Hey.
I can't put swear words in the title can I? Yeah, didn't think so.
Relationships were caused by the devil.
If you've ever been in a young relationship, ended by useless sh**, then you'll understand what I'm saying.
Basically, my life has turned from pretty good, to living hell.
Let me just tell you, when you start a relationship, no matter how much you love each other, stuff can happen.
I'm single now.
Anyone looking for a mate?
What isn't supposed to happen is that when someone breaks up with you, they don't shove another gosh darn boy in your face an hour later and say "Meet my new boyfriend!", as you're only reaction would be a simple f*** you, which will just make things worse.
I'm tired of this.
I f***ing loved that girl with my entire heart.
And now, I'm left with nothing but a ton of s***ty memories in my mind.
It'll be a while before anything can come back to me.
F*** love.

lol you're just young, you'll get over it soon and find a new girlfriend/boyfriend

I disagree with the "you're just young."  You're experiencing something for the first time and the emotions are extremely strong.  Loss is extremely hurtful.  I was where you are with a few different circumstances but I had a new boyfriend paraded in front of me by the girl that dumped me.  And I wasn't mean or hurtful or hateful towards her.  It was like, "What did I do to deserve this?"  I was perfectly nice and she just took it another direction.

It sucks, man.  It sucks especially when you can see them regularly and she waves the other guy around like a damned flag trying to get your attention.

The toughest part is realizing that things go wrong.  The best part is realizing that she is doing this now to you.  She'll probably do this to that guy, and the next one and the next one.  You're lucky because you're out and you're free and once you feel better she won't mean anything to you.  Decide to hate her and everything about her and don't let her back in your life.  She doesn't deserve your attention or feelings or thoughts.

It sounds impossible but practice.  Think of the way she treats you.  Let that anger build up.  When you see her, pretend she doesn't exist.  Be joyous because you are strong and she has zero control over you.  You can go about your life and not be accountable to this chick.

My first real love squished me like a worm.  I know how it is.  I'm better.  I'm married, I'm in love with an insanely beautiful woman who never makes me wonder or worry when she's not around.  I have complete faith in her.  She's in bed waiting for me to finish this so we can go to sleep with the dog.

It gets better, bro.  Don't believe me if you don't want to but you'll be fine.  You're lucky you're not stuck with a terrible girl any more.  Good for you.

I remember in like 6th grade I had a "girlfriend" (quotation marks because it was 6th grade). Despite the fact that I was like 11, I really did care for this girl. Then one day, she just broke up with me out of nowhere. I was pretty crushed. Then I see her hanging out with her new "boyfriend", the only kid in the entire school that I hate. Anyway, what I am saying is, it sucks at first. I get it. But it does get better. You will find someone else. Or maybe she will apologize and come running back to you, you never know. Girls are strange. Good luck and try not to punch anything

That's the problem with love, One minute you can be on top of the world carefree, the next a miserable wreck that can't stand life. 

It really does suck when it happens, and i know the pain you are in now. But your heart can heal and eventually you'll find someone else that you get on with rather well. 

I mean i was destroyed when my ex split up with me, I mean it was a decent 3 year relationship and we did a lot of things in that time. But one day she just turned around and said she didn't think it would work out anymore.. 

A couple of years later i meet a very amazing girl who goes by the alias of styrofoamboots and we just start talking.. I mean i can't even remember how it happened it just did... It probably had something to do with lily though..

Essentially what I'm trying to say is that just because this relationship ended badly, Does not mean you won't find love in another again. 

Just try to live in the present and not the past for now.

This also has to do with the maturity as well where people in high school just want to "fit in" with others even if it means turning to the dark side. You're still in your teenager stage and this happens a lot in high school.

I remember with my first relationship that I ended up having lots of arguments over the littlest things to point of me getting dumped. The relationship didn't even last long. I was depressed for a good five months straight and I didn't go outside except for two times in total and going to school (I usually go out at least twice a week in general) . The good thing is that me and my ex understand each other that we are going to different separate paths and we don't even talk to each other anymore. That was the worst first time with a relationship for me but I learned a lot from it and moved on. We have our own private businesses in our lives.

It isn't fair to be treated so bad but soon, you won't see her as much or not all when you graduate and move on with your life. Most importantly, time heals all wounds! Your mind needs to accept the fact that you need to move on and explore more for your future. The cliche quote that you get from people: there are plenty of fish in the sea. The truth is that there are better people out there that won't hurt you mentally and physically. It will get better in the future, man. The point of your life is to keep exploring and discover who/what means to you on long terms.

We have all been in your shoes right now at some point in our lives and we are offering you our advice and wisdom for a reason. We have all been there. Heal, move on, and then explore more in your life like what everyone else is doing.

Barathemos : Hahaha! Really, I don't mean to laugh but it just sounded really funny! But I'm one of the rare ones. I'm batting 1000 in my life, and I will always bat 1000. I've known my current wife since high school, and yeah we've had our share of fights and arguments and whatever. Ever since we've been married, we rarely fight about anything anymore. She is the only girl I've ever dated and "had relations" with, and she will always be the ONLY one.


In my opinion, if you're looking for somebody to spend a long time with, you BOTH just have to know it. You have to spend enough time with each other to know each other's tendencies, like how quickly a normal conversation can turn into an argument, or how quick your temper is. Its really hard to explain how to exactly find "the one" but that's the best I got. I've never been wrong before. I've never been dumped or turned away or whatever you want to call it. I don't mean to be original, but there's plenty of other fish in the sea, right? Just try and move on buddy...