(I wasn't sure what subforum to put this under.) So. There has always been "that guy". The one that is always a jerk, no matter what in and out of school issues he has. Well, I have encountered "that guy". I need help. The annoyance comes in the form of a boy named, let's say, B. Now, I know B has some issues. He has "momma trauma" where he isn't in the greatest terms with his mother, and it doesn't help everyone always makes fun of him because he is Jewish. (I do not, yet he seems to hate me most?) By being a jerk to everyone, B is only bringing attention to his own issues, which leads him to being made fun of.
Now, I always try to tolerate everyone. We got along ok, and became friends. At some point or another, he had a sudden change of heart, for no reason at all. I became the target of his torment. He seemed to have the most "fun" when messing with me. It was a nuisance, sure, but this recent incident has me worried, angry, and somewhat scared.
Today, all of our friends are at lunch. We eat together, though B sits with us. My friends are M, K, and J. I got up to buy a snack, and when I got back, my lunchbox was gone. I questioned my friends who "knew nothing". Eventually, B got up to "get a binder from his locker". At this point, it was already painstakingly clear he had it. I felt like chasing him, but I knew it would be to no avail. He came back, and the rest of lunch pretty much passed with me trying to find any shred of evidence as to where he put it.
Lunch ends. He tells me this; "I wanted to break into your locker and plant it there, but the school cameras would have caught me. I put it into G's (another friend) locker instead." We go to get it, and I swear he puts in the wrong combination 4-5 times before we're almost late to math. After math, he said, he would get it back.
Fast forward to after my math class. The day is over. I'm waiting by G's locker, when G arrives a few minutes later. Obviously annoyed at this point, I watch as he opens the locker. It isn't in there. I'm in a frenzy now. I'm going ballistic when he starts laughing so hard he was going to pop (the fatty!), and points at R (Obviously not so friendly with him at this point), who's holding a camera. He filmed the whole thing on B's phone, who wants to humiliate me. On top of that, I'm cursing religiously during the video. (I've kind of had enough with him.)
So now I'm in a predicament. Every time I offer friendship to him, he spits it at my feet, all while using the whole dictionary of derogatory terms and thieving. I need advice. And has anyone else been through a horrible situation with a bully? (I wasn't sure what subforum to put this under.) So. There has always been "that guy". The one that is always a jerk, no matter what in and out of school issues he has. Well, I have encountered "that guy". I need help. The annoyance comes in the form of a boy named, let's say, B. Now, I know B has some issues. He has "momma trauma" where he isn't in the greatest terms with his mother, and it doesn't help everyone always makes fun of him because he is Jewish. (I do not, yet he seems to hate me most?) By being a jerk to everyone, B is only bringing attention to his own issues, which leads him to being made fun of.
Now, I always try to tolerate everyone. We got along ok, and became friends. At some point or another, he had a sudden change of heart, for no reason at all. I became the target of his torment. He seemed to have the most "fun" when messing with me. It was a nuisance, sure, but this recent incident has me worried, angry, and somewhat scared.
Today, all of our friends are at lunch. We eat together, though B sits with us. My friends are M, K, and J. I got up to buy a snack, and when I got back, my lunchbox was gone. I questioned my friends who "knew nothing". Eventually, B got up to "get a binder from his locker". At this point, it was already painstakingly clear he had it. I felt like chasing him, but I knew it would be to no avail. He came back, and the rest of lunch pretty much passed with me trying to find any shred of evidence as to where he put it.
Lunch ends. He tells me this; "I wanted to break into your locker and plant it there, but the school cameras would have caught me. I put it into G's (another friend) locker instead." We go to get it, and I swear he puts in the wrong combination 4-5 times before we're almost late to math. After math, he said, he would get it back.
Fast forward to after my math class. The day is over. I'm waiting by G's locker, when G arrives a few minutes later. Obviously annoyed at this point, I watch as he opens the locker. It isn't in there. I'm in a frenzy now. I'm going ballistic when he starts laughing so hard he was going to pop (the fatty!), and points at R (Obviously not so friendly with him at this point), who's holding a camera. He filmed the whole thing on B's phone, who wants to humiliate me. On top of that, I'm cursing religiously during the video. (I've kind of had enough with him.)
So now I'm in a predicament. Every time I offer friendship to him, he spits it at my feet, all while using the whole dictionary of derogatory terms and thieving. I need advice. And has anyone else been through a horrible situation with a bully? |