple four letter word yet, so complex. Or at least it appears that way. The one who makes it complex is you. Love is not something that can be understood. So stop trying to understand it. It's something you can fell without touching. It's about being with the one you love. If your ex girlfriend had a baby, and you left her because she's fat. Your a jerk.. You don't know what love it. It's about being there for her no matter what happens. Ask yourself, did you choose her because of her looks, or for who she is? The only thing you have to do is. 1 be honest 2 and kind THE END! That's it. If your ex girlfriend had a baby, and you left her because she's fat. Your a jerk.. You don't know what love it. It's about being there for her no matter what happens. Ask yourself, did you choose her because of her looks, or for who she is? The only thing you have to do is. 1 be honest 2 and kind THE END! That's it. |
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12-13-14 08:45 PM
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chryoyo : I WANNA KNOW WHAT LOVE IIIIIIIS *inhale* I WANT YOU TO SHOOOOW MEEE Ahem. I'm glad to see you're figuring things out! If you ever need help or have questions when it comes to emotional stuff or romantic stuff or other assorted mushy things, feel free to come to me. I WANNA KNOW WHAT LOVE IIIIIIIS *inhale* I WANT YOU TO SHOOOOW MEEE Ahem. I'm glad to see you're figuring things out! If you ever need help or have questions when it comes to emotional stuff or romantic stuff or other assorted mushy things, feel free to come to me. |
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12-13-14 11:23 PM
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chryoyo : Love is a really complicated thing, but it looks like you've gotten it. That feeling of wanting to just be near someone is probably the best thing in the world. And it has no logical explanation for it whatsoever. The only thing I would wish to do is encourage you to not take it too far and remember that love is part choices just as much. There are times when people think they don't love someone. They're wrong. Love based completely on emotion doesn't last. Love based on factuality, wise planning, and good companionship last a lifetime. chryoyo : Love is a really complicated thing, but it looks like you've gotten it. That feeling of wanting to just be near someone is probably the best thing in the world. And it has no logical explanation for it whatsoever. The only thing I would wish to do is encourage you to not take it too far and remember that love is part choices just as much. There are times when people think they don't love someone. They're wrong. Love based completely on emotion doesn't last. Love based on factuality, wise planning, and good companionship last a lifetime. |
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12-14-14 09:48 AM
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chryoyo : I've seen your browser history. Sex is not the last thing you want. Don't lie. Sex is a natural extension of physical attraction that goes with love. It's okay. Sex isn't bad or wrong or evil. People put a lot of stress into how horrible it is. And if someone dumps someone else for getting fat, good for both of them. It's better to be out of a relationship where the other person does nothing for you than stay in it because you *should* and no one has any fun. I applaud the guy or girl who says, "You're not attractive to me anymore. I'm out." That's just a good decision. And love is understandable. It's best if you can define it, explain it, and still enjoy the emotions and experiences that come with it. If you can define your love to yourself and others, you're in a great spot. Xenthou : Nice read. That was good. Sex is a natural extension of physical attraction that goes with love. It's okay. Sex isn't bad or wrong or evil. People put a lot of stress into how horrible it is. And if someone dumps someone else for getting fat, good for both of them. It's better to be out of a relationship where the other person does nothing for you than stay in it because you *should* and no one has any fun. I applaud the guy or girl who says, "You're not attractive to me anymore. I'm out." That's just a good decision. And love is understandable. It's best if you can define it, explain it, and still enjoy the emotions and experiences that come with it. If you can define your love to yourself and others, you're in a great spot. Xenthou : Nice read. That was good. |
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12-14-14 10:51 AM
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warmaker : It does have a bad wrap, but rightly so. I mean, God help us, people are so, STUPID with in nowadays. 
I'm glad to find one other person who doesn't want that. At least yet anyways. I know that it will be a thing if I get married someday, and attractiveness is an important part of picking one's mate, (if you can't enjoy sex later in a marriage, then that will hurt the marital bonds a lot). But I'm glad to see someone who's not lustful trying to get in a relationship. warmaker : It does have a bad wrap, but rightly so. I mean, God help us, people are so, STUPID with in nowadays.
I'm glad to find one other person who doesn't want that. At least yet anyways. I know that it will be a thing if I get married someday, and attractiveness is an important part of picking one's mate, (if you can't enjoy sex later in a marriage, then that will hurt the marital bonds a lot). But I'm glad to see someone who's not lustful trying to get in a relationship. |
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12-14-14 11:20 AM
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warmaker : First off, I didn't lie. That's my brother. We live in the same house. Use same computer.  also I agree there's nothings wrong with sex. But the way I look at it.
You like a cool toy. You see a pretty girl. So you destory it. You had sex. Then you left it there to rot. You left her with a child. That she has to raise on her own. Wouldnt it be better if you went for personality than beauty. That way this never happens. also I agree there's nothings wrong with sex. But the way I look at it.
You like a cool toy. You see a pretty girl. So you destory it. You had sex. Then you left it there to rot. You left her with a child. That she has to raise on her own. Wouldnt it be better if you went for personality than beauty. That way this never happens. |
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chryoyo : Yeah. That's the way I look at it. While attractiveness is one part that even makes up a person, it is just one part. Most of us wouldn't mess with a girl who wasn't in our range in the first place, so if you've picked one who's reasonably attractive for you, then you can leave sex as an afterthough for much later. chryoyo : Yeah. That's the way I look at it. While attractiveness is one part that even makes up a person, it is just one part. Most of us wouldn't mess with a girl who wasn't in our range in the first place, so if you've picked one who's reasonably attractive for you, then you can leave sex as an afterthough for much later. |
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12-19-14 06:14 AM
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chryoyo and Sword legion: If you guys don't want to have sex, that's power to you guys. It is commendable that you guys can do that, it takes a lot of determination and you will find that it is almost a test. Actually, it is a test according to some people. However sex is not love and I can agree with that but the aftermath of sex is not detrimental unless it is forced upon someone or if someone is too young to understand. "You like a cool toy. You see a pretty girl. So you destory it. You had sex. Then you left it there to rot. You left her with a child. That she has to raise on her own. Wouldnt it be better if you went for personality than beauty. That way this never happens." I have to disagree with that. Remember consensual sex takes two or more people. I am liberal enough to believe in and support women's rights and feminist power. Your statement automatically pit the female gender as victims. I don't view girls that way, girls are not just trash that I throw away. Girls are not automatically the victims and by always putting them in the light of being victimized will only further give society the bias that women are weak and easily preyed upon. That is not right. Our society should not have the preemptive thought that women and girls are victims. Everyone is always portraying women as being weaker and thus women are already victims in our minds before anything else. They do not need protecting all the time. It's called being independent. The thing is, your interpretation can go both ways, your way and the other way: You like a cool toy You see a hot guy. So you seduce him. You had sex. Then you left him with a fake number. You left him wanting more of your charm and scent of lavender. Wouldn't it be better if you abstained from sinning? That way this never happens. I am not trying to mock you, I am trying to prove a point. Don't tell me you have never met a guy whose heart was shattered before. Here is one right here. We have feelings too but a lot of time we are just such macho a**h***s we hide it. But listening to Babyface pour his heart out in a song for a girl who cheated is just something else you know? Sure there are definitely guys that are such total jerks who just Of course sex can never mean love but you do many other enjoyable things outside of a marriage. You kiss, you hug. You take road trips together and help pick each other's annoying zits on the back. Hell you even clean each other's pukes after getting drunk. Why is sex so detrimental you cannot enjoy it outside of a marraige? It feels good, relieves stress, burns fat, and did I say it is enjoyable? I mean I like eating sushi and going on long hikes with my gf, why is it so wrong to have sex? Its even free. So I ask myself, did I choose my gf for who she is or was it her looks. The answer is both and I think she is beautiful with or without make up inside and outside. I am not perfect, I want someone good looking but I am not so shallow that I want to be with an airhead. But who is to judge me if I do fall in love with a beautiful looking airhead that I like to copulate with? "Yeah. That's the way I look at it. While attractiveness is one part that even makes up a person, it is just one part. Most of us wouldn't mess with a girl who wasn't in our range in the first place, so if you've picked one who's reasonably attractive for you, then you can leave sex as an afterthough for much later." Biology states that we go for someone attractive because we think they will help create better offspring. That is our animal instincts to want someone attractive. The end result is mate. This is all subconscious of course. There is no need to deny it at all. If you see someone physically attractive and for the love of America, just admit to yourself that you want to bed her/him. It is always better to be true to yourself, plus not talking to girls outside of your "range" will only limit you anyways. I suggest you go and talk to some 9s and 10s and take the rejection like a man. Hell, if my self esteem was so low than I thought my self worth is only worthy of less attractive girls, I'd probably not want to have any sex with any of them either. Am I an a**h*** for being so blunt and truthful? Maybe, but I understand what lust and love is. I've been with the same girl for over 5 years and sex is still amazing. So are our hikes, cookouts, we still have a blast talking s*** about our friends and coworkers. We still play monopoly together even though she is playing Drake and my phone is blasting contemporary Chinese music. You tell me that is not love and I tell you you are stupid. I don't know Warmaker very well but for some reason I think he can relate. I can say with much confidence that girls enjoy it as much as guys, maybe even more since they got more nerve endings. I dictate what I want to do based on what I think is right, not because someone says so and certainly not because of any deity. I strive to be the shepherd, not the sheep or the sheepdog. Again, if you are going the route of abstinence, power to you, but abstinence doesn't prove love anymore than sex actually proving it. Sorry for the essay guys. I'm too lazy at this point to put a tl;dr version and it's already 4:18 am. "You like a cool toy. You see a pretty girl. So you destory it. You had sex. Then you left it there to rot. You left her with a child. That she has to raise on her own. Wouldnt it be better if you went for personality than beauty. That way this never happens." I have to disagree with that. Remember consensual sex takes two or more people. I am liberal enough to believe in and support women's rights and feminist power. Your statement automatically pit the female gender as victims. I don't view girls that way, girls are not just trash that I throw away. Girls are not automatically the victims and by always putting them in the light of being victimized will only further give society the bias that women are weak and easily preyed upon. That is not right. Our society should not have the preemptive thought that women and girls are victims. Everyone is always portraying women as being weaker and thus women are already victims in our minds before anything else. They do not need protecting all the time. It's called being independent. The thing is, your interpretation can go both ways, your way and the other way: You like a cool toy You see a hot guy. So you seduce him. You had sex. Then you left him with a fake number. You left him wanting more of your charm and scent of lavender. Wouldn't it be better if you abstained from sinning? That way this never happens. I am not trying to mock you, I am trying to prove a point. Don't tell me you have never met a guy whose heart was shattered before. Here is one right here. We have feelings too but a lot of time we are just such macho a**h***s we hide it. But listening to Babyface pour his heart out in a song for a girl who cheated is just something else you know? Sure there are definitely guys that are such total jerks who just Of course sex can never mean love but you do many other enjoyable things outside of a marriage. You kiss, you hug. You take road trips together and help pick each other's annoying zits on the back. Hell you even clean each other's pukes after getting drunk. Why is sex so detrimental you cannot enjoy it outside of a marraige? It feels good, relieves stress, burns fat, and did I say it is enjoyable? I mean I like eating sushi and going on long hikes with my gf, why is it so wrong to have sex? Its even free. So I ask myself, did I choose my gf for who she is or was it her looks. The answer is both and I think she is beautiful with or without make up inside and outside. I am not perfect, I want someone good looking but I am not so shallow that I want to be with an airhead. But who is to judge me if I do fall in love with a beautiful looking airhead that I like to copulate with? "Yeah. That's the way I look at it. While attractiveness is one part that even makes up a person, it is just one part. Most of us wouldn't mess with a girl who wasn't in our range in the first place, so if you've picked one who's reasonably attractive for you, then you can leave sex as an afterthough for much later." Biology states that we go for someone attractive because we think they will help create better offspring. That is our animal instincts to want someone attractive. The end result is mate. This is all subconscious of course. There is no need to deny it at all. If you see someone physically attractive and for the love of America, just admit to yourself that you want to bed her/him. It is always better to be true to yourself, plus not talking to girls outside of your "range" will only limit you anyways. I suggest you go and talk to some 9s and 10s and take the rejection like a man. Hell, if my self esteem was so low than I thought my self worth is only worthy of less attractive girls, I'd probably not want to have any sex with any of them either. Am I an a**h*** for being so blunt and truthful? Maybe, but I understand what lust and love is. I've been with the same girl for over 5 years and sex is still amazing. So are our hikes, cookouts, we still have a blast talking s*** about our friends and coworkers. We still play monopoly together even though she is playing Drake and my phone is blasting contemporary Chinese music. You tell me that is not love and I tell you you are stupid. I don't know Warmaker very well but for some reason I think he can relate. I can say with much confidence that girls enjoy it as much as guys, maybe even more since they got more nerve endings. I dictate what I want to do based on what I think is right, not because someone says so and certainly not because of any deity. I strive to be the shepherd, not the sheep or the sheepdog. Again, if you are going the route of abstinence, power to you, but abstinence doesn't prove love anymore than sex actually proving it. Sorry for the essay guys. I'm too lazy at this point to put a tl;dr version and it's already 4:18 am. |
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