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07-23-13 10:14 AM
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Alright, yesterday I had to go to my segment 2 class for drivers ed. I get into the class and of the 10 girls 8 of them were wearing shorts less than my middle finger I would guess. Not even kidding their shorts were only like 3 inches long. Is it just me who finds this country is getting out of hand and is just teaching our youngest generations to flaunt around your body and "show it off"? To me its just sickening. I would never let my daughter, and I asked my girlfriend to keep it a certain length. Does anyone else agree?
Alright, yesterday I had to go to my segment 2 class for drivers ed. I get into the class and of the 10 girls 8 of them were wearing shorts less than my middle finger I would guess. Not even kidding their shorts were only like 3 inches long. Is it just me who finds this country is getting out of hand and is just teaching our youngest generations to flaunt around your body and "show it off"? To me its just sickening. I would never let my daughter, and I asked my girlfriend to keep it a certain length. Does anyone else agree?
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Yeah. I never saw that in elementary school, but I always see these 14-year-old girls wearing really small shorts. I think it's pretty stupid and ridiculous.
Yeah. I never saw that in elementary school, but I always see these 14-year-old girls wearing really small shorts. I think it's pretty stupid and ridiculous.
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 agree completely, I think it has just really gone down hill with the way kids these days express themselves and they dress trashy and it really sets off a bad vibe. I have to put up with this every day at school and seeing every person walk around dressed all ghetto and girls wearing sweat pants to school and wearing ugly guy shoes, it is hideous, I am not saying you have to come to school in a tuxedo and ball gown, but do you really have to come to school and look like a hobo? At least try to look nice



I think it is ridiculous, I mean have some respect for yourself. The last thing you want is to come off as some slob or some ghetto person and if you dress that way nowadays you will get treated in the same way. I know exactly what you are talking about and I am disgusted at the way people dress now, especially in school, that is what I don't like anybody in my school because they are all ugly and they dress like they rolled right out of a dark alley or off the street. It is disgusting and I really thing that it is ridiculous with how bad it has gotten.
 agree completely, I think it has just really gone down hill with the way kids these days express themselves and they dress trashy and it really sets off a bad vibe. I have to put up with this every day at school and seeing every person walk around dressed all ghetto and girls wearing sweat pants to school and wearing ugly guy shoes, it is hideous, I am not saying you have to come to school in a tuxedo and ball gown, but do you really have to come to school and look like a hobo? At least try to look nice



I think it is ridiculous, I mean have some respect for yourself. The last thing you want is to come off as some slob or some ghetto person and if you dress that way nowadays you will get treated in the same way. I know exactly what you are talking about and I am disgusted at the way people dress now, especially in school, that is what I don't like anybody in my school because they are all ugly and they dress like they rolled right out of a dark alley or off the street. It is disgusting and I really thing that it is ridiculous with how bad it has gotten.
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They're looking for attention and showing skin in this country is one way to do it.  Don't blame the girls, they just see it on tv, the internet, video games, everywhere, and they go with it.  It's what they're taught.

Honestly tell me that anyone, as a male, does not enjoy seeing girls in short shorts?  At least if you are interested in females.  If you're into guys, I buy that and you're right, I apologize.  But some guys don't want to see girls?  Huh.

lastly, you tell your girlfriend how to dress?  How's that working for you?  Does it make for a healthy and fun relationship if she can't wear clothes she likes because you tell her?
They're looking for attention and showing skin in this country is one way to do it.  Don't blame the girls, they just see it on tv, the internet, video games, everywhere, and they go with it.  It's what they're taught.

Honestly tell me that anyone, as a male, does not enjoy seeing girls in short shorts?  At least if you are interested in females.  If you're into guys, I buy that and you're right, I apologize.  But some guys don't want to see girls?  Huh.

lastly, you tell your girlfriend how to dress?  How's that working for you?  Does it make for a healthy and fun relationship if she can't wear clothes she likes because you tell her?
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Sigh...This isn't the first time I've heard a story or saw anything having to do with that sort of fashion. I really don't get how dressing like that would be any good.
Sigh...This isn't the first time I've heard a story or saw anything having to do with that sort of fashion. I really don't get how dressing like that would be any good.
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malkin77 : All the girls at school who do this are the not-so-bright ones. The ones addicted to fashion. This has too much sex appeal, so I think this world is corrupt. (Did you know the IQ of America is 13% lower than the 19th century?)
malkin77 : All the girls at school who do this are the not-so-bright ones. The ones addicted to fashion. This has too much sex appeal, so I think this world is corrupt. (Did you know the IQ of America is 13% lower than the 19th century?)
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Well judging from the way people act out in public and the way they dress I think words like Self respect and Modesty fly out the window when it comes to describing people in the united states. 
Well judging from the way people act out in public and the way they dress I think words like Self respect and Modesty fly out the window when it comes to describing people in the united states. 
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I'm a guy but at least I know how to dress better than the girls of the generation after mine. I don't really have much hope honestly.
I'm a guy but at least I know how to dress better than the girls of the generation after mine. I don't really have much hope honestly.
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PixelBrick : You do know that people are becoming sex addicts at an earlier age then they use to?
PixelBrick : You do know that people are becoming sex addicts at an earlier age then they use to?
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Of course things are getting worse. This modern culture is all about freedom and doing whatever it is you want, no rules, no one tells you what to do.

So I am not surprised, I think it's ridiculous how much inappropriate things are getting... but it makes sense. You want attention, you know guys like skin, so show it. Stupid, but it's name of the game.

And wait a second... you tell your girlfriend to cover up? That's quite funny... and sad.


warmaker : Everything you said is bang on.
Of course things are getting worse. This modern culture is all about freedom and doing whatever it is you want, no rules, no one tells you what to do.

So I am not surprised, I think it's ridiculous how much inappropriate things are getting... but it makes sense. You want attention, you know guys like skin, so show it. Stupid, but it's name of the game.

And wait a second... you tell your girlfriend to cover up? That's quite funny... and sad.


warmaker : Everything you said is bang on.
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Light Knight : no not like that, i mean if we are at school or out in public i asked her not to be wearing something that hides as much as her panties. Not like if we are alone or in a private area.
Light Knight : no not like that, i mean if we are at school or out in public i asked her not to be wearing something that hides as much as her panties. Not like if we are alone or in a private area.
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malkin77 : I was talking about in public, but who am I to judge anyway. I suppose if you have a honest and open talk with your GF about what she wears in public effects how you feel, a good woman would understand and want to make you feel comfortable.
malkin77 : I was talking about in public, but who am I to judge anyway. I suppose if you have a honest and open talk with your GF about what she wears in public effects how you feel, a good woman would understand and want to make you feel comfortable.
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It exists. But its in a VERY small minority....I weep for my generation. I mean really, how hard is it to just put on some decent clothes?
It exists. But its in a VERY small minority....I weep for my generation. I mean really, how hard is it to just put on some decent clothes?
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Well I do not live there but I am sure that there are some self respecting people there. They might be hard to find or easier than you think. The world is a mysterious place.
Well I do not live there but I am sure that there are some self respecting people there. They might be hard to find or easier than you think. The world is a mysterious place.
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I have to agree with most of posts that i've read here thus far. Modesty and self-respect are, to a point, dying out. There are still people that have such things but are few in numbers, kinda like chivalry. Its a shame that culture has turned this way and girls are given these kind of examples to go by when it comes to dressing or getting attention. The way they act is just ridiculous and I will never get how and why we've come to this as being acceptable at this point since its all over the place.

Just the other day there was a girl in my college class with the shortest of shorts i've ever seen and we were doing a little around the room, the whole deal of telling our names and a little about ourselves and we finally get to this girl. She stands up, tells us her name, says she loves nothing but to have fun and party and that she's obsessed with "twerking". I don't think my head has ever hit a desk that hard in my life. It's just sad...
I have to agree with most of posts that i've read here thus far. Modesty and self-respect are, to a point, dying out. There are still people that have such things but are few in numbers, kinda like chivalry. Its a shame that culture has turned this way and girls are given these kind of examples to go by when it comes to dressing or getting attention. The way they act is just ridiculous and I will never get how and why we've come to this as being acceptable at this point since its all over the place.

Just the other day there was a girl in my college class with the shortest of shorts i've ever seen and we were doing a little around the room, the whole deal of telling our names and a little about ourselves and we finally get to this girl. She stands up, tells us her name, says she loves nothing but to have fun and party and that she's obsessed with "twerking". I don't think my head has ever hit a desk that hard in my life. It's just sad...
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First let's make a joke.... According to Miley Cyrus self respect is lame and you should be like her....ew ok on to the serious stuff.
I mean there aren't many girls out there with self respect but they are still out there somewhere, if you're still in Highschool just get right through it or try to meet girls that go to other schools, I always found that girls in a different school were easier to date.
Once you get out of Highschool things really change, and than you can really search for and focus on a girl worth spending time with.
I feel like it's always nice to have something to look at from time to time as well, so although I wished every person accepted and respected their selves and their bodies, I can't complain every time a girl hates her dad and throws on some s***ty clothes at the clubs or out i public, lol.
First let's make a joke.... According to Miley Cyrus self respect is lame and you should be like her....ew ok on to the serious stuff.
I mean there aren't many girls out there with self respect but they are still out there somewhere, if you're still in Highschool just get right through it or try to meet girls that go to other schools, I always found that girls in a different school were easier to date.
Once you get out of Highschool things really change, and than you can really search for and focus on a girl worth spending time with.
I feel like it's always nice to have something to look at from time to time as well, so although I wished every person accepted and respected their selves and their bodies, I can't complain every time a girl hates her dad and throws on some s***ty clothes at the clubs or out i public, lol.
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Unfortunately, despite being female, I don't understand what most of the girls in my generation are thinking in terms of how they dress. In the case of gym pants, for those of us who like being able to run around and keep up with the guys without the restrictions of jeans (since most of them are too doggone tight) that makes sense. Just because it's not 'girly' shouldn't have it considered as us not caring about how we appear, but on how comfortable we are in daily life. For shorts, I agree on how appallingly short they are. While I do say the media they see teaches them poorly, it is their choice on how they dress. Since my family raised me on older music, I was spared the influence until my personality had developed a dislike for the common perception on what is 'cool.' Since there are a lot of influences on the choices of teens, I can't really say that the future generations will mimic them, but also don't know how appalled they might be. We'll just have to wait and see, for better or for worse.
Unfortunately, despite being female, I don't understand what most of the girls in my generation are thinking in terms of how they dress. In the case of gym pants, for those of us who like being able to run around and keep up with the guys without the restrictions of jeans (since most of them are too doggone tight) that makes sense. Just because it's not 'girly' shouldn't have it considered as us not caring about how we appear, but on how comfortable we are in daily life. For shorts, I agree on how appallingly short they are. While I do say the media they see teaches them poorly, it is their choice on how they dress. Since my family raised me on older music, I was spared the influence until my personality had developed a dislike for the common perception on what is 'cool.' Since there are a lot of influences on the choices of teens, I can't really say that the future generations will mimic them, but also don't know how appalled they might be. We'll just have to wait and see, for better or for worse.
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It's good for the male eye, but it is not very morale. It's a shame most girls become s***s, and usually the sexy ones. Men don't like them, they just want sexual activity from them. 

This does take some dignity to throw out the window, If I was a girl I would be embarrassed to expose, I would hate being perved up.

It's only the pop stars that put them under the influence that less is more cloth wise. Miley Cyrus is one the worst cases, she went from being Hannah Montana to a wild twerking freak!!

Only good music comes from the song, not the blinking Music Video!!
It's good for the male eye, but it is not very morale. It's a shame most girls become s***s, and usually the sexy ones. Men don't like them, they just want sexual activity from them. 

This does take some dignity to throw out the window, If I was a girl I would be embarrassed to expose, I would hate being perved up.

It's only the pop stars that put them under the influence that less is more cloth wise. Miley Cyrus is one the worst cases, she went from being Hannah Montana to a wild twerking freak!!

Only good music comes from the song, not the blinking Music Video!!
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I'll never understand this "need" to expose flesh. If they want to dress like a hooker, they're welcome to do so but they can't b**** when men treat them as such.

Personally I am of the view that it's called "underwear" for a reason.

To balance this topic out let's talk about male s***s:
One thing I hate seeing about guys is when they have their trousers so far down their arse cheeks that I could practically smack their arse with my hand without touching their trousers. I so want to ask them if they really want a spanking that badly that they're practically showing off their arse.
I'll never understand this "need" to expose flesh. If they want to dress like a hooker, they're welcome to do so but they can't b**** when men treat them as such.

Personally I am of the view that it's called "underwear" for a reason.

To balance this topic out let's talk about male s***s:
One thing I hate seeing about guys is when they have their trousers so far down their arse cheeks that I could practically smack their arse with my hand without touching their trousers. I so want to ask them if they really want a spanking that badly that they're practically showing off their arse.
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This is a 50/50 issue for me. On the one hand, I do enjoy seeing women dress this way but I believe that I've been programmed by the media through desensitization. It's the same with violence, few things shock me anymore. In both situations I have very little trouble using my imagination. On the other hand, I wish it didn't have to be like this but what can be done. In this day and age forcing people to do things the way you want them to has disastrous and complicated results.
This is a 50/50 issue for me. On the one hand, I do enjoy seeing women dress this way but I believe that I've been programmed by the media through desensitization. It's the same with violence, few things shock me anymore. In both situations I have very little trouble using my imagination. On the other hand, I wish it didn't have to be like this but what can be done. In this day and age forcing people to do things the way you want them to has disastrous and complicated results.
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